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Posted: 13 years ago
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navya, how long a person will be alive is not in our hands. A girl may marry a guy of her age and he may die even b4 they celebrate their first wedding anniversary. I believe one of the partners being a matured one helps a lot in a married life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even my Dad and mom have an age difference of 8 years.In those days women were not given much choice.In these days go to any matrimonial site everywhere there is a mention of the age difference should not be more than 3 to 5 yrs of age .My guess is it is because of the compatibility factor they have given that limit.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@navya..can understand where you are coming from and please do not hesitate in putting across your views,,,but this show is exactly dealing with the questions you have put forth and is trying to provide answers to those,,,that it is possible for two people with substantial age gap to love and live together ,,,it is possible for them to get together irrespective of what society and people will say and how they do it and why they do it is the journey we are embarking on with ashutosh and nidhi,,,,hence keeping a open mind give this love story a chance and see if it provides you with the answers you seek,...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have often been attracted to men who are older than me...but then also guys the same age as me...this show is doing something quite simple...telling us that love can happen and will happen and we cannot really control it...one that attraction hits ...the feeling spreads like wildfire and we are left in the condition Nidhi is in right now...

You have to think beyond Ashutosh's age...he is a very educated, well established, handsome, kind and respected gentleman... he is a man that deserves to be happy...someone you would be proud to have...in that way Nidhi has made a good choice...plus he is unmarried...Nidhi found something in him to connect with...maybe his tortured soul...which she wishes to heal...

Once u begin to care for a person...you begin t idolize them...my own experience of love is that your feeling for that person bef. and after falling in love completely changes...like night and day...u think as if that person is flawless...and even their flaws become so beautiful to u...so this is the case with Nidhi...she is in love...and now it doesn't matter what his age is...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Conservative.. mindsets.. are extremely difficult to fight.. n such conservatism may not be limited to only age.. but say love marriage.. or girls working after marriage.. etc etc...
I dont think in todays world.. same age couples also stick together.. u can read the latest DIVORCE rates in india itself n realise that.. Age is not the only reason for things working or not working..!! Remarriage is not a crime.. but from conservative pov.. ppl are forced to suffer than to get out of a bad marriage!
I hope this show helps u to realise that.. as an individual ur self respect.. n ur identity should not be compromised on .. even if its for ur family..coz many times.. family are not able to see the larger picture..!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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exactly in today's world ..relationships break not coz of any other reason but huge ego and refusal to comply...age has got nothing to do with it..we have so many cases where two people who were perfect for each other in every way could not hold onto thier relationship for petty reasons,,,,

a girl seeks maturity and self respect in a man ...what attracted nidhi to ashutosh was the pain he had engulfed himself in ...the goodness of a man he is...and it did not take long before her mission became to make everything happy and joyous for him ...and then that turned into love ,,,,,she never thought abt age untill anjie drilled into her even after that she has not thought abt it coz she sees beyond that,,,,she trusts him a lot ,respects him a lot hence her free spirited ways around him ,her uninhibited occupancy of his personal space...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29


exactly in today's world ..relationships break not coz of any other reason but huge ego and refusal to comply...age has got nothing to do with it..we have so many cases where two people who were perfect for each other in every way could not hold onto thier relationship for petty reasons,,,,

a girl seeks maturity and self respect in a man ...what attracted nidhi to ashutosh was the pain he had engulfed himself in ...the goodness of a man he is...and it did not take long before her mission became to make everything happy and joyous for him ...and then that turned into love ,,,,,she never thought abt age untill anjie drilled into her even after that she has not thought abt it coz she sees beyond that,,,,she trusts him a lot ,respects him a lot hence her free spirited ways around him ,her uninhibited occupancy of his personal space...



gr88 pov sunmeera...😊..exactly wat i wanted to convey...👍🏼

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navya2m

i am sorry if my thoughts gonna hurt nyone of the fans in this forum..

my question is can u ppl accept such a story in real life.??
a 24 yr old girl falling for a 42 yr old gentleman or the viceversa..??
it is even awkward to think so.. do u think this storyline is correct??
a relation like love or marriage between ppl with so much of age gap used to happen before 1940's or 1930's.. do u think this is correct in todays world??
i dont think so... wht is so exciting in this story??
my personal opinion is it would be sensible if dr.ashutosh and dr.mallika are a couple
and dr.nidhi with karan wahi(dunno his character nam)..
and as said in the beginning if nyone is hurted..



@blue
well yes i won't be able to accept such thing
as human nature i too will go against it
but now after the show my view is changing
the problems and condition of such a couple is now understandable to me so now maybe i can accept such in real life

@green
well yes it is awkward but in real life
i don't find it bad at reel life
and i think this storyline is correct
i mean things don't happen the way we want
such stories happen in reality
and so the story is correct as it is emphasizing on the problems and conditions of the couple and maybe it can change view of many just like it had done to me


@red
there is no question for being correct
all have right to do what they want
and if they love someone then who are we to decide its correct or not?

@pink
the exciting part as i mentioned above too is that it is highlighting the conditions of such couple and can change view of society towards them

@brown
yeah that will be sensible but senses don't go right all time


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Armu4eva...@Shamil...

Well said both of u...Tanu loved ur examples...even i was going to give them but luckily I saw ur post before I could do so...

@navya2m

I think u are living in a dreamworld and are unaware of what is happening around u...This age difference thing is becoming quite common now-a-days.

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