Where are the nuances?

The show promised "nuances" of a "heartwarming" love story... but everything is rushed. Even now the bond of love between AshNi is not strong enough to weather the house storm. Why oh why are the CVs in a hurry...i would really love to see more AshNi dates...their day to day lives that build up a strong relationship before the house and bankruptcy come up!!! Is someone listening?????