ShaRica -Adda -77 Peace and Tranquility - Page 8

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

I dont know why people occasionally drop in questioning our love for Shah and Eri. The other day there were Shaheer fans who went on and on about how we dont care for him and we want him to fail and mock him all day. Today we have comments about how we are judging Erica and she can do whatever she wants. If they as celebs can do whatever they want, we as fans can also post our opinion on whatever we want so long as we are not getting personal or being vicious or hating anyone blindly. Everyone here loves Shah and Eri. Some like one more than the other, the rest like both equally and we all wish them well. But just because we like them, it doesn't mean they are God and we have to praise them 24/7. If we are upset with some action of theirs, I think we are well within our rights to point it out. Just like they dont owe it to us to do as we please, we dont owe it to them either to always defend or support what they do. Even friends and relatives point out our mistakes in real life. Doesn't mean they love us less. Also everyone has their own interpretation of what Shah and Eri post. No one is right or wrong. Its an opinion at the end of the day. This is not directed at any one person but am honestly tired of people questioning whether we love Shah or Eri. Of course we do. Which is why we waste so much time here.

Am really sorry if I hurt anyone. Have been wanting to say it for a while.

Originally posted by: sun29

and nothing is going to stop me from pointing out if they err again be it him or her ..when we praise them to the skies ,we have equal right to drag them back to the earth...

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

Honestly you can always quote and disagree. Debate on why you think Shah or Eri were justified in whatever they did. I have done it too. But this whole 'we should unconditionally support them and defend everything they do because its their life and they can do whatever the hell they want' is beyond me. I hate PB. Just because I like Shah, I really cant defend his choice of doing that shitty show. I dont really care if his family or in future his wife loves that show. I personally dont like it. Same with Erica. If I dont like something, I dont. Does not mean we love them less. We do. Which is why we point out what we think is wrong and continue to support them as a fan.

Originally posted by: sun29

and the reason i do not deal with fans..coz i can never understand their functioning ever...i admire sha and eri a lot and respect them too but unconditional does not exist for me ...we do not judge them ,yes rant and rave but never bash them for their choices..

there is a vast difference between criticism and bashing...and unfortunately we get misinterpreted again and again ...we are not talking about her post or caption ..we are only talking as to why she responds to haters..i mean the whole discussion goes under water coz people think we are bashing erica or shaheer...

@dola..no one assumes you as a basher...but we are tired of justifying our words and stand and this place..

Originally posted by: MichiganGal

I dunno. I think I have become a little more obstinate after shipping them 😆 I hate Shah's depressing captions, I hate PB, I hate some of Eri's weird captions and the fact that she gives more importance to the haters rather than fans etc. etc. etc. And yeah, I do ship them and I cant help but relate some of the stuff they do with each other. If that makes me a hater, so be it. If that makes me delusional, again so be it. I cant forcefully change my mind now anyway 🤣

Originally posted by: sun29

everyone hates PB but many will not show coz that would make them disloyal to him😆😆..manny are annoyed at his and her depressing captions and art movie effect but will not say coz that would demote them from fan no.1..and many stuff they do are connected to one another...we may be crazy at times but we definitely are not delusional ...and by God let some pics of the holidays get leaked..tab sirf hum bolenge🤣

Originally posted by: grace4317

@dola...First of all, congrats on achieving one of the toughest feat in Indian academic system.i.e., getting admission for MBBS, and thus making your parents proud.

Was just going through the adda, just before going to bed and came across your posts, which was mainly full of complaints of we the adda members not supporting Eri for her latest posts. I don't know what make you feel so. But, one thing I would like to clarify is, Mahatma Gandhi is seen as a saintly, almost godlike figure by many Indians. But as per the words from his children, he was far from perfect when it came to parenting. Infact, his eldest son Harilal described Gandhiji as "the greatest father you can have but the one father I wish I did not have. Yet that doesn't invalidate the contributions he did to the freedom movement of India. What I meant to say is that, it makes many of us Eri fans happy, when we hear that she is an inspiration to someone. But, difference is that when you say she is an inspiration, it should be like her positives should guide you to be a good person, while her negatives should teach you to be a better person. Otherwise, it may turn to be that you are just her blind supporter.😊

P.S. Addawasis, sorry. Had to make this post now, so that tomorrow I wanted to keep it as a gyan-free day. I myself am getting bored of my gyan.

Gdnite.