Precap - Dev Slapped Vicky - 2nd August 2017 - Page 2

Please God no more guilt trips for Dev. He's treating Vikky the way he should be. I wish Sona supports him on this one. Fingers crossed.

Dev has always had anger management issues which make him take rash decisions.. from 1st breakup to kicking sonakshi out of house when ishwari fell to drinking when sonakshi left to physically/emotionally abusing her when finding out about Suhana!!! and he never listens to others when angry. just does what he wants!!! the whole vicky hungama, devakshi fights, and now slapgate at school.. kids are watching!!!! about time, he needs to control his emotions better.. hope CVs wont brush this under the carpet again 😡 Dev needs to learn & grow up.. which never seems to happen. all his emotions are extreme. he always make big promises of change and minute a situation goes wrong.. he flies off the handle!!!! at the end of episode he says he will change for suhana, keep al the promises.. next second.. more drama in front of kids 😕 either tell the kids what vicky did or stop being verbally, physically abusive in front of them!! hope this track leads to him learning to control his emotions as a grown person who is now a father! gone are the days of him teaching Golu to cheat and lie and not worry about tests. his own daughter is learning all this.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Why Oh Dev why you want to turn everyone again against you? Blood is always thicker than water. They are not going to remember anything you have done for them until now. See there is always an Ehsan tag there in whatever you have done and you will be expected to just continue giving infinitely. If he hasn't changed yet, which in real life they never do you are falling into the trap set by him so very neatly without even a fight. Your emotions had always been your greatest asset and also your worst enemy. Sona I will be very very angry with you if you don't support him and see to it that you both along with Soha and Ishwari overcome this tide.

Originally posted by: JShukla

Right... so Vicky sent goons to beat up Dev and if not for Sonakshi, who knows what would ave happened...

Vicky did multiple frauds at office , even stole Golu's FD money, caused so much friction between Dev and his wife, .. I mean , I can go on and on on this...

Most of his 'kands' GKB is aware about. Still she has the audacity to think that Ishwari's house is her house, that her son should stay there no matter what, that it is not OK for Dev to even slap Vicky.

Vicky has no good qualities and no man would want his daughter to play with him. .

Also this whole business of letting Suhana dictate who stays where and how is getting too much. let the kids know that Vicky has made and unpardonable offense and its only because of his family that he is let off the hook. else he would be in Jail for corporate crime(stealing a software is a huge offense). he can tell them that this guy cannot be part of household for plenty reasons. there is no need to explain every reason to the kids.

Also dev- don't lose temper and do ugly stuff in front of kids.

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Originally posted by: gmgi

Yes J.S. They all have high expectations from Dev and none from Vicki and he just suffers the worse for it. The Dixits would have lost everything or even worse, they would have even lost Dev if Vicki had been successful in his attempts. But just for a slap that Vicki got(when he actually deserved much worse) Dev is made to feel like he did some crime. He is supposed to look after everyone and take care of them like a big brother and it is his duty but when it comes to correcting them or show his hurt, he doesn't have any rights. What a family?

Dev with absolutely no control over his emotions and both Dev n Sona showing all their tantrums in front of the kids just makes it worse. Vicki didn't have to do anything. Dev did everything to bring him back. Since the kids doesn't know the truth they would of course side with him. They should have been told at least a part of it. They are all acting like kids now.🤔

I think this is the first time I am responding to a post by JShukla, but wanted to say this. What you are saying is what is happening. The power of Control of IN is changing hands. And usually change comes with some resistance. And that is what we are seeing. In the beginning of the series Dev built IN and dedicated it to her. He made her the head of the family. With the kind of relationship he and Ishwari shared, it became a family where these 2 were the head of the family with Dev being submissive and 3 sisters the children of the family. It is the same thing that maamaji pointed out to Ishwari when he tells her to accept Sonakshi as part of the family. He tells her to become the head of the family and clearly told her that the sisters were her responsibility, not Dev's. Ishwari at that time didn't pay heed to his words. And they suffered.

With the sisters now settled and living their lives, Dev is now considering himself, Sonakshi and Soha as his family. His mother is his responsibility, but sisters no longer are. They are his extended family. With the truths that have come out in front of him, the definition of "his family" is changed for him. Maami is still counting on the 'ehsaans' to control Dixits and get Vickky what she wants. But now Dev no longer considers Ishwari to be the head of the family nor her as part of his core family. She is still very much important to him, but he no longer has that submissive behavior towards her. Maami's ehsaan's were towards Ishwari directly and not Dev. Ishwari can no longer ask Dev to pay for her debts. And this change is being shown with the precap slap and Dev's subsequent answer to maami. With that he is telling that his mother's debt is paid and he no longer is bound to it. And Ishwari can do nothing about it no matter what her expressions are or her words are. He is not going to give in.

And I think that is what will happen with Suhana too. That she might ask him to bring back Vickky because he is letting her get away with stuff. Where she doesn't have to take responsibility. But with that the truth of Dev not being in her life for the last 7 years will become the core. And the truths will come out and when it does Suhana will no longer act like she is. And my guess is all 3 ladies RR, Ishwari and Sonakshi play important role in Suhana coming back to the side of right.

I don't think that Soha playing with Vicky is a bad thing... if Vicky has a motive behind it, then it's his loss... I can understand why Dev slapped Vicky but I don't agree with Dev's actions