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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Calvin- Oh I totally agree. You don't have to resolve all the issues. But my problem is with the fact that they literally shoved it under the carpet. Dev and Sona kept talking about the families not getting along, Dev unable to be the bridge between Sona and his mom etc. but they just refused to discuss the crucial issues. Evicting your wife and her family from their house is a huge deal. For one I was disappointed that Dev actually thought he was capable of doing something this horrific and two, it's absolutely abnormal that Sona or her family never chose to mention it. That is something that should have been definitely discussed. And Ishwari should have talked about the prenup and apologised to both of them. And I would have loved to see Dev and Sona discuss Soha and how he feels hurt that she chose to hide it. This way, Sona could have also revealed how much she was hurt and explained her reasons behind hiding it. Instead we have them fighting over who loves who more and how crazy or stoic the other is. Which in itself is a great track but should have come up after they at least had some crucial conversations before the re union or at least post that. I don't expect much. One scene will do 😆 Even now instead of random fighting I really want them to show a scene where Sona lets it all out about how much she was hurt and how much she still loves him. After all the butchering that is the least we deserve 😆 I'd write an entire paragraph praising Mamta if they show even half of what of have managed to convey in your post 😆
Edited by astrix90 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: astrix90

@Calvin- Oh I totally agree. You don't have to resolve all the issues. But my problem is with the fact that they literally shoved it under the carpet. Dev and Sona kept talking about the families not getting along, Dev unable to be the bridge between Sona and his mom etc. but they just refused to discuss the crucial issues. Evicting your wife and her family from their house is a huge deal. For one I was disappointed that Dev actually thought he was capable of doing something this horrific and two, it's absolutely abnormal that Sona or her family never chose to mention it. That is something that should have been definitely discussed. And Ishwari should have talked about the prenup and apologised to both of them. And I would have loved to see Dev and Sona discuss Soha and how he feels hurt that she chose to hide it. This way, Sona could have also revealed how much she was hurt and explained her reasons behind hiding it. Instead we have them fighting over who loves who more and how crazy or stoic the other is. Which in itself is a great track but should have come up after they at least had some crucial conversations before the re union or at least post that. I don't expect much. One scene will do 😆 Even now instead of random fighting I really want them to show a scene where Sona lets it all out about how much she was hurt and how much she still loves him. After all the butchering that is the least we deserve 😆 I'd write an entire paragraph praising Mamta if they show even half of what of have managed to convey in your post 😆


Oh what have you done here..bring up my hopes..😆
I have brought down the expectations low so I can enjoy what they are showing..and I am prepared for worst with the current track too..just in case if they decide to mess up..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree that a lot of issu s have been swept under the carpet. Hopefully the cv will address it.

Just like after the first breakup they never resolved the actual issues between them. I still can't get over sona & Asha having no reaction to all that they went through due to the mother son duo.

I know one should not hold onto grudges but they have not even discussed it. Post leap devs behavior was quite disturbing. For a guy who showed so much 'reaction' when there was fire in her office was so calm when he locked her in the office without food & water & then when he heard about the fire next day was calm.

Just because ML cries way more than the FL all his wrongdoings have to be set aside! Ridiculous!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bang on post 👏 👏 Dev is behaving like a lovelorn teenager and expecta Sonakshi to do the same! Not sure when they'll show him growing up. after all that has happeened, he wants sona to keep proving her love to him.. his way? sona's hirts, her feelings.. always brushed under carpet by writers to quickly absolve Dev and Ishwari. the conflict about how she avtually feels is making her look just as crqzy as Dev. one sec, Dev is best, better than baba.. next sec.. abnormal behavior affecting me.. are the writers on this show.. now on episode basis? cause next episode complete turnaround on thought pricess!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik

I agree that a lot of issu s have been swept under the carpet. Hopefully the cv will address it.

Just like after the first breakup they never resolved the actual issues between them. I still can't get over sona & Asha having no reaction to all that they went through due to the mother son duo.

I know one should not hold onto grudges but they have not even discussed it. Post leap devs behavior was quite disturbing. For a guy who showed so much 'reaction' when there was fire in her office was so calm when he locked her in the office without food & water & then when he heard about the fire next day was calm.

