Originally posted by: aryapdane
I hadn't replied to this earlier because you had specifically quoted someone's post but now that I gather this is addressed to all and sundry, I find that I have a few points to make myself.
The first thing you say is "people who like PraShiv needs to be given a reality check". I'm sorry but I don't understand why you'd have to phrase it in this manner. The choice of your words carry the connotation that people who are watching this show have no concept of reality. I don't appreciate being talked down to in this manner, especially when it comes to ITV shows or romance because this is just giving into the misogynistic ideas of our society that any woman who consumes romance content has no idea about the reality of how the world functions, that such a woman is gullible and unable to identify wrong behaviour from men because in her mind she has equated such behaviours as love. I hope that this was unintentional on your part.
Secondly, you said that Shivansh wouldn't have gone to save Prathana if not for Preeta telling him. That is a plot point. Shivansh didn't know where Prathana was so the writers would need a plot device to make the information available to him. And after he found out, he did go. Another point you made was that he wasn't ready to help Prathana the moment Preeta called. Now if we see that scene, Preeta didn't start the conversation with the information that Prathana had been kidnapped. She gave her introduction instead. And the moment Shivansh learnt that she was kidnapped, he asked for Preeta's location.
The third thing was when you said he gave some "scripted" dialogues about the duties or role of a husband. Well, all the dialogues are scripted. It isn't like Shivansh, the character whipped out his phone, asked gpt to give him the speech about 'the art of being a husband' that he later read out to those goons. And about him practicing what he preaches, you yourself said that he has saved her from getting trafficked, right? The idea that he didn't defend Prathana in front of Bua Maa has nothing to do with this speech. We can't retrofit this speech to criticize every scene that happened before it, can we? What he did in his conversations with Bua Maa was wrong and I'm sure the members on this thread pointed that out when those scenes were being discussed.
Look, I don't want to counter everything you said here but my broad point is that you should give us some credit. Upto this point in the story, Shivansh isn't toxic. Yes, he has deceived Prathana by marrying her the way he did. Yes, he didn't consider her feelings in all this. But his actions don't come from a place of misogyny. He doesn't inherently think that women are inferior and therefore, their feelings and choices don't matter. He has made mistakes. His logic is flawed. But he is very much capable of being redeemed. That is the journey we're here to see. So far, the writers are crafting the story accordingly. When that is no longer the case and you still see me defending Shivansh, please feel free to give me a reality check then.
Regards,
Arya
First of all stop putting words in my mouth all right.Did I refer to any specific gender or did I refer to any women in the society having no reality about romance or romantic shows etc huh? I would appreciate if you stick to the point of the character of Shivansh and stop misquoting me or putting such weird connotations of misogynistic ideas on my shoulders which looks illogical and baseless to say the least.Who are you to quote such wrong ideas on my behalf?
Second getting back to Shivansh or about the phrase Reality Check.I stand by that because certain people on this forum like Shivansh or Prashiv and are supporting him which is allright but I have pointed out the character's flaws bcoz I have seen such revenge type character RV myself who I liked pretty much but that doesn't mean that me or anybody else for that matter don't have the right to point out the flaws in such a character.
Thirdly Shivansh going on to save Prathana from the gang of human traffickers when Preeta informed him being a plot point well it's upto the CV's who have executed that scene itself.My basic POV is when you are introducing a revenge driven or an intelligent grey type character who has married a woman by deceit I hoped to see Shivansh depute his own manpower to search Prathana and not wait for someone's call to inform him about the location.Shivansh helped only when Preeta sounded desparate on the phone otherwise he wouldnt have bothered to check on his wife that's the basic storyline which cannot be ignored all right howsoever someone might try to defend his actions.
I know all the promos or dialogues are scripted and you don't need to remind that to me.I said the word scripted bcoz his defense of the husband being the shield or protecting his wife from every danger lacked the conviction and the intensity in his eyes.Moot point is the ML character who preaches that he will stand by his wife against the world and every damn danger there should be scenes which depicts that ML character is willing to above and beyond to save the FL character.
I don't know whether you have watched Ritik or Veer from any Naagin season or let's say Sid of Satya from Jamai Raja.When Veer or Ritik or Maahir said to their respective mates that they will move heaven and earth come what may to protect their wives the scene looked real and it portrayed a character who looked damn serious about doing anything possible to protect their wives.Does Shivansh have the same conviction-I doubt but hope he proves me wrong.Also.Ritik Maahir or any other above mentioned ML character proved it not only by their words but by their actions too.
Shivansh does not like or love Prathana and yeah his behaviour is toxic towards her.Toxicity doesn't mean to physically hurt someone sometimes words or views sooken through the mouth are the greatest weapon itself.Shivansh stating that he's least bothered what Prathana feels regarding the deceit done by him shows his shallowness which is indefensible.RV was different from him bcoz he always asked for Purvi's consent before marrying her even though that was also a form of deceit only.RV's actions were not toxic to Purvi.
I have stated before that I appreciate Shivansh's actions of saving her but this could have been done by Raunak too in his place as Prarthana's husband.Just bcoz he saves her does not mean that he's goody type two shoes.His actions are villanious and his character progression lacks the depth.What does he want exactly? He himself said to Bua Maa that he wanted to tell Prathana to get Smita out of that jail which looks understandable bcoz one thing cannot be denied that Shivansh still looks upto Smita as his own mother inspite of her vile actions.
Shivansh stated himself that he wanted to take revenge from Smita by marrying Prarthana.How does that complete his revenge? Infact Smita would be more than happy that Shivansh married Prathana bcoz she wanted Prarthana out of her son's Raunak life at any cost.Smita planned to switch the groom at the wedding altar with Prathana getting married to that goon Bhavesh.Shivansh saved Prathana unknowingly but he turned out to be a carbon copy his own mom Smita by ditching Prathana.So what's the difference between Smita and Shivansh then?
And you defend Shivansh stating that his actions don't come from a point of misogyny really? And his character doesn't think that women are inferior really? That's why he married an innocent woman by deceit and ditched her to the streets at late night where she was kidnapped by a pair of human traffickers huh.His logic being flawed doesn't excuse his past actions.
Yes his character might redeem itself but why does it require Prathana to change him?Can't Shivansh do that himself for Prathana? Prathana has to be in danger everytime going by your logic to bring out the good side of Shivansh.A wedding is never a joke though it might be treated like a joke by the CV's.A wedding is not only a reunion of two souls but it binds the two families together.
That's why I stated that I hoped that Shivansh looks out for Prathana.Prathana has no ally except Gayatri or Preeta to name a few in the serial.The vamp and the villain side looks locked and loaded with Payal/Bhavesh/Smita also add Sonalika to the mix.
Raunak also has to turn negative for the love story of Prathana and Shivansh.When you have so many villains or vamps gunning for a single woman you need a Sharp and intelligent ML character who would defend the woman at all cost.
I hope Shivansh listens to Prathana and supports her at every point in her character journey.Prathana will automatically start to trust her husband if he stands by her.
Love and trust is earned it does not happen automatically unless it's love at first sight between the lead couple.Shivansh needs to really start caring about Prathana if at all the CV's want to develop any sort of love story between the two.
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