*Season 2, Week 25* Analysis Thread - Page 5

Hi everyone

I have been following the episodes as well as this thread but have been too busy to really put down my thoughts. Just wanted to put forward my two pence on the ongoing track in my favourite serial ...

The general perception in this thread and on some other threads on the forum is that Sona is really very clinical and does not probably love with the same depth and possessiveness that Dev loves her. I believe that is not correct. People always have different ways to coping with adversity. There is no right way to deal with such situations. No two people are alike. I can tell from my own experience. My sister (only one sibling!) is older to me by 13 years. So all the while that I was growing up I was always treated as a kid and generally kept away from any problems as there were other people to take care of. I must also add that my sister has been settled abroad for many years now. Two years back my mother was diagnosed with cancer and last year my dad was very unwell. Now when my dad was in the ICU, my sister broke down completely and she told me I was very clinical. But the fact is that my way of coping with my parents' illness was that I need to be strong, at least in front of them, so that I can take the right decision as they are looking upto me now. I feel if I show I am weak they would lose a little hope. I would express all my fears and apprehensions only to my husband who stood by me steadfast in these difficult times.

I am sorry for the long post but what I wanted to bring out that inspite of being real siblings, we are so different. Similarly Dev and Sona are two very different individuals. When Dev and Sona had a bitter break up, they said unpardonable things to each other if she called him spineless and mamma's boy, he told her that she would never be able to earn that kind of money, that she was a gold digger who married him for money and what I consider really hurtful, "its good she could never have children as she would have made a bad mother. I don't think that Sona was wrong in hiding Soha's fact from him when she was pregnant. The fact that when Soha was 6 months old and Sona's temper cooled, she did go him with her child but was sent away for whatever reason. Dev never really made an attempt to reach out to her in the 7 years that they were apart.

Dev probably feels more guilty because he feels he is responsible for bringing them on the street making them homeless. Dev's mechanism of coping with Sona's loss was to withdraw both physically and emotionally from his mother and family. He was angry at Sona also for walking away but he couldn't get her out of his system and tried to find solace in alcohol. In short he did everything that Sona said he would never do because of his attachment to his mother. Sona's mechanism of coping was to earn money and become rich because this was something that Dev taunted her that she could never do. She hid her feelings for him from everyone including her mother.

Hence, when they met again after 7 years, both Dev and Sona realized that unconsciously they were still waiting for each other. Mentally they were never apart that is why they were able to pick up the threads of their marriage so easily (except the physical part of it). They are able to understand the other's viewpoint better. Dev was always more emotional of the two. Sona feels she was responsible for the estrangement in Dixit family and is trying to set it right. Wouldn't we all do it for people we care about.

Sorry for the long post. Just wanted to put my thoughts forward.

Thanks for reading

Cheers

Asha

Originally posted by: cscs

Bingo Sona, this is my complain from this track. They are missing the other side of the coin. What all Dev did is shown but why he did it and how he himself got alone is not at all bothered. If he is feeling sorry then other should also do the same. I m missing Dev's perspective in all this. N devakshi too.

Baaki i liked Ishu a lot. <3

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

What an amazing milestone episode. Even though there is no head and tail but still it gave me clarify on certain queries like why only dev should feel sorry? In any relationship we see equal responsibilities and rights for both partners since our KRPKAB is unique, we have special kind of relationships in Dev's life. What ever relationships he holds in his life, all responsibilities belongs to him and all rights belongs to the party. What a unique relationships, completely out of the world. At the end of the episode, I only left with one thought that Why these two got separated when everything was so perfect between masoom maa and bechara pati as per our mahaan FL? If everything was so perfect then why he got so many taunts and went through so much name calling like mumma's boy, spineless, loser, good for nothing, undeserving of love etc.

When I was searching for my own answers, my son came up with his question, Mummy is dev Sona again got married? When I asked him why? He said I am asking just like that since when ever I am seeing dev is either feeling bad or sad or crying so I thought they again got married.🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

i just cant stop laughing over ur son's comment 🤣

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

What an amazing milestone episode. Even though there is no head and tail but still it gave me clarify on certain queries like why only dev should feel sorry? In any relationship we see equal responsibilities and rights for both partners since our KRPKAB is unique, we have special kind of relationships in Dev's life. What ever relationships he holds in his life, all responsibilities belongs to him and all rights belongs to the party. What a unique relationships, completely out of the world. At the end of the episode, I only left with one thought that Why these two got separated when everything was so perfect between masoom maa and bechara pati as per our mahaan FL? If everything was so perfect then why he got so many taunts and went through so much name calling like mumma's boy, spineless, loser, good for nothing, undeserving of love etc.

When I was searching for my own answers, my son came up with his question, Mummy is dev Sona again got married? When I asked him why? He said I am asking just like that since when ever I am seeing dev is either feeling bad or sad or crying so I thought they again got married.🤣 🤣 🤣

Thanks again for the continuing analysis.

