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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj


but bijoy knows that dixits are trust worthy so he isn't ready to see sona draw in to them yet again fall prey so he ignores her fake smile but he is shield to her because he doesn't want her to fall again 3rd time because he knows sona will break further and will never be normal .
he is shielding her as father
rest all is sona decision to go to the hell or fight for her self respect ...bijoy is made villain to whitewash ish and dev what can we expect from makers



Agree hewants to shield her cause Sona is bending over backwards for Dev again. forgetting all that happened and allowing them to manipulate her again and make her do things she shouldnt.. abhi to Bijoy doesnt know that Sonakshi risked her life to bring honor back to disgraceful, manipulating, evil Ishwari. Hedoesnt know Ishwari emotionally blackmailed Sona into finding a bride for her laadla he knows Maa Beta duo is capable of putting sona thru infertility treatments without her conscwnt or thru emotional
blackmail 😡 But, Bijoy meeds to calm down a little and try to understand whats happening with dumbo sonakshi.. again! Asha is in lala land again and has forgotten how Dev treated her daighter. Bijoy never once stood in Devakshi way or went out of his way to seperate them.. that was 100% Ishwari chor devi!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg


you are bang on! Bijoy's hatrey towards Dixit is because of what he has done to sona, over and over. each time Boses forgot and moved on.. they got a slap.. in this case.. literal too by Dev. it is not easy for a father to forgive & forget. bijoy is made into a villiam without bejng told about raunita mom incident and Ishwari chor fiasco. only then Dev mellowed towards sonakshi.. when she did something for his mom. otherwise Dev qas still taunting, cqlling her characterless. and not only that.. Dev insulted Bijoy every moment when in Bose house 😡 to whitewash Ishwari & Dev's misseeds and bullyism.. Bijoy is being turned into a lunatic. I love Bijoy, but only thing i am not liking is.. he is not seeing thru sona's fake smiles! but again... all of it is to make Dev and Ishwari mahaan for no reason!!!!

In my POV, disgraceful and moron can not be uaed to describe Bijoy.. only suit Ishwari. and moron for Dev.. cause even now he hasnt understood the true meaning of love. he has been hell bent to "haasil" sona ever since mummy gave green signal for shaadi 😆 Ishwari & Dev continue to manipulate situations & people to get what they want!

P.S.. Dev tryingto make sonakshi jealous through creating sexual tension and Sonakshi shown to b mesmorozed by Dev's sex appeal.. really, seriously??? how old are they? i njoyed it in season 1 but 7 years later, after all Dev has said to sonakshi about her character.. its the least bit romantic! instead of wooing sonakshi through his actions that he understands her pain, inserstands what went wrong.. Dev is doing same.. showing her that he will get married overmight to any girl cause mummy wants him to!!!!'

Bang on ur showing 30 plus ppl trying to reignite their love by seducing and that too in a very Mills and bookish way. I mean seriously. Did u just say ur show is progressive. I don't think so. And add to that stupid word mixed dialogue. Most cheesy thing ever on krpkab and maybe on Indian TV.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SecretSuperstar


@bold i will like to take the liberty to disagree with you on this
a parent can see through their child when they are small because they are just like a mirror but once when they build layers around them till the time you show your wound how magical your parent might be they will not be able to heal the wound
this even applies to Ishwari and no way i can completely blame her for misunderstanding devakshi relationship because she was always ensured with the fact by dev that sona doesn't mean that much to dev



i gues we have perspectives maybe based on experiences. Bijoy has always reminded meofmy dad.. made me strong independent, proud of me, pointed on when my decisions were crazy but them stood by me. Butwhen i was in pain, hewas also the first one to c thru my mask. rightnow Bijoy isnot doing that. and thats disappointing for me.

i dont agree that she was ensured that sona doesnt mean much to Dev. in fact the opposit.. she saw sonaas too good, a better person than herself amd saw how Dev dis things that she told him to do but might nothavedone them when she asked. Ishwati was always scared sonakshi's goodness will take Dev away from worshipping her. to meet that end, shepurposely kept newlyweds awauy, blamed sonakshi for making efforts to be partofthefqmily, interfered inhisband wife private matters, excluded sonakshi feom celebratingher hisband's bday.. prenup was usedso sonakshi amdher kids could never get any part of Dev's wealth 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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In a show made so beautifully that all characters are simply 'human', I fail to understand how characters are being perceived as black and white. Such one sided perception of things seriously bamboozles me.
The characters of this show are normal human beings, the intentions are usually never bad or cruel but end up hurting others as they fail to understand others feelings and actions.

