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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
May be you missed my line where I said it is the most essential thing to do but let Dev convince his sisters but not Sona. It will be easier for Dev since he is the brother.

Oops..Ya did skim thru that part 😆 Agree either do it together or let Dev handle it. My pov was more towards the intention why she wants to help reunite the family...n its definitely not for winning any title. As even Dev said - agar tum hoti, sab sambhal leti (smthing on similar lines).

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Drcs
Great post Lakshmi...may be due to their business requirement ro win the female viewers CVs make the FL as the problems solver and husband as yesboss...if you look at screen space also FL gets more than the ML...may be socalled business or marketing gimmick
Would love to Dev takes the task and solve like how he handled Ayan's case

Thank you Chitra. I wish the makers should have concentrated more on Sona Dev bonding rather than jumping into issue solving. But you are right. Tele shows always highlight female leads for obvious reasons.

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: saumiee
Lakshmi, I second each and every word of yours. I am as frustrated as you are seeing the upcoming spoilers because yesterday only we could see, She wanted to shift immediately to Dixit House to 'solve' all the problems.
Infact I made a similar post like yours, yesterday..Where like you..I addressed directly to Sona and Dev. . Obviously it wasn't as well articulated as this one.. but my thoughts are the same.
In Season 1 too, Sona became so busy in 'solving' the problems and being the ideal DIL, that she completely sidelined spending time with Dev. Because they never spent enough time knowing each other. . They never could trust each other.
She is repeating the same mistake again. . Like u said, there is no harm in addressing the sister's issue, it must be a priority but never something over Dev and her own happiness.
Plus I am so sure we would get merely fillers as Devakshi scenes . . A minute per episode and rest everything will be about Sonakshi being a nice, ideal, superwoman kind Of bahu.
Also, at this point of time. . I think it wasn't urgent at all to contact all the sisters at once and solve everything in one go. She could have taken baby steps, that too after stabilising her own life.
P.S Lovely post!

Saumiee, your post made me come back and say a few words. 😃 @bold. The thing is she never saw what she did as a "mistake". We think she is repeating the mistake because we saw what she did as a mistake. 😃 . Only when Sonakshi realizes she did a mistake she will correct it. For that she needs to open her eyes and first and foremost accept the fact that she can err too. She believes that because she has been taught to differentiate between "right" and "wrong", she never makes "mistakes". I am glad that she has decided to talk to Riya and Nikki and bring them back herself. Cause for me right now they seem to be the only 2 people who can show her the "negative" consequences of her "rightness". She has to hear the words and see for herself the consequences. Only when the full impact of her blunder is brought in front of her will she realize that she wasn't doing any good in IN when she was the bahu. That she committed blunders in her quest to prove her "rightness" and "win".

What comes to mind is the wall she built in Dev's office. When Dev says you were not supposed to she doesn't believe him. But when that official comes and reads her the fine print she agrees and says that she didn't read it and hence she didn't know. In her marriage too she failed to read the prints leading to her failing big time. Instead of accepting that she was at fault, or retrospect she kept blaming others saying that they treated her like an outsider. That is why Riya and Nikki are special. They didn't treat her like and "outsider". They loved her and held her in great respect. When they question Sonakshi is when she will have to contend with the fact that she was "wrong". That she made "mistakes". Till now all the mirror that she has seen show a distorted image. i.e. everyone is saying how "right" she is. She needs someone whom she respects and loves tell her how "wrong" she is

That is the only thing that will get her to retrospect which she needs very badly. She needs a rude awakening and the full picture of the mess she has created. She is seeing the tip with Dev. I am like everyone here waiting for the day when she will open her eyes.

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dhank

@dhank

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Hamari bahu rajnikant is back n how. 😆..I don't comment as show has lost charm for me..but wth all FL needs to solve all d problems...what's more disgusting is sona feels Dev is wrong. .first decide how should Dev behave. .sometimes she says he gives preference to family ab usko de raha h to bhi problem...

Ur post pulled me to comment. ..sas bahu drama begins..time to quit again

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: melliflous
Thanks for this post, Laxmi!
I would like to suggest sonakshi the same... cherish these moments of togetherness with Dev and it will heal both of you.
In real life you cannot have everything perfect and every relationship a perfect one, but it's important to treasure what you have. In sonakshi's case if sisters don't accept her back in dev's life and holds her responsible for separating Dev and his sisters , should it stop sonakshi from accepting Dev completely ? I think giving family priority over a husband -wife relationship is not done. They did this mistake in s1 and let others influence and drive their relationship.. hope the mistakes aren't repeated.

You are right. They should realise that they need to strengthen the bond first then only they can make their relationship work.

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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Shaavi

Thank god you spoke through your post. Please stay back.

