effect of mallika on ashni's character

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Posted: 13 years ago
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we know mallika's track is near to end,but i don't know for how long time.but what change mallika brought in our leadpairs life.firstly we talk about ashutosh we know ashu's chara from the day1.loving,caring full of matuarity and most of all trusting on nidhi each and everytime.nidhi was a special to him,dear to him and he gave full support and respect to her each and every decession ,he took that steps too to make her happy which were unconfortable to him but enjoyable for nidhi.he called her kiddo,because he don't wanted her tobe changed,because he loved her naughtiness,bubbliness and her honesty too.but this mallika track dragged his image as immatured,careless about her wife,treating her as a care-taker of mallu,and heartless person. now think about nidhi.cuttie pie and sweet heart of ashutosh.but clean from heart.in hindi,manmauji,shararati but respectfull person.she stopped mallika going to mental asylun because of ashu and seeign her condition.always tolerated ashu's anger though she was innocent.but became matured,and sometimes lost courage,and insecure .her husband insulted her break her heart,and forced her to leave the house twice.but she didn't care about her selfrespect came back.and now she is trying to defence and attack[reattack]to expose mallika.without her husband and bb 's support. that's the tragedy of this track.two leading pair with maturity became mercyful and such a cute characters lost their beauty and dignity as a dr.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Alka: i am repeating again.. Ashu didn't force nidhi to go out of house.. Bt only told nidhi to do wat she wants, as the house belongs to her(nidhi) also... Btw, i dnt consider ashu as immatured person...he only reacts too fast.. That is his natural trait.. nidhi is always there for ashu no matter wat.. Ashu doesn't knw hw to express his true feeling for nidhi on regular basis.. Bt he cn only suprise her with his sudden romantic side he brings to the table to express his true feelings for nidhi when situations demands..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ ithasme...

Ashu didn't force nidhi to go out of house.. Bt only told nidhi to do wat she wants, as the house belongs to her(nidhi) also... Btw, i dnt consider ashu as immatured person...he only reacts too fast.. That is his natural trait.. nidhi is always there for ashu no matter wat.. Ashu doesn't knw hw to express his true feeling for nidhi on regular basis.. Bt he cn only suprise her with his sudden romantic side he brings to the table to express his true feelings for nidhi when situations demands..

Sorry bro I don't agree with u on some of ur points...Agreed he did not force Nidhi to go out of the house...but which husband claiming to love his wife would stand by unfeelingly and watch his wife leave her house, and that too at midnight??? Had Mallika threatened to leave the house would he have just sat back and watched her do so??? Definitely not! He would moved heaven and earth to stop her from leaving...

As for Ashu being immature...I don't call it immature...i would call his behaviour callous and him an insensitive husband...

As for Ashu not knowing how to express his feelings to Nidhi...How come he is more expressive when it comes to his feelings for Mallika and he clams up when it comes to Nidhi???

And this sudden show of love and feelings for Nidhi is KPji's last attempt to redeem Asjhu's character...which is seeming to be quite superfluous...and a relatively weak attempt at redemption...Any husband who behaves as Ashu has done would have to do a lot of repentance to win back his wife's trust...A wife may love her husband and that love won't die but she would always feel that what if circumstances are repeated...will my husband again doubt me and stand by his friend????

I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings...But have just put forth my POV bro...So no hard feelings...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Erm ..hello isnt this same Ashu who fired Nidhi at Mallus behest?? Isnt this same Ashu who kept laufing when Mallu admitted to trying to harass Nidhi?? LoLz ...i dun see ny change at all...except th hugs tht came off late between AshMa
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Erm ..hello isnt this same Ashu who fired Nidhi at Mallus behest?? Isnt this same Ashu who kept laufing when Mallu admitted to trying to harass Nidhi?? LoLz ...i dun see ny change at all...except th hugs tht came off late between AshMa



Agree with you, Tanu...he has always been insensitive towards Nidhi on occasion and supersensitive vis a vis Mallika...so nothing new there...and despite, all of this, Nidhi still chose to fall in love with him and marry him...so she has to live with her choice...and that is exactly what she is doing...this happens many times...from the outside, you wonder how certain relationships or marriages are surviving...they seem so hopeless on the surface...but there is an invisibie connect that keeps them going...

Ashutosh is no paragon of virtue...he is a flawed character with more than his share of complexities and insecurities...his actions are outrageous at times and simply indegistible...but Nidhi still puts up with them...because she chooses to...perhaps she knows something more that none of us do!

And yet, I would really hope to see Ashutosh make an effort to address his flaws and rectify them rather than arrogantly say 'Take me or leave me, this is who I am!"
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually ashutosh was like this since beginning ...but the point is that earlier ashni was not married so we took mallu thing lightly as at that time both woman were on same place to him ..but now the things has changed completely as he is now MARRIED ...n that is the big difference ..now he cant put two ladies on same level in his life ...but he is doing so ...that's y he is at big fault ..so ashu ji no maffi to u
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SHIKHA19

Actually ashutosh was like this since beginning ...but the point is that earlier ashni was not married so we took mallu thing lightly as at that time both woman were on same place to him ..but now the things has changed completely as he is now MARRIED ...n that is the big difference ..now he cant put two ladies on same level in his life ...but he is doing so ...that's y he is at big fault ..so ashu ji no maffi to u



Shikha, marriage is just legalizing a commitment...personally, the commitment is already made when you give your heart...

Ashutosh, even after confessing his love to Nidhi, overlooked Mallika's lapses and even asked Nidhi not to overact to Mallika's barbs...if we can excuse that, we can excuse this...

A piece of paper cannot do what a commitment of the heart cannot!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SHIKHA19

Actually ashutosh was like this since beginning ...but the point is that earlier ashni was not married so we took mallu thing lightly as at that time both woman were on same place to him ..but now the things has changed completely as he is now MARRIED ...n that is the big difference ..now he cant put two ladies on same level in his life ...but he is doing so ...that's y he is at big fault ..so ashu ji no maffi to u


This is because the writer does not know the significance of marriage and has no respect for it. I understood this from his statement about a friend being a soul mate. For a man who claims Nidhi has a special place above everybody is it not strange he treats Mallu on par with /or better than Nidhi. It is not Mallu'S mistake entirely. She was not made to understand by Ashu that hurting Nidhi is not different from hurting Ashu . He reacted in a very cool manner to her revelations. Neither appeared hurt nor reprimanded her for Nidhi's sake. This gave Mallu the necessary cue to continue her misbehavior with Nidhi. Ashu did not made it clear his friendship and his personal relationships are different,one cannot interfere with the other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with Mehek25 completely
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao



Shikha, marriage is just legalizing a commitment...personally, the commitment is already made when you give your heart...

Ashutosh, even after confessing his love to Nidhi, overlooked Mallika's lapses and even asked Nidhi not to overact to Mallika's barbs...if we can excuse that, we can excuse this...

A piece of paper cannot do what a commitment of the heart cannot!


I agree but saat vachan n saat phere change lot of things in smbdy's life . before marriage we can have the attitude "chalta hai " ..but after marriage "NO" ...see nidhi ..before marriage she was there for anji 24/7 but after marriage she even denied to go when ranga's family was coming ...MARRIAGE IS IMPORTANT N IT MEANS A LOT .

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