I don't have anything new to add further to what I said last night to be honest. If I want to dramatize this (true to my name!), sonakshi is trying to protect her suhaag's health... mental... Dev doesn't look happy. I miss that chuckling-to-self Dev... The Dev we have right now is what he would have become had he married Natasha... Very little health and happiness. Joyless existence. He doesn't have a proper laugh about anything.😳

Sonakshi said as much Nisha. That Dev was fine.. She was wrong in trying to change him. And she is not asking him to go back to his clueless obhodro self. She knows how important his family is to him. She feels that those ties broke because of how she left him.

Ishwari is his mother. She wants to wait for Dev at dinner. Dev likes when she waits for him. But they stopped the ritual because they think it hurt Sonakshi (and Sonakshi is more important than that silly ritual they say to themselves (now when they are both generally happier than the 7 lost years)). So, Sonakshi is helping them get back into it(this dinner ritual being one such example). They have both understood that over- dependence was not healthy. However, both Dev & Ishwari need that sense of belonging. I mean my heart broke when I saw he doesn't touch his mother's feet anymore. Not because touching feet is important to me... But because it was important to them.🤗

PS: Anyone missing Sam, she should be online in a few days' time.

PPS: I did a happy dance when the makers acknowledged that Dev & Sona watch movies together...

Hi, every one. First of all I put my detailed thoughts about the yesterdays' episode first of all I want to say I like the Yesterday's episode. It was a good episode with the various positive effect.

First they show the dev and sona's communication about the Ishu mata's absence in the house and dev's correct guess work that she wanted to give the space and some where sona's guilt that because of her or to give more time to them she is out of her own house. Another important aspect I like about the episode is that how Asha and Ishwari are becoming friends . Actually I have already imagined it. And it happened with same changes but the effect is very good. Finally Ishuwari is getting a good friend which she required this friendship will help her to see the life in the new prospect. Some of you are not happy with the fact that dev said sorry to mami. But I am able to see the effect of this ones sona had returned the key and dev said sorry and thank you she will not fight for the position and not create the trouble for sona. She will at lest not try to harm her or taunt her and take care of the house like her own and another effect is she is actually giving the space to every one she is not interested in what is happening her jiji's life and what dev and sona is talking which she previously used so for next some days unless and until her red make the another mistake she will maintain the peace at ishu niwas and the when their deeds will come out what should be get done will be decided by Ishu.

Yesterdays another conversation of dev and sona at the diner table also was very short but meaningful and seves purpose. Sona notices the absence of Ishu's at the diner table while dev was having an dinner and dev understand the problem. Honestly this whole Ishu and dev milafh track started when dev get to know that soha is his daughter and when he became father some where he was bale to forgive ishu for her deeds because he was now able to connect with her not only as the son but as the parent also. In the same way after coming to Delhi sona always respected Ishu mata as the mother and the same point they continued yesterday sona able to understand that kami in the current relation status in dev and Ishu mata and able to correct it to wait for the dev was a very small gesture but it have more importance to both dev and Ishu. You know now Ishu mata will give the space to dev and sona when she feel that it should be given so she will understand this herself. Many time our mind is so afraid that may be some of you may ones again have a fear that is it like the s1 where dev will be ma ma again but this time their was a change. When dev decide that he is going in the Ishu's room he ask the sona to join her in s1 he used to go to the Ishu's room and pamper her to give her the feel that she is important but he make sure sona is not their but this time what ever he is doing he is making sure that sona is with him. That shot was one of the good shot where Ishu make sure that sona is also getting the same importance. Day by they dev and sona is understanding each other very much by having a single glance dev understands sona is upset and make sure she communicates to him same is happening sona she is also make sure that what ever she is doing dev is having a tab about it. At this point their focus is to have the more proper communication and more understanding then physical intimacy ya but at point they will go for this aspect in their life also.

Now coming to the part where every one is putting every responsibility on dev's shoulder and expects every thing from him in the dixit family. This is started because of ishu mata now this job will give her the sence that other then Dev's mother she is a person and to work in the office and to handle that will give her more sence to become individual Ishuwari and the moment she will understand this she will welcome to dev who is individual.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Thanks again for the continuing analysis.

I don't have anything new to add further to what I said last night to be honest. If I want to dramatize this (true to my name!), sonakshi is trying to protect her suhaag's health... mental... Dev doesn't look happy. I miss that chuckling-to-self Dev... The Dev we have right now is what he would have become had he married Natasha... Very little health and happiness. Joyless existence. He doesn't have a proper laugh about anything.😳

Sonakshi said as much Nisha. That Dev was fine.. She was wrong in trying to change him. And she is not asking him to go back to his clueless obhodro self. She knows how important his family is to him. She feels that those ties broke because of how she left him.

Ishwari is his mother. She wants to wait for Dev at dinner. Dev likes when she waits for him. But they stopped the ritual because they think it hurt Sonakshi (and Sonakshi is more important than that silly ritual they say to themselves (now when they are both generally happier than the 7 lost years)). So, Sonakshi is helping them get back into it(this dinner ritual being one such example). They have both understood that over- dependence was not healthy. However, both Dev & Ishwari need that sense of belonging. I mean my heart broke when I saw he doesn't touch his mother's feet anymore. Not because touching feet is important to me... But because it was important to them.🤗

PS: Anyone missing Sam, she should be online in a few days' time.

PPS: I did a happy dance when the makers acknowledged that Dev & Sona watch movies together...