i wouldnt wear them either!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hey guys wats up

im commenting on yesterdayd episode when janvi was all like im not wearin those kangans

well, niether would i . i mean they seem soo heavy. when she tossed them on te bed, i swear i heard a thump. and in a formal work place they would seem so out of place. and typing. omg. i think my wrists would fall off if worked on the computer with them on.

i probably wouldnt have been all disrepectful towards family traditions but i think i would have said the sme thing to shouriya about the bracelet. i mean i have no probs wearin them on like a family event or a formal event but on a daily basis is not my thing.

wat do you guys think? i mean i know the way janvi said all that, it portrayed her like a heartless person sompared to nitya but honestly i wouldnt wear them either

so wat does that make me?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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well i too agree with whatever u said!!!!!!!!!!! nothing wrong in not wearing those heavy traditional bangals! but what was wrong was the way she dealt with it!!!!!!!!! she could have softly pursuaded shorya to wear them only on family main occasions!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well u kno if its a family thing i wudnt mind
n i think the kangan r pretty they loook nicee..ii mean its family thing i wud juz not wear those kangans 2 sleep i mean in ALL DRAMAS they show the grlz wearin the Churiya n everything to sleep i mean i wud nenever sleeep with all of tht on.. isnt it werid ..... 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: julle1234567890

hey guys wats up

im commenting on yesterdayd episode when janvi was all like im not wearin those kangans

well, niether would i . i mean they seem soo heavy. when she tossed them on te bed, i swear i heard a thump. and in a formal work place they would seem so out of place. and typing. omg. i think my wrists would fall off if worked on the computer with them on.

i probably wouldnt have been all disrepectful towards family traditions but i think i would have said the sme thing to shouriya about the bracelet. i mean i have no probs wearin them on like a family event or a formal event but on a daily basis is not my thing.

wat do you guys think? i mean i know the way janvi said all that, it portrayed her like a heartless person sompared to nitya but honestly i wouldnt wear them either

so wat does that make me?

hey julie..

i wasn't the question of if would wear it or not but rather the way she reacted towards them.. the kangan was a symbol of the family's tradition and love.. and she discarded it like it was nothing,...

and she sounded like she wanted to seperate shourya from his family.. i think to shourya he thought that they might stay together in India.. with his family.. where she could wear it.. and not work

and like i said that it's about traditions.. she would have said thank you.. and kept it in the closet.. no one said she had to wear it all the time... did niyati wear it everyday.. i haven't noticed...

it was about respect for the family and how she handled it.. which in my opinion she didn't very well

nice post hon..

luv pri

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: miss5stars

well u kno if its a family thing i wudnt mind
n i think the kangan r pretty they loook nicee..ii mean its family thing i wud juz not wear those kangans 2 sleep i mean in ALL DRAMAS they show the grlz wearin the Churiya n everything to sleep i mean i wud nenever sleeep with all of tht on.. isnt it werid ..... 😆

thank you yaar..

i was wondering the same thing..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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That yaar, makes you practical 😛

But in the serial, its not about being practical. Its purely symbolism for the most part. True, most women nowadays would not wear the kangans on a daily basis. But in a romantized, ideal, traditional household, the kangans would be worn for their sheer cultural value.

I think Jhanvi not wearing them and Niyati wearing them is just a way to emphasize their blunt differences, bas.

But in practicality, even Daljit probably wouldnt wear such Kangans on a daily basis.

Just my two-cents 😊
Edited by bollywoodfan - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I wouldn't mind wearing Khandani Kangans, but ya I would probably take it out once in a while (my hands need breaks you know)😆

But those Rathod Kangans were absolutely yucky!!🤢

Can't these rich people afford something nicer? Even something that looked better?

Those Kangans are just bad choice and lack of good taste

~diljaani
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: diljaani

I wouldn't mind wearing Khandani Kangans, but ya I would probably take it out once in a while (my hands need breaks you know)😆

But those Rathod Kangans were absolutely yucky!!🤢

Can't these rich people afford something nicer? Even something that looked better?

Those Kangans are just bad choice and lack of good taste

~diljaani

hahah.. you always put a smile on my face with your little comments..

i dont get it.. i dont think that the kangana was for EVERYDAY wear.. theydid nto say it you have to wear it everyday!! it's only for FORMAL PARTY WEAR!!

luv pri

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pc84

hahah.. you always put a smile on my face with your little comments..

i dont get it.. i dont think that the kangana was for EVERYDAY wear.. theydid nto say it you have to wear it everyday!! it's only for FORMAL PARTY WEAR!!

luv pri



thanks!😃

Khandani Kangan usually have high value and you are expected to wear them quite regularly, if not everyday........but you might have to check the rules from the Book of Rules = Mother in law!😆

Plus traditionally, I think its an unspoken rule or something, that a Bride should never go 'bare' hands after marriage........meaning you have to wear at least one kangan or choodi....

~diljaani
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: diljaani



thanks!😃

Khandani Kangan usually have high value and you are expected to wear them quite regularly, if not everyday........but you might have to check the rules from the Book of Rules = Mother in law!😆

Plus traditionally, I think its an unspoken rule or something, that a Bride should never go 'bare' hands after marriage........meaning you have to wear at least one kangan or choodi....

~diljaani

hai.. didnt knwo that

but come on.. she can wear long sleeves so they dot have to see it.. and wear some chooriyan too.. hehehe

and besides when they are in INDIA she can wear them.. once they are out of INDIA.. keep them save..

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