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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok ok not a serious one but i found nidhi little bit wrong ysday ...

WRONG :-

1. Nidhi is not behaving as intern but a wife ...she should understand that ashu is her husband only at home not in hospital ..here ashu is a senior doctor n whatever he says she has to do .

first she asked for job change then asked to attend a meeting which has nothing to do with her but ashu agreed bcoz he cant see her unhappy ...later when ashu dint like her treatment suggestion she again felt bad ..in fact she said in the end that if u love me so much then y dint u listen to me at conference ...which is wrong .

what if ..if she was in other hospital ...n how can ashu take a risk on a patient's life by trusting an intern who is just back two days before ...may be nidhi was right at her point of treatment but still any doctor will go on d advice of other doctors but not on intern's advice .

2. As a wife also she did wrong to ashu ...he came twice to her cabin but she ignored him ...clearly it was not only just that she was busy ...but her anger was very much visible ...she wanted to say ashu u gave me this duty so bear it ...which is again wrong ..as a wife she should have showed some concern towards him .

3. one more thing which was wrong when she said " main aapse badi doctor bankar dikhaungi " 😲 what was that ??? its good that u r trying hard for ur career but comparison with ur own husband n moreover unhe apne se neecha dikhane ki sochna ...was wrong .
isse better hota agar wo bolti that " main aap jitni achi doctor bankar dikhaungi " ...

so overall it is showing that nidhi is not able to handle her career n personal life together ...as on one side being an intern she wants to take benefit of ashu n on the other hand she is showing her professional gussa on her hubby ...😕

waise i m hoping that cvs will show that a lady can handle both career n home together very well .

but for now ashu showed his maturity of handling both nidhi an intren n nidhi a wife together very well ...n once again its proved that he is the only one who can make or break her career ..his few actions turned out to encourage nidhi so much that the work which she dint want to do earlier ...was doing it with full attention later . 😊

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mudraswathi thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well written Shikha...
I was also bit annoyed with Nidhi...but, kaash I had your expressive power...but anyway, now your argument is giving me strength...😊

But the in the third point, it was not Ashu ..she is comparing with... she wanted to prove that she is better than those other bachcha docs...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shikha... dun wanna get into a debate... .but m happy U din like Nidhi 😆

If Nidhi was perfect from day 1.. we did hv no story... she has to learn from all these to realise that she needs to differentiate between work and home!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shikha,
Agree with you. Nidhi must dissociate the two roles played by AShutosh. Thats why in one of my previous posts I said Nidhi working in KGH is a recipe for disaster.
Second, I bet Nidhi compared herself with the other drs who were there in the meeting and Not Ashutosh. Rewind the section on YT and it can be seen clearly. But again Nidhi was immature here...She should have laid a low profile till she gets a hang of the job...par yeh to fast food ka zamana hai na...
Her anger was clearly visible when she royally ignored Ashutosh when he came in her cabin. Again that is not reasonable.
good post...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi

Well written Shikha...
I was also bit annoyed with Nidhi...but, kaash I had your expressive power...but anyway, now your argument is giving me strength...😊

But the in the third point, it was not Ashu ..she is comparing with... she wanted to prove that she is better than those other bachcha docs...


thanks mudra 😊

n i think she was referring to ashu there as she said "aapse" ..moreover she dint like how ashu behaved with her being a senior doctor ..so may be that's y she thought of becoming a better doctor that one day ashu will take her suggestion ...or one day she can prove him wrong . 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SHIKHA19


thanks mudra 😊

n i think she was referring to ashu there as she said "aapse" ..moreover she dint like how ashu behaved with her being a senior doctor ..so may be that's y she thought of becoming a better doctor that one day ashu will take her suggestion ...or one day she can prove him wrong . 😕



Shikha, if I can trust my hearing, she said unse and not aapse...and since Ashu had chosen to take the suggestion of the other doctors there, I would assume that she was only referring to them.,,

But still , I don't understand why she is in such a combative mode...she could have just stopped with saying that main apni kabiliyat aapko sabit karke dikhadoongi...also, I don't think doing well in your career is about proving a point to anybody...I mean obviously you are happy with success and praise...but it should be for yourrself...I liked what she said the other night about wanting to find out how good she was...I wish she would stick to that!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As far as I recall, Nidhi was never ever interested in her career. She left her work just to wok out her feelings with Dr. Ashu. And all her life so far was just treating her career as a fun thing. I still remember when her Baba used to guide her to go to work. SO now her obsession of teen love is filled, she cant even focus on that for more than a month or so and now she is -of no where- all career girl with professional ego... I guess she is just one confused girl. The way she portrayed her as just one love-struck girl and now she has her love, she cant even nourish that...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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m holdin my comments till i see how d show progresses ! as of now ,all i can say is cant say anythin !
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Shika .What I tried to express yesterday has been done exceptionally well by you. Particularly the last part Ashu could break or make her career.Proving yourself in your career should be done for your own satisfaction not to challenge somebody. She was indifferent to Ashu .Anger was clearly visible. The same Nidhi put up with Dr. Mallika when she was an ordinary intern.She did grudge when given admin job but did'nt dare to show it to Mallu.. I dislike Nidhi being portrayed in this silly manner. She is extremely bright and has exceptional maturity when situation demands.Surely she must know this simple thing. In the hospital you deal only with your boss not hubby.This is not the only way to create a hospital drama. I hope Asutosh makes her realize it in the near future. Or else it will turn like Mallu track where one person is blind and unreasonable and the other one tolerating it with silent pain.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Small things can be done to show the distinction...like when Ashutosh walked into her room, she should have automatically stood up...however busy you maybe, you automatically stand up when your boss or senior walks into the room...this may not be true of sectors like IT where the work culture is different...but in the medical profession, hierarchy is very clearly established...Ashu could have then told her that it was her husband who had come to meet her and not her senior...things like this would add value to the show...!

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