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Kesha_H.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Do you all think Abhi is being extra mean to Pragya because he started developing feeling for Pragya and he's afriad to fall in love cuz he thinks it might hurt his sister and he'll betray Tannu. I realized that in wednesday's episode, when he told her he doesn't wanna see her face, or her her voice or even see her tears else he doesn't know what he can do of sees her. Its because Mr. Abhi is falling in love with her he can't see her face it attracts him, her voice excites him an her tears weaken him, but because he still thinks Pragya and Bulbul have tricked them for their money he doesn't wanna let go of his innhibitions and fall for her. And I know its that cuz I've been through the same situation I started liking this guy but I couldn't make a move (not like I would've anyway lol) because he was my friend's bf and that would be wrong so in order to get rid of my feelings for him I would always be mean to him, or make noises of disgust or tell him that i hate him I even tried hitting him one time but the end result was terrible.

But at the end of the day Abhi will fall for her because when you only try to surpress your feelings for someone that you like/love you will evenentually fall in love thank god I left school before that was able to hapen lol. Please let me know your opinions

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Posted: 10 years ago

More than him suppressing his feelings i think he is trying to take out anger about the fact that Pragya is not the girl whom Purab loves 😛

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Kesha_H.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SaaraDON
More than him suppressing his feelings i think he is trying to take out anger about the fact that Pragya is not the girl whom Purab loves 😛

yea I think that's affecting him too cuz he doesn't wanna show sympathy towards this geek (thats what he calls her) cuz he knows if he shows any bit of feelings toward her other than hate all his feelings will spill out btw did you notice the 1st word he in the morning in yesterday's epi, he must've been dreaming abt her lol 😆

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nitarata

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Posted: 10 years ago

Absolutely agree!

Even before marriage, Abhi has mentioned a couple of times that he finds Pragya interesting and he doesn't know whether it's "rage" or "restlessness" he feels for her.

He has very conflicting emotions for Pragya, mostly because of the situation.

When he married Pragya, he was under the impression that she loved Purab and she wanted his money. But living with her, he started to enjoy being around her and even started to trust her. When he later came to think she was plotting against him, he felt betrayed. This time it was personal for him. Before, it was just that she betrayed Aaliyah, but now him too, and his emotions too. That's why he is more 'mad' at her.

And of course like you said, he feels stronger emotions for her. But how can let those emotions grow when he still thinks she destroyed his sister's life. And how about Tannu to whom he has kind of promised marriage? So, he is running away from Pragya as well as the emotions he has within himself for her.

At the same time, because of those strong emotions, he has to hug her back when she hugs him, he has to assure her Maa that he is her son in law (didn't he overdo all that?)!

That's why this irrational behavior- I even think he is in a denial mode right now, even though he heard the whole truth from Daadi, he does not want to believe that. Because believing would mean allowing himself to fall for Pragya further (now he would feel better about it too, since he knows she does not love his best friend!), which also means betraying Tannu and Aaliyah too in a way and of course admitting his big blunder.

So, he is in a mess and on his way to hopelessly fall in love with Pragya!

P.S. The good part is Pragya somewhere understands his conflicts. And she has the ability to read him beyond his face value!

Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago

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Kesha_H.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Absolutely agree!

Even before marriage, Abhi has mentioned a couple of times that he finds Pragya interesting and he doesn't know whether it's "rage" or "restlessness" he feels for her.

He has very conflicting emotions for Pragya, mostly because of the situation.

When he married Pragya, he was under the impression that she loved Purab and she wanted his money. But living with her, he started to enjoy being around her and even started to trust her. When he later came to think she was plotting against him, he felt betrayed. This time it was personal for him. Before, it was just that she betrayed Aaliyah, but now him too, and his emotions too. That's why he is more 'mad' at her.

And of course like you said, he feels stronger emotions for her. But how can let those emotions grow when he still thinks she destroyed his sister's life. And how about Tannu to whom he has kind of promised marriage? So, he is running away from Pragya as well as the emotions he has within himself for her.

At the same time, because of those strong emotions, he has to hug her back when she hugs him, he has to assure her Maa that he is her son in law (didn't he overdo all that?)!

