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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you, Guddi. Haan inki love life bina kisike dhakke ke kahan chalti hain? Kabhi relatives to kabhi daaru, bas apna dimaag tijori mein lock karke rakhna hain. Pata hain Dev aur Sona ko apni companies kyun pyaari hain? Kyunki khud ki mehnat ki kamai hain. Aur pata hain kyun ek doosre ki kadar nehin hain? Kyunki bina mehnat kiye gift mein mil gaya. 😕


Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Thanks for the update Tia ! For now all I can say is, Devakshi love story is based on drinks and alcohol, else it's as shallow as air !

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you, Ashi. Excellent Star Wars reference. Very well said. Yes, Dev reminds me of Anakin. Kaise apne hi life khud barbad karte hain, yeh sirf Anakin ko hi pata hain aur ab hain Bhaiya.

Aaj waise mujhe season one yaad aa gaya. Pyaar se pehle Dev aur Sona mein jo dosti thi woh wala time. Even before Sona fell in love, she had a very comfortable equation with Dev. But she fell in love and became super awkward around him. I hope they never fall in love with each other again. I like this comfortable equation.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Thanks for the awesome update Tia!! 🤗 I agree with you about decisions.Yes,decisions are the bricks which built our lives.They can either make us or break us.This is the reason why I prefer to take a decision after thinking about its consequences and repercussions.And decisions taken in haste often prove to be disastrous.

Today is StarWars Day.When I thought about decision,I was reminded of something which happened in SW.It was something which shaped the fate of not only an individual but of the people he loved.Anakin was an extremely gifted young man.He was the Chosen One.Yet he took a decision to turn to the dark side because he had a premonition that his beloved wife would die.He thought that he could save her by doing so.But as a result of his actions his wife died anyway.That one decision changed the course of his entire life.


Now coming to our once upon a time beloved show,Devakshi's doomed non existent romance was a result of Dev's decisions.
Dev's messed up life was a result of his decision to support Ishwari's decision.
Then there is Asha who wishes to impose her decision on her daughter.What else is left here???

I liked Sona in today's episode.But no one is gonna give her the space she desires and needs.The people around her in general and her own mother in particular will push her towards Dev.CVs will supply forced romance.Character growth jaaye bhaad main.
Apun ko bas romance mangta hai.
But you know what??There was a time when Devakshi's love story was genuine,simple,sweet and meaningful.Now as @Guddi Di said,it's based on drinks,alcohol and eyelocks.
Hollow and shallow at the same time.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#33
Asha k jagah galti se aapne radha likhya sayad.



Episode was gud.loved .l like sassy sona. "par baat meri maa ki hai"and "uncle" was hilarious 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34
Oh yes. Sorry. Updated. 😊

Originally posted by: shruti.

Asha k jagah galti se aapne radha likhya sayad.


Episode was gud.loved .l like sassy sona. "par baat meri maa ki hai"and "uncle" was hilarious 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia I want to share a story which I wanted to share with u for long about how few women are so powerful in there own way need not be a queen or politician a normal girl like with highly educated and who got married and suffered by society
I have seen few weak ones as I shared with u like my big sister sharadha akka who commited succide
I have seen my best friend's sister vijaya suffering because of mother in law.

This story which I want to share was my mom's aunt side of the story
My mom's aunt and her uncle had 2 kids one boy and girl
Both were well educated and boy married a USA girl later divorced that's a different story but his sister was brilliant girl who was doing her masters but parents married her to an idiot who married and left her the next day literally I must say he was a bagoda creep
The girl was heartbroken parents tried to marry off again but she gave them ultimatum and studied further to be a lecturer in the college who taught commerce what a strong lady after her dad died she looked after her mom and cousin brother who came to her for studies
Her cousin brother parents were poor so she took the responsibility and she helped him in education and later he too did the same he got married she took separate house were she and her mom stayed .

The major twist happened was when the bagoda husband returned back in her life like a storm her mom was happy like Asha and glad that daughter life will be on track knowing the fact that idiot had married and was widower and his kids were well settled and he too had some illness the guilt sort of hit him so before that he wanted to see her and ask forgiveness that was his plan
But the girl was calm composed and was unaffected by all this and treated him as normal as calm as possible and cleared off his guilt by saying things happen we need to move on sort of and as men's are dogs he slowly asked her mom to send her with him and his mom was in cloud 9 but the girl said wait a minute I said I have forgotten and forgiven everything but I can't return to the old life were it all began those days won't come back those dreams which I had won't return it's that I learned what's the real world is like and I am happy the space which u left me in it helped me to know my side what I want in life I can serve u as a friend if u need me I can be ur mom to u a sister to u but as a wife no way that space I can never fill that because urself snatched that from me .
Now I am used to my life style which I can't mould according to ppl around my life my wish I am selfish I am worth of being one
That's what she said and that moron walked out and left her alone but her mom taunts life had a second chance u didn't cash it but the girl said this was my second life I did cashed it I decided on my merits not according to ppls wish
When u got me married did u ppl enquire about this man no so I suffered the most
I lost those 25 yrs I lost those ppl who were friends my relatives who got married I couldn't attend there wedding or any celebrations because of this man he took my happiness and freedom and now when I am in good space he try to enter my life which I hate to better leave that chapter torn from my life book that never exist I am a human not a puppet she said to her mom and used to say that to my mom and used to cry and mom used to say let her fly don't cage her set her free

The girl name is jyothi and what a powerful girl she is and we all are proud of her whenever I go to India I just meet her and it gives such strength seeing her .


