Why it is most difficult for Sona? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Sona must trust Dev this time around

Past is past , want to repeat the same things again!

Most important is Dev ... his love for Soha is the same .

Ayush according to the story is Devakshi’s son

Sona must show more live to him

Sona used to say put ownself in other person’s shoes

Why not she is placing hersel in Ayush’s place ?

That little soul lost his father , no mother either , scared , shocked child is in a new house with strangers .

Sona as a fellow human being show love ... that house is Sona’s house too she is no more am out sider

...Dev love both children but he is very sad to see the son like that !

To me today Dev handled every thing well

Another time it can explode !

Eshwari will make things complicated if Sona doesn’t come out from frozen mode

I am happy they r showing sona this way. Within a day, u cannot just love someone. On top of it hard hitting suhana not her blood. Sona is not like esh. Even if it was not her child, she would love. And we got clear answer after dev asked her why r you not showing concern. Eri really excelled that scene..

And trusting dev.😆. Not once twice she was thrown out within few of moments.

You think, now that house is sona 's too? She is still outsider n she is there as children mother.

And dev n esh giving extra pyaar rt, so ayush is not missing much. If ma beta were not taking care of him, I think sona would hv bern first person to take care.

Woah look who is back😛

Originally posted by: Hari73

I am happy they r showing sona this way. Within a day, u cannot just love someone. On top of it hard hitting suhana not her blood. Sona is not like esh. Even if it was not her child, she would love. And we got clear answer after dev asked her why r you not showing concern. Eri really excelled that scene..

And trusting dev.😆. Not once twice she was thrown out within few of moments.

You think, now that house is sona 's too? She is still outsider n she is there as children mother.

And dev n esh giving extra pyaar rt, so ayush is not missing much. If ma beta were not taking care of him, I think sona would hv bern first person to take care.

No need to love Ayush with in one day

As a child who lost father, and no mom too, in a strange house she should comfort him a bit , on top that Soha tol is rude to him.

Sona must put her foot strong in to her house , that is her house , her soul mate’s house , they share life together she has three children ...

How can she be out sider !

Beautiful write up

Originally posted by: saumiee

A mother's love is like no other. Sonakshi's life revolved around Soha and now shubh too. They have been the centre of all her attention. Even though she goes out to work, Ish takes responsibility of their care, still her kids remain her priority. To top it, Sona shared seven (seven most disturbing) years of her life with Suhana. I remember how she said just holding Soha in her arms gave her the hope to live, to continue.

And suddenly, someone comes & says It was all a lie. That She gave all her love to a wrong person. That there is someone else in this world who deserved that love. That She'll have to shift her centre of attention. That someone will have to share the love she gave to Suhana & that one day she might love Ayush a little more, because he is her blood.

This fear of the future, that one day the love she has for Soha might be shared by someone else, not only share. .it might take away a portion of Soha's love as well. .this is making Sonakshi insecure.

So much so, that this is making it difficult to accept Ayush, it is creating a distance between her and Ayush, she fears Ayush will take Suhana's place in her life.

For Dev, Suhana is life but he has easily transitioned to being Ayushman's father too because Suhana was not Dev's only hope when she entered his life. For Sonakshi, suhana was her life support system.

P.S Jatin's entry brought a little ray of positivity back.

P.P.S Hello guys, I am Saumya, was a regular here in Season 1. 🤗

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

No need to love Ayush with in one day

As a child who lost father, and no mom too, in a strange house she should comfort him a bit , on top that Soha tol is rude to him.

Sona must put her foot strong in to her house , that is her house , her soul mate’s house , they share life together she has three children ...

How can she be out sider !

That boy is really scared. I don't think it will change much for him if sona comforts him. He needs time even to accept someone's love.

And that suppose to be her house. But If she uses her rights, esh may not like it and Mr.dev babu will not tolerate mother getting hurt. So, sona shd just go with flow as she needs her children. It's sad status of sona at dixit house. This is same case of woman keeping quiet just for children sake n bear all insults. And devakshi were never soul mates.

Originally posted by: Hari73

That boy is really scared. I don't think it will change much for him if sona comforts him. He needs time even to accept someone's love.

And that suppose to be her house. But If she uses her rights, esh may not like it and Mr.dev babu will not tolerate mother getting hurt. So, sona shd just go with flow as she needs her children. It's sad status of sona at dixit house. This is same case of woman keeping quiet just for children sake n bear all insults. And devakshi were never soul mates.

Don’t care about Ishwari

Her house , her husband ,he really loves her now look a bit lost , her children every thing is in that house .

Who is insulting her now?

Ishwari telling but not exactly insulting , Sona now knows to handle it .

