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Posted: 12 years ago
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Excellent post Aarti di...

Frankly speaking, If I had to be in this situation, I cant always go after a guy, who has been such a cheap flirt at first instance... I mean, when u r collegues, there is certain limit to which u can go n talk to a particular person, who in my instincts is not good...

I mean, ek hadd hoti hai, jiske baad, u have to leave that person on their own... U can't always go after a man, who keeps holding his head in his hands... Mujhe agar zyada fikr lagegi, I can send my partner to him or a male frnd...

What is the damn need to go behind a guy... Ok! I felt, he may fall down, I followed him... But, by prudence, how ever insistent that guys is, he needs to go to the hospital... Not his home...

As to keeping secret, abt their meeting at the graveyard... Sorry, if people think, I'M A 'moohphat' or baatein agar digest nahi hoti, toh let it be... If I had to go out with a stranger, that too at such places, I need to tell it to someone I trust... Even if that is my mother/father, sibling, friend/spouse, who so ever it is... Atleast they can guide u, if in case u have been wrong... After all not every decision is correct na...

As in case of Nidhi, had she told the entire truth to Ashu, he would atleast had a gist of the happenings... There can't be any kind of MUs then...

There are some very unusual things that the person does, u just need to catch them... Nidhi, I don't know y is so ignorant of all...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good post .

if i was nidhi ..i would have never trusted a man so easily who clearly showed that how badly he wants me . no matter if he helped my friend's husband but going out with him is big no no . i would have taken some time to know more about him .
n about ysday's seq ..if i would have found him ill ...i would call his dad right away ...or would take some help of other ppl to help daksh .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Excellent post Aarti.
I am a strong believer in intuition and a woman's sixth sense is strong, very much like a prey sensing the predator.
Having said that women can also be gullible and see only what they want to see, here Nidhi is overwhelmed by Daksh's gesture and has pushed her initial apprehensions to one side. She still is not very comfortable with him but doesn't see him as danger either.
Yesterday she was concerned for a fellow human-being and then reacted like a doctor treating a patient.
While I may never get over my initial reservations about a person and be very wary, I will also go ahead and help the person, if he/she needs it. Maybe take some precautionary measures, of course, like informing family etc.
Edited by waves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A very thoughtful post Aarti.👏

Very valid question you have put up. Actually I was not watching and not reading the WU even..so I dint know the story to this detail...Thanks for the summary.

Well...I guess, we, Indian girls are blessed with one character...ingrained into us right from the day we were born ...keeping to our limits and keeping the other person at a distance...this not only builds a protective fort around us..but also the time to evaluate the other person...


as in the case of the show... KTLK has been always clean (to the maximim limits of sterilization for that matter)...so I dont think any harm is going to happen...and Nidhi is a brave and strong girl!!!


Edited by mudraswathi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very nice post. Thoughtful. I m not following the show but understood from your narrative. A person behaving strangely should be validated before believing. like others pointed, our human instincts help us.
Edited by ApoorvaFan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you all for responding. I was initially apprehensive about the reception to a post of this nature. Over the weekend I will try and comment on each of your replies individually. Please bear with me. 😃
Thanks. ❤️
Edited by aardhan - 12 years ago

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