That's why this irrational behavior- I even think he is in a denial mode right now, even though he heard the whole truth from Daadi, he does not want to believe that. Because believing would mean allowing himself to fall for Pragya further (now he would feel better about it too, since he knows she does not love his best friend!), which also means betraying Tannu and Aaliyah too in a way and of course admitting his big blunder.

So, he is in a mess and on his way to hopelessly fall in love with Pragya!

P.S. The good part is Pragya somewhere understands his conflicts. And she has the ability to read him beyond his face value!

What pisses me off though is that Pragya does not stand up to him when yesterday like when he said "I don't even want to see your face" the CVs could've given her lines like do you think "i want to see your face what do you think your face is so handsome that I can't live without getting atleast a glimpse of your face well let me tell you Mr. Mehra I can and I will once I figure out a way I can let my mother and your Daadi realise that this marriage isn't working for any of us without any of them getting hurt" and walk off on him but they will never do that they want to show her as this spineless indian woman who can't stand up to her husband and will bear every insult and torture for the sake of relationship. Btw nice job Sriti for portraying that so well 👏

umm I don't think he over did it he could overreact or underreact as long as Sarla ma and Daadi believes that they are together and living happily everybody's lives are great. 🤢

lol yup just remove Tannu and Aliyah's brainwash crap from his head and show Abhi the Tannu and boom there you go a lovestruck puppy hopelessly and unconditionally in love with Pragya

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 10 years ago

Abhi is a grown man, I believe he is older than Pragya so around 30? By now, he should either have learned to suppress unwanted feelings without the need to lash out at the person causing those feelings or have learnt to reason them out and give in to those feelings. He is not a child or a pre-tween to be throwing tantrums of rage at Pragya.

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nitarata

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Posted: 10 years ago

Kesha, Pragya is not tolerating the crap for her relationship with him- she is doing it for her mother. That's why she allows him to have that upper hand. It's not exactly that she is weak but she does not want to lose her mother.

She is not in a one-to-one relationship with Abhi right now. Whatever she says, can go against her mother. That's why I guess she tolerates.

When they are one-to-one, and she knows that, she will of course give it back to him.

Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago

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Kesha_H.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Abhi is a grown man, I believe he is older than Pragya so around 30? By now, he should either have learned to suppress unwanted feelings without the need to lash out at the person causing those feelings or have learnt to reason them out and give in to those feelings. He is not a child or a pre-tween to be throwing tantrums of rage at Pragya.

That's the sad part about it Abhi may have grown up physically but not mentally he is still childish btw women Mature alot faster than men. Notice how easily Aliyah can tell him something and he'll believe her without giving another thought, notice when he's sad or confused he goes to his daadi like a little child and lies on her lap for who knows how long, he still needs all the comforts of child and remember too he did have a hard childhood so maybe because of all his days working now that he is rich he can monkey around and act like a child, now with the love thing Abhi is just weird on the whole I mean ugh how do i explain this to u like a teen he would lash out at pragya if he doesn't wanna fall for her its something that teeens do when the fall for someone tht they're not supposed to fall for they lash out at that person so Abhi is being immature right now but eventually it will mature into a more beautiful love one day

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Kesha_H.

@Kesha_H.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Tia-
Kesha, Pragya is not tolerating the crap for her relationship with him- she is doing it for her mother. That's why she allows him to have that upper hand. It's not exactly that she is weak but she does not want to lose her mother.
She is not in a one-to-one relationship with Abhi right now. Whatever she says, can go against her mother. That's why I guess she tolerates.

When they are one-to-one, and she knows that, she will of course give it back to him.

yea that's true I guess but does she really think Abhi will tell her mother abt their fights does she think he is that shallow or is he that shallow? god knows but I hate seeing women being subjected to any kind of abuse and even men cuz we as humans should treat each other the way we want to be treated and not make ppl feel inferior or even superior to us

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nitarata

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think she kind of trusts he won't break the truth to her Maa on his own, but she is afraid of the situation. It's not like he has promised her anything, nor can she ask him to promise. So, she is living on the edge, so to say!

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