Bijoy is a father who got so obsessed with a particular child that he just can't tolerate the people who hurt him
He is by nature a conservative and risk averse person and hence is incapable of understanding how his child could be attracted to a flawed person like Dev

It doesn't make him a moron, it makes him human like us, who see things from our point of view and are prone to errors of judgement. He never realised that sona is not and will never be him. He is literally like those parents who force their children to take a particular career because they love it and fail to realise that the child could have different taste and choice

His behaviour currently is not correct but he is not a villan also

Same way both Dev and sona have had their share of faults and calling one right and the other wrong is oversimplification of human behaviour and emotions. Eg. Just read somewhere that Dev didn't care for sona till she helped his mother. I could see a hurt and frustrated Dev crying and lashing out because he felt sona had moved on. His behaviour changed on her helping his mother because he realised she still loves him.

Same way if today sona is not readily agreeing for marriage because she is afraid of being hurt again. Doesn't mean she is being insensitive. She has suffered a lot due to Devs inability to take a firm stand. Confidence has to be reinstated. Only love is never enough.

Also she lashed out at her father because he was actually being insensitive at that time. You don't want your son to become a doctor fine, but don't dance in front of him when he fails the entrance exam
Edited by _Payalj_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: mehraan

I hve not read the post dear but i find the heading too harsh...A father can be anything to his child but nt disgraceful...certainly not Bijoy!!!...Though i hve complaints with him now n then but i cant term his love concern n support as disgraceful ...

I am definitely not marking his love, concern and support towards Sona as disgraceful! Please don't get me wrong. I am mentioning his irrational and silly acts towards Dev and all the matter regarding Dev! In yesterday's epi he told that Dev had built hatred for him in Sona's mind. I mean seriously?? How can he even think in this way? I am only stating about those distasteful acts of him. Those were surely disgraceful!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SecretSuperstar

@bold i will like to take the liberty to disagree with you on this
a parent can see through their child when they are small because they are just like a mirror but once when they build layers around them till the time you show your wound how magical your parent might be they will not be able to heal the wound
this even applies to Ishwari and no way i can completely blame her for misunderstanding devakshi relationship because she was always ensured with the fact by dev that sona doesn't mean that much to dev


i don't agree ...sona is fickle in making decision some one has to stop her thats what bijoy doing
what do expect sona again going to hell again getting preggy again then thrown out how long this cont...
has dev done good to sona were she is cheesy romantic with him .
has he ever looked after her all these yrs instead he preferred to romance random ladies
how can sona forget he was in with women in hotel
dev had problems seeing sona having coffee with jatin called her characterless even ish called her that how can u forget that how come sona forgot that too .
if sona spent a night with jatin would dev except her the answer is never then why sona needs to go back to this man who doesn't love her enough
ish-dev wants soha thats it so they are in game of getting her using sona because soha needs her mom otherwise minus soha devish won't even care
forgot fertility mess did dev support sona no never
then why call bijoy insensitive what is wrong with ppl can't u see fault in dev
what has he done to correct himself
he sneaked out to soha room to take her away to meet her mom stalked sona to find out about jatin hired ppl to find out there relationship instead of all these he might have hired ppl to find sona in calcutta try to mend things and punish viky and gkb instead ...
did he clear the misunderstanding that gkb and vicky created between the family and did he convince bijoy and sona that he won't mess up next time or did dev talked to his mom assuring her not to be insecure did dev do such constructive thing "no "never"
then why do u expect bijoy to understand devakshi
sona has lost it i dont understand her the leap sona is lost somewhere
to sugar coat ish and dev they made bijoy villain and sona dumb
bakwas script i tell u
Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with you @TM

Great points and when there is no points to defend ones favorite then only we see comments like oh he is not good looking so he is not defended etc .If there was enough points to support ones argument then such comments are not said but rather the points will be presented to support the argument .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yaa bijoy did mistake.he should hv thrown sona out his life like dev did.
Unnecessarily he took d responsibility of pregnant daughter who was abandoned by her husband. He could have let her alone to bear d pain in dixit mansion. Everything would have been in right place.sona and soha in dixit mansion,soha wid manipulate granny and sona wid non supportive husband and mental MIL.


Sona actually doesn't deserve father like bijoy.she deserves people like ishwari ,dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Oh and Dev has no respect or remorse. In fact he is happily insulting his would be FIL mentally. Calling him Budhao. He even said ek baat meri aur Sonakshi ki shaadi ho Jane Dr phir tujhe batata upon budhao kahinka...what will he do? Slap in the face of the old man again? No wonder Indian people want a loyal male child .
I think not Bijoy but Dev is insensitive and rude. So much hate for Bijoy who took care of your daughter for 6yrs
Edited by JShukla - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruti.

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Yaa bijoy did mistake.he should hv thrown sona out his life like dev did.
Unnecessarily he took d responsibility of pregnant daughter who was abandoned by her husband. He could have let her alone to bear d pain in dixit mansion. Everything would have been in right place.sona and soha in dixit mansion,soha wid manipulate granny and sona wid non supportive husband and mental MIL.


Sona actually doesn't deserve father like bijoy.she deserves people like ishwari ,dev.


bang on 👏better he does next time disown her if things so same as past
dev can't change so i feel bijoy should stop thinking about sona😆

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