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everything in this show is wrong

Originally posted by: Shaheena2703

S ish is a complex character..in fact I felt in pre marriage episodes many times her pov was justified...like I feel even prenuptial agreement according to her pov was right ..I just an example I trust my frd but I can't have same trust on my frd's frd... likewise dev trusted sona and to some extent ish also knows abt her...but this trust will pass on to trust's trust ..I mean ish trusting sona's family...NO ..how can a person trust someone whom u haven't interacted or build relationship?

Her pov was right ...But the way she manipulated things were very bad or dirty...

But post marriage ish , none of her act will be justified...

Just my pov

I din hav a problem with prenuptial. It's there for a reason because it mite come in handy. My problem was with with the aunty fiasco, and the whole infertility thing where a mother interfered into a couples personal space and even manipulated their marital life. Not only that sona was disrespected a lot during that time. But ish has apologized. So I hav no problem with her. Sona but I cannot understand her now. She is too confusing now.

Actually ish was not portrayed as a very bad person..to understand dev-ish relation, we should consider their past...she lost her husband at a young age and all her hope was dev...usually ish kind of possessive mothers do exist...her gulit of being a chor may be so strong in her mind that she might have feared that sona's goodness wud take dev away from her..as far as i understood, ish's insecurity's root cause was her guilt, which was removed by sona, being the most unexpected by ish...dev still remained the same ideal son to her..i think the removal of that guilt let her see things clearly...the most imp thing is she cud realize her faults..seriously,in actual life very rarely this happens..

I don't think there was anything wrong with her dialogue...her statement was spot on and it clearly showed that 7 yrs gave her time to think about her actions and its affect on their relationship...that's also what Dev had spoken to Nisha...when they were together they never understood or looked at other persons POV...separation have them that time to realize...

Her statement abt being mumma's boy...what is wrong in it ...?? I was trying to change him??

This was one of the points we had discussed last season...most newly married girls do this...they try to change things in their new home...but in a joint family , its best not to interfere with the routine of the house and of your spouse until you get a foothold...if his mom wants to fold and keep his clothes allow her to do it...after a period of time it will come to you...till then chill and enjoy ;)) but Sonakshi wanted to change that ...why bother...after all his mom is not the other woman rt ?? so why worry...

regarding mumma's boy ...yes initially its irritating but rather than the girl making a fuss ...the boy should realize... eventually even guys will get irritated with their mom's interference...and they will slowly distance...it has to happen ...its the natures rule...to get close to ur partner...

Need to give time in a relationship...sadly Dev and Sonakshi did not get that time to get adjusted...and soon things just slipped away from them...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I don't think there was anything wrong with her dialogue...her statement was spot on and it clearly showed that 7 yrs gave her time to think about her actions and its affect on their relationship...that's also what Dev had spoken to Nisha...when they were together they never understood or looked at other persons POV...separation have them that time to realize...

Her statement abt being mumma's boy...what is wrong in it ...?? I was trying to change him??

This was one of the points we had discussed last season...most newly married girls do this...they try to change things in their new home...but in a joint family , its best not to interfere with the routine of the house and of your spouse until you get a foothold...if his mom wants to fold and keep his clothes allow her to do it...after a period of time it will come to you...till then chill and enjoy ;)) but Sonakshi wanted to change that ...why bother...after all his mom is not the other woman rt ?? so why worry...

regarding mumma's boy ...yes initially its irritating but rather than the girl making a fuss ...the boy should realize... eventually even guys will get irritated with their mom's interference...and they will slowly distance...it has to happen ...its the natures rule...to get close to ur partner...

Need to give time in a relationship...sadly Dev and Sonakshi did not get that time to get adjusted...and soon things just slipped away from them...

HI ash

Originally posted by: --Devakshi--

Actually ish was not portrayed as a very bad person..to understand dev-ish relation, we should consider their past...she lost her husband at a young age and all her hope was dev...usually ish kind of possessive mothers do exist...her gulit of being a chor may be so strong in her mind that she might have feared that sona's goodness wud take dev away from her..as far as i understood, ish's insecurity's root cause was her guilt, which was removed by sona, being the most unexpected by ish...dev still remained the same ideal son to her..i think the removal of that guilt let her see things clearly...the most imp thing is she cud realize her faults..seriously,in actual life very rarely this happens..

An interfering and taunting MIL is not a new idea..almost all bahus get to knw the heat, may be less or more..but we just forget it and make a good bond most of the time so that we can have a peaceful life..it is not because of being doormat..if we decide to fight for each single injustice in our life, probably we may not be able to maintain any relationship..because we live among real flawed human beings..none including us is perfect..right for one is wrong for the other..

