why love needs intervention

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Posted: 13 years ago
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this is a general topic in relation to the current situation in ktlk that why love needs intervention ,in ktlk at the moment both nidhi are ashotosh are on the wrong side of love and as we all know karan and the other guy will play cupids from both side ,but i have a general question as why love needs intervention from both sides in many cases ,i mean someone else or u may say 3rd person makes u realise that u love the person ,when on the other hand love teaches u to be more frank and simply express the feeling to the person u love most and thats wats the meaning of love that u simply say to that person that i love u but thats normally not the case ,like in the case of ashitosh he knows from inside that he loves nidhi but cant express until or unless someone else makes him realise and so a little bit with nidhi,so why this happnes in our lifves that we cant express our love to the person we love must ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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waiting for replies ,people do reply and i hope u like the topic
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In an ideal.. world.. n ideal situation.. no third person.. aka cupid may be needed.. .but sometimes.. matters of heart are thus complicated that more than INTERVENTION ... its DIRECTION thats needed...

Most of the time.. the direction is to look ahead ..think thru.. n decide..!! For instance... Anjie.. has Analysed the tell tale signs Nidhi had much before n said she was in love... but it took a confro with Mallu for Nidhi to herself arrive at that conclusion..

In Ashus case... Mallus ultimatum have made him.. think in that direction tho neither Mallu wanted it nor Ashu expected it... Armaan is only (like Anji) picking up the tell tale signs n will act as Ashus sounding board..!

@Karan... he is a character.. coming opp. Nidhi... after a while of knowing her.. he will easily pick up that she has someone else in her heart...

So there.. imho.. its not intervention ... but a catalyst always helps to speed up a reaction (thats what Chemistry the SUBJECT says as well )
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well...many times in such cases ur unable to know ur own feelings n need someone to act as catalyst, someone to make u realize abt ur own feelings

n here, in a show like KTLK where d age gap betn d lovers is so big... even if they r in luv bt they wont accept it...d th8 of society n d sense of awkwardness will deffo strike their head...so they wont confess it even to themselves n will continue to remain in their state of dilemma n confusion until n unless a 3rd person intervenes n applies d external force to them make them realize abt it...unki pyarki gaadi bina dhakka lagaye nahi chalne wali...so...

ah, this is so similar to Newton's 1st law of motion...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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its all about point of view like you write 6 in your hand u c 6 n i 9 but from other angle you can c 6 n 9
so love or life or any matter some time point of view is very imp unless u can c others prospective
simple i hope it helps
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yea but its strange that even in this modern age and societ the one thing which has not become modern or chage with time is love ,so weird isnt it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adol

yea but its strange that even in this modern age and societ the one thing which has not become modern or chage with time is love ,so weird isnt it


Love is love.. it makes everyone around it change.. but it never changes 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yea but i feel love is a really private thing between two people but why someone other comes in betweeni.e cupids ,love is meant to be between 2 people but in todays world love has lost it original defination
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adol

yea but i feel love is a really private thing between two people but why someone other comes in betweeni.e cupids ,love is meant to be between 2 people but in todays world love has lost it original defination



Adol ,the people in love still need to live in on this society and follow its culture and rules.so they need assurance that that falling in love differently from society expectations is okay. Love is sacrifice and you try To think the best for the other person so you let go. In this scenario Dr A will think he is too old for Nids and wish her to find happiness with a younger person.in this situation he needs reassurance that in love age doesnt matter and to assure him that he is not being selfish falling in love with a younger girl. That's why intervention or catalyst is needed.
Edited by SriB - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey guys, read each and every explanation to Adol's question and love each and everyone's answer and perspective. HAts off to all of you. Very well explained.
Edited by SriB - 13 years ago

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