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Posted: 8 years ago
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Abhi doesn't mind Tanu loving money and giving more importance to it. Tanu being gold digger isn't much disturbing to him. But in the beginning of the show, Abhi agreed to marry Pragya who was supposed to be a gold digger and teach her a lesson. Tanu being a gold digger is not a problem but Pragya being a golddigger was considered a crime. This phrase might sound funny but I couldn't phrase it better. What's Abhi's stand on gold diggers?
P.S. Please no bashing of characters. I just wanted to know about Abhi's POV.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok Nive...maybe for Abhi...Tanu is once a struggling model. She struugle to make a name for herself. Struggle??? Maybe not...haha. But he looked at Tanu as some who works to achieve her status (supermodel...cough...cough...). But, as in Pragya, Abhi doesn't know her background. She was just pictured as someone who traps somebody for money. Dang!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, Nivz, he knew very well what a golddigger Tanu was. And upto a point in the show, when Abhi actually spent time with his girlfriend, he knew she was capable of being malicious and cruel and mean-spirited (since he was part of that trio with Aalu and Tanu). And yet he still wanted to marry her because of Daadi's insistence-it didn't bug him so much.
Yet, when he heard his baby sister isn't getting the love of her life because of another supposed gold-digger, it enraged him and so he did whatever he thought was "the way" to get Purab back to Aalu, not considering what Purgya's feelings or relationship could really be.

He had a hypocritical stance to gold-digging basically. It was okay unless it was affecting the most important person in his life--> Aalu.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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When I searched in Google for the definition of gold digger I found this.

"A woman who forms relationships with men purely to obtain money or gifts from them"

This is what abhi thought of Pragya in the beginning of the show.
She traps men for money and than leave them after finding a better man.

She trapped Purab and after getting a better man she left him and said yes to marry Abhi because Abhi is more rich.

I don't remember one scene which proves Tanu is like the Pragya Abhi believed.

For Abhi Tanu was never a gold digger, she wasn't a criminal.
She was a very good girl, a successful model and someone one who loves him. He targeted Pragya and tried to take revenge because he believed she was a bad girl.

Later part of the show he knew Tanu will do stupid stuff and annoying things but he never had a chance to know how much a criminal and gold digger she is.

Well, atleast I don't see any scenes which shows Tanu as a criminal or gold digger go Abhi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Abhi - Tanu - Alia plans.

Abhi was very well part of it. He knew what he was doing and why he was doing.

Most of the plans were by Alia. It was Alia who was Trapping Pragya as a stealer.

In that scene when Tanu cards fell down. Abhi tells Pragya they are all her cards. Look at the name, I dint give her.

Accoring to the soap Abhi was crazy about Tanu's beauty in the beginning of the show. He used to meet her and take her for dates.

Tanu rejected marrying Abhi for her career. Tanu came back because she realised her career is nothing without Abhi, she told him I am leaving everything you are more important. Let's get married.

It was Alia decision to get Abhi married to Pragya and that will even give Tanu some time for her career.

After that Tanu never got caught for any of her crimes.

She was with him even when he had Nothing.

Abhi dint know her as a gold digger at all except the one day when Tanu truth was revealed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't see Abhi having an ideology on this:)! I mean he's a case by case kinda guy, no one rule for all.

I don't think he saw Tanu as a gold digger because she's from a rich family and was earning in crores as arhe nation's top model. He knew she was money minded, but he was ok with it because he was like that.

His main problem with Pragya was she stole Purab. When he and Aliya saw Pragya's horoscope with dadi, they assumed she was a gold digger who'll swindle Purab and marry Abhi next.

Obviously he misunderstood both Tanu and Pragya.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So I kinda watch the show in a different perspective. Its not according to the soap, its according to the viewer. 😃
So in my POV, Abhi and Tanu were just casually dating each other. He thought she was a model, part of his celeb world, and she wanted all the benefits of being his girlfriend. The whole "they've known each other their whole life" is kinda misconstrued since they keep changing up Tabhi's background story. And according to ML Abhi, he has no idea who Tanu is. So Tanu hasn't been with him through thick and thin during the rough phases of his life.

Abhi didn't want to get married to Tanu, but after Daadi's persistence, he says okay and proposes to Tanu, who says she can't because her career will crumple. Which angers him but he forgives her when she comes crawling back and asking for forgiveness. Being part of the celeb world, I think he knew at the time why she's with him-he has explained many times on the show that he had no belief in love, that was a stupid concept to him (in the car with Purab after the launch where Pragya had spoken up prior to their marriage and then the proposal concert with Pragya). So he wasn't in love nor did he believe she loved him. When you don't believe in love, you dont' expect the other person to be in love with you either. We saw that clearly when Pragya fell in love with an oblivious Abhi-he didn't believe in love, and so he didn't see that Pragya could be in love with him.

