isnt this serial reflects our society ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hello guys,happy sunday. now that story track dissappointing us.but i have some questions and i am little confussed about this track.and my own thinking raised a question are we going back in19th century? I know we are society persons but i can realise that the characters in this serial are shown diplomatic when it comes to their own.let me explain when rohan was there with nidhi rohan hugs nidhi when nidhi was badly hurted by col.we gave the name of sympathy and friendship another ways mallu hugs ashu when she really needs him[because we know she is badly hurted and only identifying ashu,and for that also we are not sure that she is just acting or really in bad condition] .that became big issue. BB; nandini [nidhis mother] was his daughter he loves her a lot but when she got merrid col verma ,he immediately cut all his relations with her and never saw her and her betis [naatin] face.when she[nidhi]borned or and when nandini died.and suddenly he came to col verma to realize ashu and nidhis relation[love] and gave solid arguments how ashu is suitable for nidhi isnot his diplomatic behaviour. COL VERMA; he married a girl without even informing her father and he wewants nidhi[or forced her] not to merry with ashutosh because society will raise question on this relation and he hated dr mathur for the same reason DB; because of age diff btwn ash and nidhi she did not gave permission of this marriage.and now she interfer in ashnis personal life . lekinagar uski bhabhi [just for imagine] ya koi bade aadmi ki biwi mur jaati hai to wohi ek kuwari ladki ka rishta lekar aati hai.tub unhe koi samaaj ki maryada nahi nadati. SHYAMA; she called nidhi as her own daughter but when question raised she never gave moral support to nidhi and for anji she was the first fighter. CV; cvs have great responsibility to continue this serial for a long time for that they required new entry,new twists and some spice which can lead their show.and i remember some one said to start a love story is easy but to maintain this is not an easy task. Ashutosh is taking care of her[mallika] as a friend.but as of our thinking it is overlimits.because as for thinking ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte.mallika was her friend since 12 years.4 din kutta saath main ruhe to humme ussasebhi lagao ho jaata hai.and dont forgot in which condition he found mallika? his friendship is now on testing period.he is a res doctor and know at this stage mallika wants his care and sympathy[for some time we can forgot how she was in past and see her as a patient] nidhi can understand ashus feeling and gave support him as a doctor mallika wants ashu because she knew ashu very well they studied together,they practising together and without hesitation they can enter eachothers house.mallika loves ashu but it is normal. but it is jealousy towards nidhi to force her to do so bad things in her life though we acts as we are free minded but our culture rituals did not allow us to think beyond the boundries.as a parents we thinks our children are our property and their future must be decide by us[COL VERMA} and sometimeswe didnot care for their happiness. and our mentallity needs a break.this is totally my view and dont want to hurt anybodys feelings.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nidhi-Rohan hug was pre-marrital.More than it,Rohan then didn't fall for Nidhi and neither he ever tried to separate AshNi.So comparing Rohan's hug with Mallu's one is no where to be justified.But yes,at this sick stage,it can be taken lightly.
Col.Verma's objection to an extent was right-18 yrs difference isn't a simple thing to be overlooked so easily...It' more than a problem than just of mentality and it's nothing to do with 19th Century-at that time Arranged Marriages did occur with huge age-diff which isn't followed now...
DB is the representation of older generation and she is reflecting that properly,Shyama supported Nidhi time to time but of course,remained far away from playing a real Mother's role...In fact very few times,anyone else can fill a Mother's gap,it's universal and all-time truth...
BB's role as Ashu's Baba is genuine while i think,he failed his job towards Nandini and Nidhi...What Nandini and Col.Verma did,it could b dun in a better way,but what BB did,it was unforgettable-yes,there r some persons like this still in our society who because of their "Ziddi" attitude,can do the worst things even normally if he is a good person...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SwastikAshNi

Nidhi-Rohan hug was pre-marrital.More than it,Rohan then didn't fall for Nidhi and neither he ever tried to separate AshNi.So comparing Rohan's hug with Mallu's one is no where to be justified.But yes,at this sick stage,it can be taken lightly.
Col.Verma's objection to an extent was right-18 yrs difference isn't a simple thing to be overlooked so easily...It' more than a problem than just of mentality and it's nothing to do with 19th Century-at that time Arranged Marriages did occur with huge age-diff which isn't followed now...
DB is the representation of older generation and she is reflecting that properly,Shyama supported Nidhi time to time but of course,remained far away from playing a real Mother's role...In fact very few times,anyone else can fill a Mother's gap,it's universal and all-time truth...
BB's role as Ashu's Baba is genuine while i think,he failed his job towards Nandini and Nidhi...What Nandini and Col.Verma did,it could b dun in a better way,but what BB did,it was unforgettable-yes,there r some persons like this still in our society who because of their "Ziddi" attitude,can do the worst things even normally if he is a good person...



