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Posted: 9 years ago
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I guess my question should have been like this - What scene /dialogue in future would make you forgive/like Daadi and Sarla Maa?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Nive-



I agree with this and Maa wouldn't have behaved so nice like Daadi behaved with Aliya even after knowing what she has on her mind. Daadi was 100% committed to the mission.😆
She didn't even feel bad/angry for her granddaughter.

But it's sad now that they show Maa and ykw living in the same house.



I was telling Tia about this some time back.
I don't get offended or feel bad when any of the team members are insulted by Tanu.
I only get angry because they let Tanu dominate them.

For eg, Purab getting slapped by Tanu. I love Purab. I always say I want some one like him who can tolerate a hyper and impulse me but that doesn't make me feel bad for him when he is slapped.

It was his mistake, he earned it. I belive if he told Abhi the truth. Tanu would have got scared of him.

So similarly I am not feeling bad for maa theft blame thing. She listened to Pragya and not herself.
If she is facing something it's her head ache.


Lol I am changing your topic. All that I want to say is I hate dadi but not sarla Maa.

If I like someone in the mission it is Purab and Maa because they never spoke bad about Pragya after knowing her truth expecially Purab.

Dadi is sly. She cares for her image more. She is just manipulative. I just wish no one has people like dadi in their lives.

Enemies don't fail us, fake friends do. Dadi is someone like that to Abhi and Pragya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Daadi: "Abhi, I was trying to help you but instead I have just made your mistake of being involved with Tanu last longer and hurt you more. I have been using Pragya to try to save you but only you can save yourself. Here is everything I know and everything I have done, I am sorry I did not trust you to handle your problems directly"

Sarla: "Pragya, it is not right to turn yourself inside out for your husband's sake, and it's not right to keep him blind to who you are and you feel. You owe it to yourself, to him, and to your love to fulfill your relationship with honesty and openness. You may not want to tell him what you know and what you have done, but as your mother I have to step in where you are being foolish and tell him myself. If he doesn't believe or value what we are saying, he doesn't deserve your heart and you can not be with him until he has earned you back! I don't want to control you but I also cannot keep watching as you destroy yourself and your future with this mission. This is not the road to happiness."



How about that?? I didn't get to what Daadi could say to Prags or Sarla to Abhi...😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: deefan

I think of both wanting the best for their children but sadly in the confines of the CVs plots😆

Like the main characters of the story, Dadi too has a roundabout way in achieving her goal.

Sarla I like better than Dadi because i think shes forthright. Why she's staying quiet about these big truth, I don't know. Maybe she's heard Tanu saying that there's no way to prove Nikhil is the father and thats the problem. In soap world, this reveal needs to be dramatic and so maybe even Sarla's dramatic reveal won't be grand enough for this exposure.



Agree with Dee. To make it short I think the same.

The only diff is sarla Maa want to give best for Pragya. Dadi wants to prove best for Abhi which I cannot tolerate. She wants to prove herself right.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Nive-

I guess my question should have been like this - What scene /dialogue in future would make you forgive/like Daadi and Sarla Maa?



Dadi - Nothing.
I am very particular in hating a person. They can't win me back.
My anger fades when they do some good stuff.

That is why I don't hate P and P.
May be one day I will again love Pragya like I did once upon a time but dadi never.

Sarla Maa - I would forgive her if she says "A woman should be strong, independent and happy, her happiness need not be interlinked with her husband's. She can have a life beyond Kumkum also"

Will she? I don't think so.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm so much done with the dadi that I'm Not even feeling like wasting time on her...i loved old dadi (not much but still better than this one) who was in misunderstanding that abhigya is a happy couple and helping pragya many times indirectly...
And regarding sarla she disappointed me the moment she decided to keep quiet knowing that takhil were planning to kill pragya but instead she got kidnapped second time planning to accident ,bulbul suicide but still not uttering a word... I felt like little bit injustice to bulbul from her mother's side..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sarla maa- I don't like her when she is accusing BB and too much hyper,emotional.
Dadi- Selfish
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Nive-


Hi Naina 😃

I thought only Daadi was on your list. You added Sarla Maa too?


Loll, nope. I always disliked Sarla from the start. I feel like she never helped Pragya grow into a confident and care-free girl that she could have been. She made Pragya feel like getting married was the most important thing that could happen in Pragya's life. And then when Pragya got married, she wanted Pragya to idolize Abhi, as if nothing else matters. Yes, she was ready to take Pragya back home during the MMS scandal, but how readily she forgave Abhi both during MMS and then when he was getting married to Tanu is appauling at times. She disliked Mogambo because she went behind her husband's back, though he was supposedly having an extramarital affair all along!

So, yeah, I'm very rarely ever sympathetic towards Sarla Maa. Its just that Daadi's been in the limelight and thus, my dislike for her has been over-powering.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jaydp59

I'm so much done with the dadi that I'm Not even feeling like wasting time on her...i loved old dadi (not much but still better than this one) who was in misunderstanding that abhigya is a happy couple and helping pragya many times indirectly...
And regarding sarla she disappointed me the moment she decided to keep quiet knowing that takhil were planning to kill pragya but instead she got kidnapped second time planning to accident ,bulbul suicide but still not uttering a word... I felt like little bit injustice to bulbul from her mother's side..



Agree!

My complaints with sarla Maa is not regarding Pragya but bulbul.
I actually don't blame her for Pragya's plight.

She did not ask her to stay in revenge marriage or she did not support Abhi when he knew about Tanu pregnancy. She supported Abhi only when Pragya cheated him with money delibrately.

So sarla Maa annoys me due to her partiality towards Pragya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What do the want? Typical soap stuff - Sarla ma wanted Pragya to have a great married life and keep sasural happy. Dadi wanted Pragya to fix Abhi and for Abhi to become a traditional husband in an arranged marriage.

I respect Sarla ma for raising 2 daughters as a single woman and running a business. But Sarla ma is like a child who never grew up. She's too emotional for me. Not mature enough as a parent. Immature parents end up making their kids way too mature for their age.

TBH, dadi has done double duty as parent and grandparent. I respect her for that. But too much of a generational difference for her to guide Abhi and Pragya. She's pulling them back to her time and her ways. She doesn't know how to guide them in today's world.

Dadi should be in a museum. She's too old fashioned and out of touch with reality. I don't know how old she is. But if I get to be that old, I'll say leave me out of your lives and go make your own decisions. She's way too involved in her grandkid's lives.

Both are telling me how not to be as a parent and grandparent.



Edited by Cerealgirl - 9 years ago

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