Money-minded vs Goldigger: You can be in love while being money-minded-Abhi didn't believe in love, like I mentioned above, he mentioned not believing in LOVE several times while being with Tanu. He didn't think Pragya could be in love with him because he didn't believe in love. In order for Abhi to think Tanu was money-minded----means he thought she was in love with him. Which I believe he did not presume. So therefore, he thought she was a gold-digger > moneymindedness.

When Aalu told him Pragya is trapping Purab, he didn't do ANY research to figure out whether Pragya was really a golddigger. He made broad assumptions, found out she took back her refusal to the proposal, and just blindly yet consciously made a decision to marry a girl and ruin her life for being a golddigger. Yes it was Aalu's decision that he FULLY supported. But I think he was okay with having a relationship with a girl that doesn't love him-so it should have been okay for him to see Purab involved in a relationship with such a girl too, no? He thought Pragya was coming in between his sister's love, so he went through all of this. If it were anyone else besides Aalu with Purab, he could have cared less.

He knew she was chalaaq. He had no doubt about that. He knew she helped him in covering up their relationship when Puneet brought it up. He knew she was a part in helping frame Pragya for stealing Puliyah's engagement ring, which then Purab saved Aroras at last minute. He knew she only cared about herself when they got in trouble in the drunk driving case. So its not that he didn't know of her money-mindedness. When he needed to manage and take care of Drunk Pragya, Tanu wasn't there to help him, saying she had other things. And then he allowed Tanu to come into the relationship and take full advantage of her girlfriend status in their lives after their marriage.

It was not until he started distancing himself from Tanu (probably when Leena came in) that he started becoming unaware about her evil deeds. Otherwise, about half of Tanu's misdeeds Abhi was aware about in my opinion.

So yes, I still maintain my claim that he had a different definition of gold-digger for Pragya vs Aalu.

Sorry this got long. If you have a different POV, I totally respect that but would like to end my opinions from here on out. Thanks guys! Have a good night everyone :)
Edited by Naina- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He heard Tanu saying that she will own all his property and money after his wedding. And that particular thing didn't bothered him at all. Which means he don't have any problem with Tanu being money minded. And I believe, Abhi at the beginning of the show was different from the Abhi with ML. And even Tanu at that time was completely career oriented, successful supermodel. Yes when he had problems with Pragya, he should have problems with Tanu too. But you know each and every character in this show has changed a lot. There priorities, there thinking, nothing is same. Same goes with Abhi. What was wrong for him at that point of time, doesn't bothers him now!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

I don't see Abhi having an ideology on this:)! I mean he's a case by case kinda guy, no one rule for all.

I don't think he saw Tanu as a gold digger because she's from a rich family and was earning in crores as arhe nation's top model. He knew she was money minded, but he was ok with it because he was like that.

His main problem with Pragya was she stole Purab. When he and Aliya saw Pragya's horoscope with dadi, they assumed she was a gold digger who'll swindle Purab and marry Abhi next.

Obviously he misunderstood both Tanu and Pragya.



😆 may be he doesn't have an idealogy about this really.

I just believe he likes money and he likes earning money, he earns money in various ways but not in wrong ways.

He liked Tanu because she was like him. She is not like him and he never knew it.
While Abhi started becoming a better person, Tanu started becoming worse.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mitushi_MP

He heard Tanu saying that she will own all his property and money after his wedding. And that particular thing didn't bothered him at all. Which means he don't have any problem with Tanu being money minded. And I believe, Abhi at the beginning of the show was different from the Abhi with ML. And even Tanu at that time was completely career oriented, successful supermodel. Yes when he had problems with Pragya, he should have problems with Tanu too. But you know each and every character in this show has changed a lot. There priorities, there thinking, nothing is same. Same goes with Abhi. What was wrong for him at that point of time, doesn't bothers him now!!



He heard her say it and he said it himself too Mithu.
She dint propose him, he proposed her.

She was showing as if she don't care when she met him first.

He doesn't have issues with someone being money minded.
His only issues is cheating people for money.

Tanu never ever did that. She was talking about love every now and then from the beginning till yesterday.

He was bothered by Pragya because she was cheating Purab for Abhi. When she rejected him he went back to check if she is true to Purab but he saw something else.

He was stupid to conclude based on a necklace but he concluded she is a cheater.

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