assumptions on Pragya supporter

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Last two days were not good with respective to segments and there were lot of discussion going on and while going though discussions I found it offending reading so many assumptions on why people support Pragya .. I do support Pragya for my own reasons and can explain it when I am questioned.. Thank you but I dont need any one to talk on behalf of me..I am cross verifying all the certificates that are issued to me ..

1. People do support Pragya because they are woman

This is most insensitive assumption I find so far .. I take my own case ..Oh hello .. I am not a kid and dealt with men in real life . I have a father, a brother, a husband and a son .. So You please stop assuming I cant understand man's pov and cannot relate to that ..

2. People do support Pragya because they hate Abhi

When I support Pragya .. It is abosultely because I find a reason behind that and when I rant about Abhi because I find a reason for that too ..I dont mix both .. request you to see and my way before assuming and mixing up things for me..When I am a Pragya supporter at the same time Abhigya shipper too .. There is a reason why I ship Abhigya .. And for the records I do not hate Abhi .. I am upset with certain reactions from him..

3. People like Pragya because they sympathize with her crying

Another silly assumption .. Who likes crying and tears.. It is all about liking the character and I have my reasons for it. Please stop assumptions on why I like Pragya

4. delusional people enjoy Abigya romance ..

Thank you for certifying me .. Keep your certificate with you because that is not valid .. Because this is fiction show and being practical does not mean I enjoy the things that please you .. Every one has a right to appreciate the things they like .. Please have a respect for differnce of opinion ..

5. People go awww on one intimate scene and then bash Abhi for one difficult situation. That is not really liking of Abhi ..

Hello... every one does not have have habit of mixing up things .. They can appreciate what they like and rant on what they dont like ...

6. People praise if Pragya does small good thing does not even recognize when Abhi does big things..

Just like you have liberty to have opinion on good and bad. I too have and it is all perspective.. You should not have any say on what should I praise or I rant ..

7. your Abhi Vs whole world

For god sake any one here is not owning Abhi .. You can very well praise him that is your pov not necessarily mine ..But please stop giving picture that you only have the capability to understand him and rest all doing bakwas .. There are lot of people like me who loves him in their own way that certainly need not be same as you do .. Please spare us ..


Thanks for reading it ..

PS : Just want to be clear .. I dont mean things can be assumed on people supporting Abhi .. nor i point to any one in particular .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You raised good points, Raji! What you shared about you can be true for others too. We all have our own reasons for liking the characters we like! 😊

Speaking for myself, I like both Abhi and Pragya a lot for many reasons. IDK, maybe there's not many who like both?? 😲 It's about how they act, how they make me feel, how I connect with their values, how they inspire me, how they entertain and make me laugh, and how what they're doing is right or wrong.

But right now, I'm not a big fan of them together as a couple. Their relationship is not something that inspires me or makes me happy. Actually, showing physical closeness and eyelocks without a meaningful and trusting relationship between them is a joke, not romance, in my opinion. And I don't want to see more than what's there. I've never liked men liking women just for their figure or their looks. I felt that was objectifying women, just treating women as objects for their physical beauty. Same way I'm not a big fan of objectifying men either. I want to enjoy how they treat each other. I'm waiting for the day when a real strong relationship develops between them.😃 I'm looking for equality in their relationship!😕

So I get your point! Hope there's more acceptance for different pov's, especially those we don't like!


Edited by Cerealgirl - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, thank you for sharing your pov Raji! 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

You raised good points, Raji! What you shared about you can be true for others too. We all have our own reasons for liking the characters we like! 😊

Speaking for myself, I like both Abhi and Pragya a lot for many reasons. IDK, maybe there's not many who like both?? 😲 It's about how they act, how they make me feel, how I connect with their values, how they inspire me, how they entertain and make me laugh, and how what they're doing is right or wrong.

But right now, I'm not a big fan of them together as a couple. Their relationship is not something that inspires me or makes me happy. Actually, showing physical closeness and eyelocks without a meaningful and trusting relationship between them is a joke, not romance, in my opinion. And I don't want to see more than what's there. I've never liked men liking women just for their figure or their looks. I felt that was objectifying women, just treating women as objects for their physical beauty. Same way I'm not a big fan of objectifying men either. I want to enjoy how they treat each other. I'm waiting for the day when a real strong relationship develops between them.😃 I'm looking for equality in their relationship!😕

So I get your point! Hope there's more acceptance for different pov's, especially those we don't like!



Thank you for putting your perspective Prani .. I respect it ..

It is common to have different pov on same thing and it makes the forum interactive .. The post was more about making assumptions and making comments on behalf of other person ..


Edited by Raji9 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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thank you Raji for this well written post..🤗 kabhi kabhi post kiya karo yaaar..😉
and I agree with you.. but i have diff POV why i love Pragya..😛 it's like first impression is the last impression..😉

when the show was started, i loved Pragya's char.. from day one she was shown a good char who loves her family unconditionally.. everytime she won my heart.. she broke her marriage with Tarun becz she wasn't ready to sacrifice KKB hall for her happiness.. she broke her engagement with Suresh because she knew Suresh is doing favor by marrying her but she let him free from this guilt.. she never gave importance to money.. remember her dialogues to Abhi.. mud wala scene.. she compared her Maa's Anda bhurji with Abhi's 50 lacks..😆 and i loved her dialogue "paisa zindagi ki zaroorat hai.. par zindagi nahi.." she continued her revenge marriage to save her maa.. and so many things and i can't explain here.. i loved her char..😳

