You might wonder what made me write this topic...well...let me not keep you ppl guessing...its because I found "PASSION" missing betwn Dev and Sonakshi . This was my problem from the day they got married. Prior to their marriage there was some scenes which showed passion...( Dhin bright kara do, and the way he came close to her and put his hand on her shoulders to prove that his presence did make a diff )At that point in time I thought after marriage we might see more...but I was sadly wrong because it just reduced. In season 2 for me the only passionate moment that I thought was good and acted well...was when she ..was tying that tie and the way he looked at her and caressed her face on the pretext of moving her face. He just couldnt keep his hands away from her...
Now that they are back...I understand that they are relieved to be together and yesterday that scene was very logical ...the way she slept peacefully on his shoulder...and he just couldnt contain his happines..but there was one thing that was missing its passion...they could have shown him looking at her with passion at least for few seconds...
Intimacy,comittment and passion are the 3 vertex of relationships golden triangle ..intimacy need not be physical it can also be emotional...commitment also signfies trust , acceptance ...and passion is the driving force for stability of a relationship...its this passion that is missing betwn Dev and Sonakshi. This is making their romance not very realistic. I am not saying they should show some B grade intimacy on the screen..but they should look like husband and wife. This look only comes when they discuss problems of their house ...like when they were discussing the key issue...but it was missing when they were sitting near the window...they looked like friends...I understand the hesitance to get intimate after so many years of separation...but what about passion in the eyes...sadly missing !! And what felt worst was her thought to solve his house problem when he himself didnt show an interest...it has to be initiated by him. The logic she uses to substantiate her action is , he will not be complete with out his family and hence wont be able to move on...I dont think it is right because if he didnt want to move on ...why is he there with her.. least bothered abt his sisters?? Just wondering why are they not showing that passion in romance betwn them...their bedroom scenes are always the worst shown among all the serials...I mean after marriage who will sleep far from your spouse?? And yesterday they didnt want to show a bedroom scene..but it was needed too...and hence sitting sleeping on shoulder scene...instead of showing them sleeping hugging each other... đ¤ŁI find this rather immature approach...and this is one part in the serial where realism fails miserably ..đ So my question to all my friends ...Is passion required betwn husband and wife ??