Just because ML cries way more than the FL all his wrongdoings have to be set aside! Ridiculous!


But then Sona did give it back to him every single time post leap. She called him a loser, momma's boy, got him arrested, got his office raided and closed down, made him sign that agreement where he was even made responsible for not knowing Soha and they constantly had horrible fights. So it's not like it was one sided. Which is the whole problem. There were just so many issues and so many conflicts yet none of it was discussed or resolved. Sona's problem was that he never took a stand and then the prenup and eviction was the last nail in the coffin. Dev's problem was that she walked away and never looked back and post leap, the fact that she kept Soha a secret. None of this was resolved or even discussed. And more than the wrongdoings being set aside, Dev is being made guilty for the wrong things. For example, missing her pregnancy or ill treating his mother. Both of which were not his fault. He should have apologized to Sona for the infertility fiasco and the fact that he became blind when it came to his mother. I know the general perception is that Dev is favored but I would also like to add that his character has been most tampered with. It's not an amazing trait to whine or cry at the drop of a hat and that's what the writers make him do. He was also incredibly bipolar at one point. So while Dev has been butchered innumerable times either to glorify Ishwari or Sona, the writers just don't pay attention to Sona. They probably want to make her a perfect mahaan bahu but they have failed on all counts cos the original Dev and Sona were amazingly written characters. I guess I have ranted enough for a week 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik

I agree that a lot of issu s have been swept under the carpet. Hopefully the cv will address it.

Just like after the first breakup they never resolved the actual issues between them. I still can't get over sona & Asha having no reaction to all that they went through due to the mother son duo.

After the 1st breakup,Dev was in this same state of mind as right now,then fear of loosing Ishwari and now fear of loosing Sona.He didn't share his feelings then,he is not doing that now.But Sona is now is in a better place than before,now she is not insecure, is confident and sure of his feelings and their relationship,calmer,more mature and more understanding so lets hope those issues will get resolved now.

Both Asha & Sona do not like to keep grudges and anyways its been 7years... Forget and move on.Boses are stonger than Dixits.They faced adversity and came out stonger unlike Dixits who were emotionally messed up.Actually i am happy that they did not show any sort of bitterness ..it shows how strong they are.Sometimes that is enough to make someone guilty.I am sure they are proud of themselves.And i really think that for Sonakshi and even for rest of the Boses.. these 7 years is like an achievement,that is why she/they has/have no bitterness regarding it.

In real life, how many people will want to remember the past? but yes, why no mention of eviction?even if you have no issues now regarding it because you got the house back, why not even mention it once?😕

I know one should not hold onto grudges but they have not even discussed it. Post leap devs behavior was quite disturbing. For a guy who showed so much 'reaction' when there was fire in her office was so calm when he locked her in the office without food & water & then when he heard about the fire next day was calm.

He was himself hurt(bitterness due to their past) then there is no question of him caring about someone else.

Just because ML cries way more than the FL all his wrongdoings have to be set aside! Ridiculous!


Exactly!!!👏


And also when Dev used to go on guilt trips people used to start getting worried for Dev and used to start complaining that why Sonakshi is not stopping him from getting guilty and not telling him that he is not at fault.. saying that such guilt trips are not good for his emotional wellbeing and accused her of emotionally manipulating Dev just like ishwari used to do but now when she is actually stopping Dev from driving himself insane from worry, they are the first ones to say that why Sonakshi is not understanding his concern behind his over-protectiveness.

Dev, anyways, most of the times focuses on his own emotions and if he goes into over-protective mode then toh he will never listen.

Though i love both Dev and Sonakshi equally but in this track I am with Sonakshi, i really want him to stop for his own sanity.I really don't want him to go crazy Become a bit stronger .
Edited by y.c.yetikaroxx - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Interesting discussion POV's!

While I admire Sona strong and independent character, I think she enjoyed being a nutritionist than a businesswomen! Sona, the nutritionist currently prefers taking medicines to cure sickness ( recollect Soha camp and chicken pox track) and acts like robot.. She has become a version of S1 Dev! Her Bose family is totally dependent on her just like how Dev was...

She is what she is due to the hardships faced, I think venting out her emotions will help her get back to her old happy self... I still think Dev knows what he is doing and he is not the same old emotional S1 Dev..

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