Why is it necessary that Nidhi should go for work?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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In whichever light KP must be thinking about portraying the female characters...I have serious objections about Nidhi's decisions or her attitude towards the work.

1. In BB's words only, Nidhi had clearly wasted a medical seat which another person could have used it for the goodness of the world.

2. Nidhi 'was' an intelligent doctor and she was shown (in the initial episodes), realised the importance of a doctor in the eyes of the patients and also during CB's hospitalisation. When she had a first hand experience of the necessity to utilize her knowledge, why she doesnt use it?

3. Lets say, Nidhi is some other professional...not a doctor. Even then, she is an able bodied person in her prime youth. Is it not her responsibility to do something useful?

4. Nidhi is not from DB's generation. She obviously knows the importance of self respect, self relibilty and independent thinking. Going out and working gives a person all these qualities. In a show like KTLK, where the characters have broad and practical thinking, it is very surprising to make Nidhi a typical bahu of 18th century. The money which you earn on your own, gives you stability and independence. Various situations you tackle gives you confidence and emotional maturity. You will recognize the self importance.. which is more important to any person.

5. While showing my displeasure about Nidhi's this attitude, I am very disappointed with another thing. As everyone is predicting, if the lady thrown out from a hotel is Mallika, I say, seriously KP needs a mental checkup...for cheap depiction.

For God's sake, Mallika is a reputed doctor. She must have made an error in recognizing Jagan. But she had handled her own life for 35+ years. She has maintained herself with dignity. Please... KP...this is a serious objection...showing a self reliant and self sufficient lady in a bad light!! She is not a bechari... she cannot be thrown out like this...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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you have raised valid points.
i didnt like the fact that ashu was rude or rather insulted nidhi just for chai.
He ignores bad doings of mallu and has full faith in her.
In case of nidhi each day he tells one thing.
Is She going to work or not?
or be at home as A wife to confused ashu?I am really confused about the way he treats nidhi.

Anyway,mallu has entered the scene.we can only pray for nidhi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mudra... agree to ur observations regarding.. WORKing.. n NOT WORKing flip - flops...

As of now.. i m waiting for a few days.. before asking KP ji..what he wants to portray.. a saas-bahu but its different show or a show about different couple.. treated differently...

I really get annoyed seeing Nidhi.. doing household work.. without even thinking of resuming work.. not even discussing...or mentioning..

@Mallu ... i think we should hold our horses.. n see the backstory .. as to how n why Mallu is in such dire straits. .before deciding on what KP wants to portray..!

I had asked him on his wall. .about how justifiable Mallus OCD-pan is and he said...things that make me think.. 'all is fair in love n war' 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very true.. Why Nidhi is treated like this by Ashu.
Ashu said even in today's epi.( or every epi. Someone in show always mentioned that Nidhi is doctor) To Nidhi that she is a doctor.
About mallu it's very hard to predict that why she is in this situation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It beats me too,as to why a self made,intelligent,dignified woman of Mallu's stature be in this state even if her husband had cheated and left her.She is a renowned surgeon too,so why would she have financial issues this bad where she is forced out on the streets?If this is the way to get Mallu back in Asu's life and house,then I sure think KP's lost the plot!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yikes.i wish it is not like PATI PATNI AUR WOH.

because the word KUCH TOH LOG KAHENGE WILL SUIT THIS SITUATION.It is very tiring to think what mallu will do
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What iff...

Mallika's no-good husband disappears overnight stealing all her money and credit cards. On top of being an abusive husband.

She is too embarrassed to tell her brother about it, and perhaps Jagan has even overdrawn on the hotel bill...
The hotel throws her out.

The more subservient and fawning are the five star hotels, the more I often wonder what they would do if I could not pay my bill!

To make an impression of Ashu (who had totally rejected her last time) she has to come in, into the story in a position of vulnerability, no?







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Posted: 13 years ago
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totally agree u word by word 😛
they them self r telling this serial is for urban audience toh phir writers shouldn't be doing such kind of blunders😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you all for sharing your views.

Here, I am concerned about Nidhi's character to be portrayed as a representative of the youth of 21st century. Girls of that calibre need not be 'becharis'.

When Ashutosh was angry with her for not serving tea, she should have shown tackling the situation properly..instead of sitting without food and crying just like a typical bahu.. She doesnt have to get somebody's sympathy for God's sake. She is a 24 year old educated individual and should quickly come up with an appropriate behavior.

Next thing I wanted point out is her dress / attire... for few days after marriage may be ok, but the glittering clothes and jewellery ... practically is it possible to carry them daily ? CVs should comeout of the mental block of that typical or regular bahu image... even before the marriage also, Nidhi was wearing sarees... why cant the same getup be maintained???

and, I am against throwing mallika from the hotel for not paying bills... let aside, her worst behaviour towards AshNi... that is nothing to do with her lookout towards the external world. Mallika is a respectable doctor and she has a healthy friendship with Ashutosh. She knows that Ashutosh too values her the most. She could have shown handling her things in dignified manner. Here I am agreeing with KP... in love everything is fair... but, why creating a situation like, when hubby cheated her, she is thrown out...No need to show a self made character seeking sympathy this way!.. this is not one of those ...brainless saas bahu stories... KPji! please wake up...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think there is an angle in Nidhi's perspective.She was not interested about this profession,she was forced or blackmailed emotionally to study it.Butit's not the case she can't be serious with her this profession just because she isn't interested.She thinks herself not to be fit enough for such a serious profession where Human Lives are decided.She understands the dignity of this profession but hasn't the enough confidence for being a Doctor and deal with Human Lives.She needs the motivation which Ashu can give her.Be patient,we will see it soon.Har problem ka ekdinme solve ho jaayega to dikhaneko kya rahega!😛
About other job,she hasn't got any scope or time,she was in her relation with Ashu with its ups and down.Waise Housewife hona koi sharam ki baat to hai nahin-educated woman also can become Housewife if she feels secured with it.
About Mallu,just wait and see.I'm just scared to see that Sardard again.Dun want to engage talking about her.😉
Edited by SwastikAshNi - 13 years ago

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