Why the difference - Page 6

So maybe a suggestion to whoever makes the threads, not specifically this threadmaker. If you ask a question, be okay with hearing all the views. And if you want a thread to go back and forth on views, make that clear!! Because i think everyone just wanted to post their views, not continuosly defend it!!

Originally posted by: -HappyLove

She didn't say may be you can compare it like this..
I read it as compare it with sequence of scenes.

Compare 2 situations.

I don't have any prob with her telling she compares it like that.
But than when I read compare it like that I thought she was telling me how to compare.

May be is just the Miscommunication in the post.

You had a doubt in bashing word Anu used.
I had a doubt here.

We are humans na, we can't get everything right.

Rishu, my friend, can I just suggest...if someone on the forum seems to be "telling" you to do something, you don't have to be offended. You simply don't have to do what they're "telling" you to do. They can tell you, you can choose whether to do it or not. But there's no reason to object to someone suggesting something to you. It will save you a lot of miscommunication and debate if you realize that no one is trying to control you merely by making a statement or suggestion. Now, please don't be angry that I have told you how to react to people to save yourself some stress!

Originally posted by: Naina-

So maybe a suggestion to whoever makes the threads, not specifically this threadmaker. If you ask a question, be okay with hearing all the views. And if you want a thread to go back and forth on views, make that clear!! Because i think everyone just wanted to post their views, not continuosly defend it!!

LOL at the continuously defending! It's like of course we can debate and of course if you don't understand someone you could ask for clarification...but wow we do seem to fall into this pattern of continually defending the same points...a strange way to have a conversation, but that's how it goes here I guess 😆

Originally posted by: Praveen91

Sure, Of course...😊

Thank you Praveen bhai! Glad you have joined us 😆

Originally posted by: -Nive-

Daadi asked Pragz to stay away for Abhi's safety. Maa didn't ask Abhi to stay away for Pragya's safety.

Originally posted by: -mina-

Rishu, my friend, can I just suggest...if someone on the forum seems to be "telling" you to do something, you don't have to be offended. You simply don't have to do what they're "telling" you to do. They can tell you, you can choose whether to do it or not. But there's no reason to object to someone suggesting something to you. It will save you a lot of miscommunication and debate if you realize that no one is trying to control you merely by making a statement or suggestion. Now, please don't be angry that I have told you how to react to people to save yourself some stress!

It's just that I don't like to be told what to do!

But than, I would definetly consider this advise coming from a friend 😊
I am not angry 😆 please don't think I am angry.

I was angry when I read some other thread.
It's all good until there is no one being judgemntal 😊

Originally posted by: ..Anu

Few months back daadi had asked Pragya to go away from Abhi's life owing to his health & safety.

Now we have maa asking Pragya to do the same thing owing to her safety.

But daadi was bashed then but now maa is supported.

I don't think both were wrong but here many people said daadi was wrong in doing so.

My question if daadi is wrong then maa too is wrong, they both thought about their kids well being & safety.

Now if maa is right then daadi too is right, she did what maa did.

The thread is a blockbuster one 😆

Coming to the topic I said for me both maa & daadi are not totally wrong in what they did.

Regarding the use of bashing word ,I guess my choice of words were not good.

Originally posted by: Naina-

So maybe a suggestion to whoever makes the threads, not specifically this threadmaker. If you ask a question, be okay with hearing all the views. And if you want a thread to go back and forth on views, make that clear!! Because i think everyone just wanted to post their views, not continuosly defend it!!

Am I missing anything, no one opposed anyone's views here, yes there were counter arguments but I guess that is how a forum works, not everyone willhave the same opinion.