16th november

Happy Sunday morning and thank you Annie❤️. I am sorry if I will be getting on anyone's nerves by writing the review on Friday's episode. But I feel strongly enough, I needed to write.

What did we really get out of Pragya's angry, justified and emotional outburst? Pragya and us got an admonishment from Abhi that we are irrational and incoherent to think of the obvious, that she actually factors in as the "doosri aurat" 💔😭👎🏼in the equation he so eloquently changed to suit HIS who knows what? That we are pond scum to even think of him as somebody who would entertain a " doosri aurat". Because she is his first love, first ehsaas, first whatever, first inspiration, and his FIRST BELONGING whom he threw away as far as he could and is entitled to do anything with her and himself, NO QUESTIONS SHOULD BE ASKED. What is my mistake, he asks with such a straight face😡😲💔 and Pragya remains speechless😡💔👎🏼 So we are now back to flirting in the capacity of a "married guy" to the world with a vomit who wears MS, Kumkum, as bahu of the house , demanding haqs which HE doesn't give😕 and Pragya who is the cast away wife, who is NOT THE DOOSRI AURAT. So what is she to him? I really don't know but NOT WIFE, NOT DOOSRI AURAT👎🏼.

I would have let all of this mess go, if not for my social responsibility that came calling. I am hopping mad at how these twisted words were so smoothly delivered by a good looking male lead to a woman to manipulate her emotions. These words may not affect most of us who are mature enough to understand that these are a load of crap. But what about that adolescent who is currently standing at cross-roads with these very words being spoken to her, by a married guy " I don't love my wife and hence don't consider that a marriage, nor do I give her haqs, but I love YOU, you are my love, inspiration, ehsaas, a rose or whatever else and hence I have all kinds of haqs on you, and the fact that you are belittling my love for you is devastating me and our relationship" with tears in eyes, pathetic expression on the face. Just imagine this guys, and if the guy says " I don't think I need to get out of my marriage for us to be together, because I don't consider that as one, as I don't love the current wife", but you need to make a decision, agree to my proposal to be with me, BECAUSE YOU NEED TO CONSIDER MY LOVE TO YOU AND THAT ALONE IS IMPORTANT. Just imagine the plight of that young, vulnerable woman who thinks she is the center of the greatest love story that is unfolding on this planet and does agree to the ' UNTHINKABLE SACRIFICE' of her life, heart, soul, family and chastity to that HYPOCRITE MARRIED GUY. I am sorry to be as crude as this, I have seen many a consequence of this above scenario, unwanted pregnancy, the guy long gone, living happily with the wife, the second woman agonizing whether to keep the baby or more devastatingly attempting to end the pregnancy by nefarious, dangerous and unsafe means💔👎🏼. The WRITERS ARE PROVIDING AMMUNITION TO UNSCRUPULOUS GUYS OUT THERE THROUGH THE MALE LEAD OF THE SHOW. For the record, I am not calling Abhi doing any of these, just pointing out how this can affect some naive viewers😲

Sorry people, this is NOT love. This is being unscrupulous, hypocritical, cunning and shrewd, so he doesn't give up anything, won't change a thing about his life, his mxxx, his wxxx, but is asking Pragya to come to him leaving her 7 years of life she might have painstakingly built after complete devastation caused by him😡 Based on what? TRUST? HIM? The guy who couldn't keep his daadi or his wife safe and secure? The guy who could never keep his promises to her? The guy who could never throw out and end the chapter of vomit from his life despite having a loving wife? The very same guy, who admonished and lectured Pragya about not giving it back to vomit, meekly says to her " leave me alone"😡🤢. If this guy is a true lover who cares for Pragya's soul i.e if he knows how much she values her integrity, why doesn't he pounce on vomit and tear her up for saying those disgusting things to the love of his life, even in the privacy of his room? 😡💔 👎🏼This guy is a total disappointment when it comes to any action supporting his "love of his life" and going against the vomit. 😡I am thankful that they didn't show Pragya jump up in joy and do what he asked her to do.

I was told again and again, not to count on the writers, producers, directors or the actors thinking about social responsibility. But I had to put my two cents in, for those who might read this. Please don't be fooled by emotional and sensitive portrayal of Abhi by Shabir, please look at the actions and words for what they are. Just because these words are uttered by a good looking male lead, they are not right, respectful or justified. Even if I am able to influence, one person and avoid grave mistakes in their lives, I feel that it is worth my time.

Sorry Annie if I spoilt your space here. May be I should again start living as an ostrich not bothering about this show😃That is it from me.

Have a good rest of the weekend!

Abhi did not bother to investigate a similar fire accident in the kitchen with PRagya earlier and again he is not going to do anything, there was another fire incident in the kitchen when Simonica was there, so for Abhi anything can happen in his house but he will start his life again afresh after each accident without caring the least about it.