Choose the path please!

Two things:

1) Dev had need based relation with sona..(apart from all other factors)..but Sona never has that need based relation..atleast thats what Dev thinks..So, Dev may have to see that Sona also needed or needs him..which will make her tell her plight these 7 years and how she missed him..because he things he was never needed..

OR

2) Sona is the strong and Independent one and Dev is weak and dependent one in their relation..
So, Dev should also become strong and independent..in his words, he too needs no sahara but only a sathi like Sona..and like she says marriage or no marriage has always been her decision, in his life too it has to be his and only his decision..wihout anyone's influence..

This is what i concluded from yesterday's episode..

So what do you guys think..?
Which way should go..?

P.S: No bashing please..either of the options are good..will lead to reunion..

I think its a combo of both...

Both have to come half way for there to be any hope. Sona has to reveal that she needs Dev to be part of her life and that need is compelling. Dev has to stop depending completely on Sona or Ishwari to make decisions regarding his life. He has to decide what he wants instead of asking others what he wants. This might change their path for good.