Ashu's psychology is justified in his own terms rite.. bt the pnt is wen one is as mature as Ashu one doesnt expect him to handle this situation so badly... he is showing more and more signs of a typical male thn a matured highly educated individual.. i guess wen it comes to domestic crisis, no matter wat post thy held.. thy turn into one typical
chauvinist male! My house, my money.. my parents.. my family.. my friends.. as if the one who is coming to ur home leaving her own family and friends is obliged to serve and follow commands and live by his rules...without uttering a word.. jst coz she committed a crime of marrying and tht too a person like u..
eh.. sorry for my feminist blabbering.. bt cant help myself wen i encouter such typical male species!đ
one cannot possibly justify Ashu's dumb conduct with mallu..
Mallu is throwing in his face all the clues tht
yes i m still obessessed with u..
eg. Main tumhare bagair maar jaungi..
Yes.. i m clinging on to you mentally and physically...
eg. Tum hi meri dawa ho..
and esp after Nidhi explained to him blantantly y everybody including she is insecure abt Mallu.. she told him clearly tht its not abt his integrity its abt Mallu's obessive blind-in-love conduct ..and yet he is blind to Mallu... how can he trust her more thn his wife, who has always been with him thru thick and thin except wen it came to her baba.. and on the other hand its mallu who has left no stone unturned to separate thm.. and hurt Nidhi as much as she cud.. and all the while he has been a dumb mute spectator to her malicious play... playing on the tune of his 12-yr f'shp!
Nidhi has never denied accepting Mallu in his life she jst asked him to conduct himself with some dignity and not give in to Mallu's obession.. to save some little grace of her infront of Mallu! luks like she has lost more to Mallu as a wife thn she had as a girlfriend.. thnx to Ashu!
this all infuriates me.. and i have no sympathy watsoever for this Ashu!
Ashu needed to draw a fine line betn his duties as a husband and a friend which he has failed grossly .. in the process he is hurting his newly wedded very young wife.. who is acting more sensibly thn him..
Agreed Ashu felt for his friend.. i was okay with tht part and it was still bearable for me till morning.. tht he was sad tht he wudnt b able to help his best friend.. bt wat he did inthe morning was unacceptable.. ignoring knowingly one's wife who has bt one intention to save their mrg is disgusting!
he is openly blackmailing Nidhi.. now Nidhi cant even voice her concerns without fearing to hurt him! Everytime she wud think of coming clean with him.. sharing her insecurities she wud b held back by this fear tht she wud hurt him and he wud sulk and ignore her! Ashu has shut closed this door on Nidhi himself ! and Mallu is gonna make her way thru tht 12-yr old open door tht thy share! and he is surely gonna welcome her with open arms! Y does he even want Nidhi in his life.. seriously!
Here.. Mallu is successful in gaining his complete attention.. now she will eat up on their couple time as well being 24x7 in their company... she will slowly take up Nidhi's place under pretext of f'ship and her pitiful state.. nxt week we r gonna c her cooking for Ashu and even tending to him.. and Nidhi onlooking at thm helplessly! Wen one's husband doesnt give u the respect and place in his life, wat can u expect of the rest.. aka. hiraman kaka.. bade baba..!
Mallu is a vicious devil and Ashu deserves such a friend.. I am waiting for the day wen Mallu's truth will b thrown in his face.. and i hope and pray tht it wud b too late for him to get back Nidhi!đ..
and for the 2nd time in the life span of this serial i have felt tht Rohan was much better choice for Nidhi thn Ashutosh! forget the age difference, i will chose Rohan over Ashu jst for the characteristic traits.. for me Rohan wins over Ashu hands down!
Ashu deserves a person like Mallu as a life partner.. let him live with such person like Mallu... only thn wud he know the value of gud hearted person like Nidhi!
bt overall, i m fed up of this mallu nonsense.. KPji is not going to spare us any soon.. i came back to give it a chance.. bt i cant bear to watch such nonsense at 11 p.m.
and my husband keeps bugging me.. wers the romance in ur serial now.. y u wanna watch this crap antics of Mallu at 11 p.m. and scare me at bedtime! đ
so i m skipping this awful mallu track.. bye bye KPji.. gud luck with ur mallu-prem and ur rendezvous "matured" audience.. i refrain myself to get soo matured..!đđđ
Edited by achiever - 13 years ago