whereas Abhi..🤢 from the day one Abhi never impressed me.. whenever i saw him onscreen i was like okay only this much no he is good.. but next day he used to do something that my expression was like "oh God.. this man is crossing his limits day by day.." 😡
for example..
*he never felt what is love and he used to make fun of it.. but in front of fans he used to behave like Love is everything..
*when he rescued Pragya from water, he used that opportunity to make breaking news about him..
he went funeral to make money..
so on.. and list is very very long.. and i cann't list them here..😆

and even remember.. Abhirab scene.. he said why he chose Tanu as his life partner because she is just like him.. she wants to earn money and she believes only money matters in life..
i understand he had bad experience from his past but iwas surprised when he blamed Pragya for Gold digger..😲 i still remember my sis's reaction on that.. " strange no..? he opt so many wrong ways to earn money and even if one Girl wants to marry one rich boy then what's wrong with it..? "😕 he has no right to question or Pragya.." 😆 and then again in MMS tarck.. same thing.. that time i replied to my sis " Baji.. he is like.. khud kare toh raas leela aur koi kare toh charcter dheela.."

So.. everytime i felt more connected to Pragya and i hated Abhi's char.. 😕 and it's not like i never myself chance to understand him.. but everytime his char turned to be same.. so i m still in same mode..

you know my friends ask me then why you like Abhigya..? you will defintely laugh when you will read my reaction..😆
Edited by kulsum_5 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yes, that's the beauty of these characters, we each have our own perspectives and we all love Abhi & pragya in different ways and interpret their actions in different ways.

It doesn't mean we love one and so we must hate the other or don't understand the other.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raji9

Last two days were not good with respective to segments and there were lot of discussion going on and while going though discussions I found it offending reading so many assumptions on why people support Pragya .. I do support Pragya for my own reasons and can explain it when I am questioned.. Thank you but I dont need any one to talk on behalf of me..I am cross verifying all the certificates that are issued to me ..


1. People do support Pragya because they are woman

This is most insensitive assumption I find so far .. I take my own case ..Oh hello .. I am not a kid and dealt with men in real life . I have a father, a brother, a husband and a son .. So You please stop assuming I cant understand man's pov and cannot relate to that ..

2. People do support Pragya because they hate Abhi

When I support Pragya .. It is abosultely because I find a reason behind that and when I rant about Abhi because I find a reason for that too ..I dont mix both .. request you to see and my way before assuming and mixing up things for me..When I am a Pragya supporter at the same time Abhigya shipper too .. There is a reason why I ship Abhigya .. And for the records I do not hate Abhi .. I am upset with certain reactions from him..

3. People like Pragya because they sympathize with her crying

Another silly assumption .. Who likes crying and tears.. It is all about liking the character and I have my reasons for it. Please stop assumptions on why I like Pragya

4. delusional people enjoy Abigya romance ..

Thank you for certifying me .. Keep your certificate with you because that is not valid .. Because this is fiction show and being practical does not mean I enjoy the things that please you .. Every one has a right to appreciate the things they like .. Please have a respect for differnce of opinion ..

5. People go awww on one intimate scene and then bash Abhi for one difficult situation. That is not really liking of Abhi ..

Hello... every one does not have have habit of mixing up things .. They can appreciate what they like and rant on what they dont like ...

6. People praise if Pragya does small good thing does not even recognize when Abhi does big things..

Just like you have liberty to have opinion on good and bad. I too have and it is all perspective.. You should not have any say on what should I praise or I rant ..

7. your Abhi Vs whole world

For god sake any one here is not owning Abhi .. You can very well praise him that is your pov not necessarily mine ..But please stop giving picture that you only have the capability to understand him and rest all doing bakwas .. There are lot of people like me who loves him in their own way that certainly need not be same as you do .. Please spare us ..


Thanks for reading it ..

PS : Just want to be clear .. I dont mean things can be assumed on people supporting Abhi .. nor i point to any one in particular .




Thanks raji 👏
Just add
I love pragya😉, why I m more connecting with her character ? is my business,

What ? We are not the supreme court as I know

Coming to abhi , if I m angry or I hate him is my choice, I have not account to nobody

Regarding victories pragya 👏
I will dance ,even jump if neccessary, as small as it will be this victory

Cme to abhigya romance, so what ?
it is 1 crime of loving their romance ?
And of what intimacy we talking about ?

Good I stopped , because it is the Ramadan, I have not too much energy


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: deefan

yes, that's the beauty of these characters, we each have our own perspectives and we all love Abhi & pragya in different ways and interpret their actions in different ways.

It doesn't mean we love one and so we must hate the other or don't understand the other.



Exactly Dee !! Thanks for your POV ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kratikamonange




Thanks raji 👏
Just add
I love pragya😉, why I m more connecting with her character ? is my business,

What ? We are not the supreme court as I know

Coming to abhi , if I m angry or I hate him is my choice, I have not account to nobody

Regarding victories pragya 👏
I will dance ,even jump if neccessary, as small as it will be this victory

Cme to abhigya romance, so what ?
it is 1 crime of loving their romance ?
And of what intimacy we talking about ?

Good I stopped , because it is the Ramadan, I have not too much energy



Fatima .. Thank you for putting your perspective ..

A Very Happy Ramzaan to you and your family 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i support abhi when he is right blames him when he is wrong and same goes to pragya people are different opinins towards people should rspect that here many of us are women we can see women tears like that if abhi did bad to pragya we sympathise with pragya when abhi did good to pragya we feel good all people has much expectation from abhi that the point 😊 that does not mean we dont fel bad for abhi we fel bad when is treated bad no one is helpong to come out the situation in this tani baby tuth we fel bad og course
Edited by anishapoudel - 9 years ago

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