Wah Tanu, what a heading! Very apt and thanks for the update too! Finally CVs gave us the answer today, they are going to keep things positive, and real love this approach! Thank you CVs. 👍🏼 Thankfully they are not over dramatic in this show. 😛
And Ashu did exactly what I mentioned in the other post,😆 take the food from the box, heat it up and take it to Nidhi. After a round of sorry they will have a romantic time. 😃 Of course I also wrote that he would get her coffee the next morning and I think from his expression he was all set to do that but alas DB came in between his plans and we were robbed of another beautiful session. 😡 Also loved how they sleep together, shows how far they have come from the awkwardness of the SR. 👏
Both of them showed a lot of maturity, and the willingness to talk things through is the key here. 👏 As soon as Ashu found out that Nidhi had cooked the food but did not eat becoz of him, he immediately understood that he had hurt her with his behavior. 👍🏼 I was so happy he took the initiative to make remedies and did not need any promoting from aunty. 😃 Yes, Nidhi was mad at him but relented becoz she knew she made a mistake that morning. 😳 But what I liked is she did not tell anyone about it or about Ashu's rudeness, 😊 not even when DB pressurized her. 😳 Good girl, she understood that some things need to be settled between them. 👏
A few things here that Ashni need to learn from this:
1. If Ashu had refused the food in a nice way Nidhi would have told him that she had made it. He needs to start giving Nidhi the benefit of doubt. This will avoid a lot of unhappy situations. They are not always going to have an well wisher come to their rescue. 🤔
2. The way he explained to her about her responsibilities after pacifying her, he could have done it when she came to the hospital.😔 Again this would have avoided a lot of unpleasantness.
3. Nidhi is neither unreasonable nor immature and she will understand if he presents his POV. She has a lot of love but also a lot of respect for him and he needs to make sure his actions justify that respect.
4. As for Nidhi, she has to come out of her dreamland real quick and realize that she has to quickly transition from daughter to wife and DIL. 😉
5. She has to understand Ashu's moody and temperamental nature and make sure she makes an effort to sort issues out ASAP and not let them fester in his mind. This is actually the hardest thing for her to do but she has to find her ways of doing this. 😳
6. When Nidhi told Ashu what hurt her more was the fact that he was very rude, I felt the two of them are slowly becoming equals in this relationship.👍🏼 The fact she even uttered those words to his face shows she is taking liberties that only a wife can and Ashu is letting her do it.👏
Nidhi needs to find a way of stopping DB from interfering, and do it soon.🤔 Maybe she needs to take CBs help here and make sure he does not let DB come as often. DBs rudeness to everyone is just not done! 👎🏼 She is not only insulting them but herself and embarrassing Nidhi.😲 DB has to accept that BB is her nana and whether she likes it or not it is a fact! 😡
Aunty is proving to be the wise one and I will be sad to see her go, 😭 but hope she will pop in from time to time like she mentioned. Ashni are going to need this mother figure. 😳 Till now she has proved to be more of a mother to Ashu and less of a saans to Nidhi.👏 And with time I am sure she will prove to be more of a mother to Nidhi than DB can ever be!! Her timely advice to Ashu gave him the heads up. 👏 She presents a woman's POV that is missing in Ashu's life. 😳
Ashni handled DB very smartly today.👍🏼 Nidhi correctly putting her foot down and Ashu just maintaining a stoic silence when DB insulted him. 👏 BB stopped Nidhi so matters do not worsen. Everyone there understood the sensitivity of the situation except the person responsible for it - DB. 😡 She is shameless, and promised to keep coming. What a thick skin she has! 😡
Precap - Ashni look like they are willing to discuss issues, 👏 but I sincerely hope Nidhi will report things to CB and enlist his help.😳
Edited by aardhan - 13 years ago