Originally posted by: --Devakshi--
I agree that dev is not an ideal kind of ML..he has many flaws..but i always feel that ppl never try to understand things from his pov...we always see the pain in sona only...
We remember dev's get out, but forget he chose to be with sona even after ishu gave him option of either ishu or sona...we always say dev abandoned her, but we forget that the break up was finally sona's decision...the prenup and evacuation was not dev's fault..still we blame.him..the slap was not intentional and he was sorry from heart, still we blame him..we talk abt sona's pain after marriage, but we forget his helplessness between loved ones..we forget tat he was supporting her without blaming for neha issues..he cud have blamed for doing things without informing him, for interfering unnecessarily...we blame for not standing by her side for the 5cr fiasco..but forget his goodness in helping sourabh as his own brother...we blame that he didnt inform sona abt helping sourabh, but conveniently forget sona hiding a big thing like opening a company...we rememver dev's bitter words after sona denied to be with him during break up, but never discuss sona's curses on him...in many such cases, i feel that we have double standard...we only find faults in dev and forgets good side..we discuss much about sona's pain of not getting dev support..but we dnt diacuss, dev's pain of being discarded..he always wanted her to be with him and never demanded anything else...sona wanted devs supported and he too failed...so it was all mutual rather than devs fault alone...i woyld like to know your pov regarding dev...y you dnt like dev? I may get a different pov from you..i may.be wrong in my thoughts na...