{{Very correct Swastik.
About BB--When he went to Nidhi's house to ask Col. Verma to give permission for Ashu and Nidhi's marriage, he came down on his knees and again and again pleaded for Ashu and NIdhi. He said that they are each others jaan, each others khushi, Ashu will be Nidhi's guide, philosopher a helping hand in difficulties. He will give her all the happiness in the world. Then, now, does he think that Ashu's present behavior is going to make Nidhi happy? Cant he see the disappointment, the fear the sorrow in Nidhi's eyes? What kind of a person he is? Cant he understand what DB( the person of almost his age ) is saying? Very wrong BB very wrong!!!!

About Rohan-- When he was hugging Nidhi, apart from what you have mentioned, Rohan's hug was very innocent and there wasnt any calosness in it. On the other hand Malli's hugs are so passionate, lusty and she looks so calos that it makes you very sick in the stomach.

These things are not accepted.

Again my POV bass}}


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Posted: 13 years ago
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at this stage mallika needs ahutosh and she didnot remember anything about her past[as we donot know she is acting or not] and her hug is not passionate but she is in great depression now because at this stage she only identified ashu.rohan also try to hide ashus engagement ring but confess soon
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@alka: good [ost.. well the serial theme or sme things that cvs r showing does happen in our conservative society that we all live in...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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by chance bb went to nidhis house to conveyance.he didnot serched his daughter [nandini]and naatin before.he didnot bothered his daughter before. agar nidhi aur ashu ke pyaar aur relation ki baat nahi hoti to bb kabhi apne beti,daamad aur naatin ki maafi maangne jaate?and then this is like nau so[900] chhuhe khaakar billi haj ko chali.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SwastikAshNi

<font color="#FF0000"><font size="2">Nidhi-Rohan hug was pre-marrital.More than it,Rohan then didn't fall for Nidhi and neither he ever tried to separate AshNi.So comparing Rohan's hug with Mallu's one is no where to be justified.But yes,at this sick stage,it can be taken lightly.
Col.Verma's objection to an extent was right-18 yrs difference isn't a simple thing to be overlooked so easily...It' more than a problem than just of mentality and it's nothing to do with 19th Century-at that time Arranged Marriages did occur with huge age-diff which isn't followed now...
DB is the representation of older generation and she is reflecting that properly,Shyama supported Nidhi time to time but of course,remained far away from playing a real Mother's role...In fact very few times,anyone else can fill a Mother's gap,it's universal and all-time truth...
BB's role as Ashu's Baba is genuine while i think,he failed his job towards Nandini and Nidhi...What Nandini and Col.Verma did,it could b dun in a better way,but what BB did,it was unforgettable-yes,there r some persons like this still in our society who because of their "Ziddi" attitude,can do the worst things even normally if he is a good person...</font>
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Agree wid u bhai fully, nothing remaining to say only,KUCH TOH LOG KAHENGE is the Theme and They r following it,

Alka very nyc post, Society realy needs a Break to Mentally health.
Edited by DevvivekAshNI - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kpbhakta



{{Very correct Swastik.
About BB--When he went to Nidhi's house to ask Col. Verma to give permission for Ashu and Nidhi's marriage, he came down on his knees and again and again pleaded for Ashu and NIdhi. He said that they are each others jaan, each others khushi, Ashu will be Nidhi's guide, philosopher a helping hand in difficulties. He will give her all the happiness in the world. Then, now, does he think that Ashu's present behavior is going to make Nidhi happy? Cant he see the disappointment, the fear the sorrow in Nidhi's eyes? What kind of a person he is? Cant he understand what DB( the person of almost his age ) is saying? Very wrong BB very wrong!!!!

About Rohan-- When he was hugging Nidhi, apart from what you have mentioned, Rohan's hug was very innocent and there wasnt any calosness in it. On the other hand Malli's hugs are so passionate, lusty and she looks so calos that it makes you very sick in the stomach.

These things are not accepted.

Again my POV bass}}


I agree with you a hundred percent. Ther is no comparison between Rohan and Mallika.

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