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tellyjo

@tellyjo

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Wish Sonakshi takes this advice. Her life would be better but she loves to create problems for herself

I think some people have this habit of speaking for others, doing things for others and trying to always protect the ones they love and literally trying to control their loved ones. Such people are immensely helpful when one is down but can get on your nerves at other times. Sonakshi seems to be one such person. To feel good and worthy about themselves they are constantly trying to solve other people's issues

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

@shaavi, do you really think it's gonna happen the way you mentioned. I hope she won't hold his collar and shout saying because of you my best friend's are blaming me and you failed to build a bridge between us since you are a loser. Because in KRPKAB world, for every mistake the blame should go to Dev only, it's an unsaid rule since makers are very fond of sending him in to guilt trip often.

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Shaavi

@Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: LiveLife321
@shaavi, do you really think it's gonna happen the way you mentioned. I hope she won't hold his collar and shout saying because of you my best friend's are blaming me and you failed to build a bridge between us since you are a loser. Because in KRPKAB world, for every mistake the blame should go to Dev only, it's an unsaid rule since makers are very fond of sending him in to guilt trip often.

Latha, even if she wants to she has no choice. There is no possibility of her holding collar and saying that you failed to build a bridge cause she had a very good relationship with them both before and after marriage. These 2 were on her side and were her cheerleaders. They had expressed multiple times how happy they are that she is in their brothers life. Even with the jhoola they were the ones who were excited and supported her. She has to face reality, she has no choice.

One of the tracks for this season is supposed to be about Sonakshi understanding Dev's dilemma. And for me Dev's dilemma is him having to choose. And Sonakshi will have to backtrack on each of those events where she had asked him to choose. And everytime she will be in that exact same position as Dev at that point where she will have to make a choice. Here it will be to address her faults. She will be at crossroads with herself where she has to choose between "right" and "being right". She will have to choose between her "mistakes" or "blaming others".

I have said this many times before and will say again, pride goes a long way before the fall. When she proposed Dev, she let go of her "ego". With this journey of trying to correct Dev's mistakes, she will realize that it was not his but her's, the burden of which is being carried by him. That she wronged him every step of the way. And that he silently accepted the blame. As I said she is seeing distorted mirrors,but will have no choice but to face the real mirror. She takes pride in knowing the difference between "right" and "wrong". She will be forced to question herself if she is actually "right". It will be true heart and head war. And in this process she will lose her pride and accept that she is faulty and that her upbringing is flawed too.

Edited by Shaavi - 8 years ago

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krish8090

@krish8090

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
Please Sonakshi !
Don't repeat the season 1 fiasco. After all you reunited with your husband after seven years. Life has given you a chance to enjoy blissful married life with the person who is a diehard lover and doting husband.

You both have lost precious moments that should exclusively belong to you only. Since you lost your seven years of togetherness you should make it a point to live every moment with your life partner and Ofcourse with your cute little Soha.

Even before entering Iswari Nivas you look so involved in solving every other issue that concerns with Dev and Iswari. You want to bring back the sisters and as per your nature you won't rest till you accomplish your purpose.But in that process you will again lose your cherished moments .

I am not saying Dixit sisters should not be attended immediately.Infact it is the most essential issue to be tackled not by you but by Dev.

For a change please let him handle his sisters. Let him pacify them and express his regret for neglecting them. He has to do it and he will do it .After all now he got back his zeal to live. He will definitely make sure to set right the issues between him and his sisters.

Let him handle Vicky in his Dev Dixit method.

Sonakshi ,there is nothing wrong in sitting in the back seat. It is highly enjoyable. But no back seat driving. Let the driver reach the destination in his own way with his own skills.

Just enjoy moonlit nights,long drives,winter mornings,joyous trips.

Be there for Soha make her feel your warmth.by spending more time with her.

Make your mornings bright by watching his charming face when he is still cherishing his dreams

Let the thrill of being together sink into your souls.

Don't let anyone disturb you ,let him have you always within his reach.

Lakshmi

Note; Frusrated to see the forth coming problem solving angel in IN . Don't want to see Mahan Bahu solving everything under the sun.

very true, nice writeup,

i totally agree from sonakshis lone point of view.

but i dont feel anything wrong in wat sonakshi is doing.

bcos dev is still being hunted by family probs and how can sonakshi b happy with someone who lost his own sisters. wat is the meaning of such happiness even if sonakshi is happy without involving in dixit problems.

i dont mean that we cant be happy with imperfections in family. there r many families which r happy despite big problems etc.

but even in our daily lives ,in every family there will be a sonakshi who always tries to balance abnormalities in relationships.

sonakshi even in bose family has been an initiator and caretaker of family wenever bijoy or saurabh failed.

these people are actually happy in solving problems.

and now that dixit family probs are not being fought by sonakshi alone, she has dev with her and ishwari also.

having said all these, i fully liked ur thoughts, i also feel that sonakshi shud also give priority to her married life and daughter before entering inti dixit problems.

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