Ashutosh is one of the luckiest man

Ok so after watching thursday's episode i was confused that why ashutosh in such a sad mood ?? why he was crying ? why suddenly a lovey dubby hubby saying to his wife that she wont undrstnd him ..moreover he dint want to share his feelings to him when she was trying so hard ...but kyun ??

JUST BCOZ HE NEEDS TO WAIT FOR 2 YEARS FOR A BABY ?😕

So my question is ..The baby is imp than ur wife ?? Is blood relationship higher than every other relationship ??

if that is the thing then why YASHODA ALWAYS CONSIDER AS KRISHNA'S MOTHER OVER DEVKI ?


Well jo bhi ho ..but for me ashutosh is one of the luckiest man now ...
1. In d beginning of the show bcoz he dint have his baba nor his house ..now he has both .
2. earlier he was alone but now he has such a pretty , loving n caring wife ..who is always ready to do anythn for him .
3. He has such a bright career ...name , fame , money evrythn .
4. He has good friend like armaan , n good family n relatives .

So isnt he lucky ? how many orphans can have such a good life ? forget orphans but how many normal ppl can have everythn in their life ..
n do all orphans behave the way ashu does ? i dont think so ...they start living happy the way they r . ppl should be thankful for what they have instead of cribbing for what they dont .

n in ashu's case he has evrythn ...n baby is also not that far away . But again the question ..will the baby be able to cure his akelapan ?? if nidhi , BB r not able to solve his problem ..to light up his life ..so 1 baby can do that ? well i dont thinks so again .
as children when grow up move away from their parents for career or marriage ..then what ..ashu back to his akelapan .
So overall i dont think his issue can be solved ..moreover i dont think there is any issue ...its just the POV ..that how do u take ur life as ..if u want to be happy ..u can be happy in worst of situation n if u dont then no matter u have everyth but still u will remain sad .

n last thing ...for me husband n wife r most important to each other than their child ...i know children complete their lives but still nobody can replace a place of husband n wife .
Ask those couples who dont have child ..does they behave the way ashu's behaving with nidhi ? NO . No matter what ur circumstances r but a couple's love to each other is above all .

n ask BB , CB , DB , HK , CS ...all of them have their biggest relationship missing ...They r more unlucky than ashu when it comes to relationship . some of them r living away from their real family ..but r they sad ? do they crib ? NO .

So all in all i dint undrstd ashu's feeling n sad behaviour in d show now ...For me he is the luckiest person around ...n if he behaves like this then nobody can do anythn for him anyway .

With u all the way .. i have been so peeved with his Devdaspan. .. m jus happy .. Nids will pursue her career... Ashu can grow a beard sulking for all i care!

i think the more life gives us the more we want .. its just a human nature .. cant help it !

Totally agree with ur pov Shikha...awesome post 👏

I really don't know why he is so sad in the episode, but I have a point to say…..Just a person loving his/her partner doesn't mean they are transparent to each other, even unconditional love doesn't assure that your partner understands as the way understand yourselves…….

Definitely child is not important than your spouse, here child is weighed with career not with nidhi. If nidhi has some medical issues, Ashu will happily close the issue before any one or even before nidhi herself does….

Blood relationship is higher than other relations is something which changes with our perspectives, time and life experiences. In Ashu case it is important as he is an orphan with out any blood ties and he comes from a school of thought……children strengthen the marital bond, for a man nurturing his child is the highest acceptance of his love and ties the couple strongly, a bond which is unbreakable, can only be separated……………

I agree, he has everything in life but not the identity or surname which typically every common person has. In the beginning he tried to get back BB's house… coz, he thinks it is legacy son receives from his father, which categorically BB has not given him. He has raised him as a guardian with utmost love, care and concern and ashu loves baba to the core. His love for baba is like love of the devotee for the deity, he never blamed BB for not giving his house, his legacy……he in turn blamed himself….

Ashu wants a child not for curing "akelapan", but to strengthen his bond in the highest possible way, to have to his blood tie, to free himself from the rejection which he experienced before from BB and Nidhi…..In a way he wants a child to tie himself with nidhi….child is more a catalyst to strengthen his bonding with Nidhi…….

Just reverse the posts from Ashu's POV…….you think Nidhi as luckiest person to possess someone who loves her deeply and strongly……

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj

i think the more life gives us the more we want .. its just a human nature .. cant help it !

Bang on, Deepa...don't we all want it all too?

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Bang on, Deepa...don't we all want it all too?

I agree with you.
But the problem is ,he is a loner by nature and childhood(it is believed that most of human nature takes shape within 1st 7 to 10yrs, when Ashu was alone and spent a dark ,sad life) made him insecure by nature. This need to be cured and only he himself can cure this by opening up about this to Nidhi. He has everything to be happy but he needs to realize/acknowledge that.

Agree with you. Malika is his biggest lucky charm till now .add that also.
Nidhi is most unlucky. No credit given to her from anybody Ashu ,baba,bade baba. Rohan should have been just true friend instead of falling in love. he could be great support to her

thumbs up to your post shikha