There is constant miss communication with Dev that must be sorted out

Rest of the things will be fine automatically

No “ SOUL MATES” fall from sky , no “ prince charming “ once in the institution of marriage must keep few things

Trust , communication , love and passion

They are soul mates but now tangled in busy life

That healing journey only makers are going to show this season

I think it is going to beautiful

I mean esp for unmarried or newly married .., for every one

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Don’t care about Ishwari

Her house , her husband ,he really loves her now look a bit lost , her children every thing is in that house .

Who is insulting her now?

Ishwari telling but not exactly insulting , Sona now knows to handle it .

There is constant miss communication with Dev that must be sorted out

Rest of the things will be fine automatically

No “ SOUL MATES” fall from sky , no “ prince charming “ once in the institution of marriage must keep few things

Trust , communication , love and passion

They are soul mates but now tangled in busy life

That healing journey only makers are going to show this season

I think it is going to beautiful

I mean esp for unmarried or newly married .., for every one

Even I want to be like that. But in promo they clearly said they are back together for soha sake. This is nayi kahani.

I am not saying dev don't love sona. It's just that sona is not priority n does care less for sona's emotions . He don't listen to her advise at all. For him his mother is right. This is where sona compromising.

I will not call them soulmates, bcoz I hv not seen their heart connection. Last 2 seasons it was more of sona understanding n forgiving. Dev was hardly feeling bad for sona when his family I'll treated her. All I had feeling that they were together mainly for s**🙈😆

Originally posted by: Hari73

Even I want to be like that. But in promo they clearly said they are back together for soha sake. This is nayi kahani.

I am not saying dev don't love sona. It's just that sona is not priority n does care less for sona's emotions . He don't listen to her advise at all. For him his mother is right. This is where sona compromising.

I will not call them soulmates, bcoz I hv not seen their heart connection. Last 2 seasons it was more of sona understanding n forgiving. Dev was hardly feeling bad for sona when his family I'll treated her. All I had feeling that they were together mainly for s**🙈😆

This “ soul mates “ is overrated concept

Devakshi came through the problems but , their marriage was over crowded

Bap ki ladli against Maa beta

So it was destined to disaster ....

Let us see how they are this season!

Their differences make them interesting , I think

Let us watch ... but Ishu on my nerves

Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Yeah ishwari is behaving exactly like how she behaved with soha... But there is a difference, soha had mother, and she knew her father/paternal family is not there... So she believed when truth came out plus even soha took time to called Dev 'papa'...but here ayush had an entire different family, now suddenly his father has died and he had to accept sudden new whole family, with sudden new mannerisms so ishwari's behaviour is going to scare him more

And that dev-sonakshi conversation, I also feel Sonakshi needs to communicate and tell dev whatever she is feeling.... because she is witnessing what ishwari is doing not dev, and she exactly witnessed same behaviour earlier from ishwari 8yrs back...so she needs to tell dev how she felt at that time, soha is going to feel same because of ishwari... But I guess this is exactly the theme of krpkab 3 , how after 9 yrs , there is a communication gap, that love is somewhere lost

She did communicate. She told him to give it some time to adjust. But Ishwari overruled it, saying apna khoon, apna bachcha ghar laana hai. Again, Sona told him to call ahead and make sure and there is nothing overly done, Dev doesn't listen. Ishwari had gone ott with the decorations. So Sona has been trying to communicate her apprehensions and feelings, but overruled by overzealous Ishwari and Dev. Sona had communicated her fear of Soha being alienated also to Ishwari and Ishwari had promised her that won't happen. But it's obviously happening. So I do see Sona communicating, but feels like her views are being brushed aside. And so far, her intense guilt over Ayush and Soha is making her be quiet.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

No need to love Ayush with in one day

As a child who lost father, and no mom too, in a strange house she should comfort him a bit , on top that Soha tol is rude to him.

Sona must put her foot strong in to her house , that is her house , her soul mate’s house , they share life together she has three children ...

How can she be out sider !

By end of season 1, she wasn't an outsider. But obviously continuity has gone down the drain, because in season 3, she very much seems like an outsider. The promos clearly said, they gave their relationship a chance for Suhana, even though in season 1, they were very explicit in showing that they were getting back together because they loved each other and not because of Suhana. They took many episodes to realize their love and get back together, whereas for Suhana, they were doing the 7 days here and 7 days there bit. So eventually when they got back together it was for themselves and not just for Suhana. Again, total mismatch between the seasons. So as for season 3? She is very much an outsider, just there as mother of the kids. Dev doesn't seem very connected to her and Ishwari wasn't missing a chance to taunt her, whether her role as a wife or mother.