Agree to shaheena...when we fight with our close ones, we initially find faults with them and believe that we are right..but after the fight is over, we take all the blame..it is very normal and real...and we need not analyse each and every dialogue seriously...most of the time, what we speak depends upon our emotional status...we always dnt mean what we speak, esply when angry or emotional..if we are angry, the dialogues will be aimed to make the other one feel defeated someway..most of the ppl kick at the weakspot through dialogues while angry..and when we are emotional and feel defeated, we tend to blame ourselves for all the bad experiences..

I agree with whatever u said. My parents have taught me to live life by the principles of forgive and forget.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I agree with whatever u said. My parents have taught me to live life by the principles of forgive and forget.

But I also belive in the principle of Don't throw pearls before swines. In sonakshi case during her marriage, that was what happened. To be good does not mean to not see the bad, but to even see the bad and even then forgive. Here with those dialogues of Sona, it felt as though even today she fails to see Ishwari insecurities and Dev's incapacity to balance.

Also it's not just an interfering mother in law that was the problem. She had to see her father slapped, her entire family evicted. This was the actual reason sona broke the relation. All this was discounted when sona made that statement.

No girl should forgive a husband (Atleast without proper amends) who slaps her father. And sometimes u hav to stand up for ur self.

Originally posted by: --Devakshi--

Mily...i got your point...i was referring to sona's emotional state of mind...but you are right..the eviction and prenup were such big issues, which has never been raised after leap...it wud be better if sona's thoughts regarding these were shown atleast...if she believes that dev might be innocent and were telling truth, it makes a little sense to reunite..otherwise yae, nobody can forget and forgive such a mistake without properly closing it...slapping i think, sona had understood that it was unintentional and he said sorry too..it cant be undone or erased na..only can say sorry about it as it was unintentional...if it was intentiomally done, it cant be forgiven..but prenup and eviction have never come into picture again.im disppointed too like u..

Yeah, ur right But it's OK. Let's wait for the upcoming episodes.

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

everything in this show is wrong

dev slept with women yet he can't see sona having coffee with jatin he calls her characterless

thief ishwari is saint and bijoy villain for safe guarding his dumb daughter.

hubby dev throws wife but dev blames sona of going away

dadi teaches soha to lie

sona was forced to have baby now that she has she is welcomed

now that sona has money devish welcoming her

dev never redempt yet sona jumps to him shamelessly

bijoy is blamed by saurabh who himself was the cause for devakshi to break

asha was the one told sona to fight for her self respect but now want to throw her to dixits just like that .

none of what has been recently shown justifies or explains any past events..
1. why Ishwari changed overnight despite not taking meds from sona amd water from asha.. even after knowing what sona had done for her?

2. why Dev's baseless character assassination not diacussed between Devakshi.. Sona is made to say Dev is perfect.. all her fault.. reallyp 😡 clean chit to Dev again?

3. Asha and Saurabh falling all over Dev and namecalling Bijoy as if past never happened? as if Dev never got them thrown out of their house? never threw sonakshi out? never checked on them or came after sonakshi in 7 years? Ishwari Mahaan and Bijoy egoistic, selfish tyrant 😕

4. Did Dev really sleep with multiple women? Can CVs explain that before these two confess their undying love for wqch other?

5. Why struggles of a single mother was ridiculed, her rise to success tainted? despite that no glimpse of her actual struggles and Dev feeling bad about how he treated her and things he said to her. on the contraray he was shown to give her more pain by trying to force her to admit her feelings... all the qhile saying.. no pressure
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Involving kids in adults' manipulations, disrespecting a strong rightous modern woman in the name of feminism, a woman's success is attributed to her sleeping around, treating her like a baby machine... all these messages r wrong 🤢

Dev, Sonakshi, Asha saying over and over.. Ishwari ki koi galti nahin and now sonakshi saying Dev ki koi galti nahin. saari galti meri thi, main adjust nahin kar paari.. like seriously... thats the message of the whole "hatke" show??? how is this progressive by any stretch of the imagination... only girl has to adjust? the husband has no responsibility to balance the new relationin his life? all what they showed about Bose family xpting Ronita as a daughter vs DIL.. was drama!

yr jab nisha me kaha ki DEv ne usse kya kya kaha tab sons ko pata chala na ki dev me apni sarri galtiya Mani hai lakin sons ko yeah baat acchi nahi lagi ki nisha dev kai bare mai much galat soche right air unh kai rishtey mai koi problem ho aur him San jante hai dev sons ek dusrw ko blame kar sakte hai lakin agar koi air yeh San kare ya Dono mai se kissi ko bhi koi kuch bole tho unh she dekha nahi jata hai so pls try to understand the situation