Mentally strong ladies do exisit tia
Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36
Shailu, kudos to women like Jyoti. Of course women with strong conviction exist who respect themselves. And I personally prefer those women because I identify with them. Unfortunately there is not a single show where such women are portrayed on screen as the lead. As if being strong and having a strong conviction and refusing to "settle" under any kind of pressure makes them somehow unattractive. But being a weak willed woman who does not learn her lesson even after continuous kicks on her face and keep coming back for additional abuse, somehow makes a woman more worthy. I don't identify with them. But of course to each its own. I would rather just watch the stronger counterpart on screen.

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Tia I want to share a story which I wanted to share with u for long about how few women are so powerful in there own way need not be a queen or politician a normal girl like with highly educated and who got married and suffered by society
I have seen few weak ones as I shared with u like my big sister sharadha akka who commited succide
I have seen my best friend's sister vijaya suffering because of mother in law.

This story which I want to share was my mom's aunt side of the story
My mom's aunt and her uncle had 2 kids one boy and girl
Both were well educated and boy married a USA girl later divorced that's a different story but his sister was brilliant girl who was doing her masters but parents married her to an idiot who married and left her the next day literally I must say he was a bagoda creep
The girl was heartbroken parents tried to marry off again but she gave them ultimatum and studied further to be a lecturer in the college who taught commerce what a strong lady after her dad died she looked after her mom and cousin brother who came to her for studies
Her cousin brother parents were poor so she took the responsibility and she helped him in education and later he too did the same he got married she took separate house were she and her mom stayed .

The major twist happened was when the bagoda husband returned back in her life like a storm her mom was happy like Asha and glad that daughter life will be on track knowing the fact that idiot had married and was widower and his kids were well settled and he too had some illness the guilt sort of hit him so before that he wanted to see her and ask forgiveness that was his plan
But the girl was calm composed and was unaffected by all this and treated him as normal as calm as possible and cleared off his guilt by saying things happen we need to move on sort of and as men's are dogs he slowly asked her mom to send her with him and his mom was in cloud 9 but the girl said wait a minute I said I have forgotten and forgiven everything but I can't return to the old life were it all began those days won't come back those dreams which I had won't return it's that I learned what's the real world is like and I am happy the space which u left me in it helped me to know my side what I want in life I can serve u as a friend if u need me I can be ur mom to u a sister to u but as a wife no way that space I can never fill that because urself snatched that from me .
Now I am used to my life style which I can't mould according to ppl around my life my wish I am selfish I am worth of being one
That's what she said and that moron walked out and left her alone but her mom taunts life had a second chance u didn't cash it but the girl said this was my second life I did cashed it I decided on my merits not according to ppls wish
When u got me married did u ppl enquire about this man no so I suffered the most
I lost those 25 yrs I lost those ppl who were friends my relatives who got married I couldn't attend there wedding or any celebrations because of this man he took my happiness and freedom and now when I am in good space he try to enter my life which I hate to better leave that chapter torn from my life book that never exist I am a human not a puppet she said to her mom and used to say that to my mom and used to cry and mom used to say let her fly don't cage her set her free

The girl name is jyothi and what a powerful girl she is and we all are proud of her whenever I go to India I just meet her and it gives such strength seeing her .


Mentally strong ladies do exisit tia

Edited by Tia.0 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37
Hahaha Tia Di amazing as usual
But you know what aapke us khada wala comment ke baare me PS likhne se mera gutter mind zyada active ho gaya Lol
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was early to bed yesterday. I watched the episode this morning and, I liked it very much! I mean, most of it. Old vibes! :D Sonakshi was Just Perfect! :D I loved her attitude and dialogues. One of the two dialogues that I loved is "Tum akele nahi ho.. Sirf mumma's boy nahi, yahan mumma's uncles mumma's aunties bhi hai" Hahahaha! The family moment in the car was cute. <3

I would like to put forth a different perspective of Asha. After yesterday's Asha-Sona conversation, Asha seems to have secretly shipped something that any other normal person would do although he knows that it is not the right thing to do and the output might not be colourful or as desired. But the heart wants what it wants. When someone sees two people who appear to be potentially compatible from their pov, this happens. At time A with X person and time B with Y person because they appear happy around each other. I have seen a situation similar to this one albeit less severe and complicated. The girl or boy has to be determined and know what they want and should not get lovestruck just because someone feels that they can be a happy couple. There are also examples who failed this case. Some of them are happy, although I did not like the fact that there was too much external influence and the others are burdened by societal pressure or like how Sonakshi told Mrs.Mondol, "Bhoj".

I agree, Asha is Sona's mom and she must know better about her daughter's mindset with respect to the past. Also, she does not know the extent of the mental torture, Sonakshi has been subjected to because Sonakshi had never been vocal about her problems as she has always told Asha that it takes time for any family to accept a new member and she is working on it. That actually gives her the reason to not dream on anything but I liked the fact that she did not express her desires to Sonakshi even when she was questioned openly. Neither she coerced her nor did emotional blackmail. I definitely am not supporting her intentions but everyone is not as rational and mature like how we expect them to be. Some of them always don't go by facts and history. It is bad to not learn anything and gearing up for another round of suffering but that is something a person chooses for himself and others should not be expressing an opinion about it and Asha did not do it. And I definitely don't support her extra-loving, extra-caring and extra-everything ways with Dev and sigh, let me not get there now. Sonakshi is strong now, no amount of coercing is going to work on her. Asha's daily lectures does not make any sense and is inducing headache but this view is only with respect to Monday's and Tuesday's episode.

There is love buried deep down inside Sonakshi and I want it to be unawakened for some more time and until Dev gives her a reason to. He took away her faith in love and he seems to have no realisation of it. This time, I want it not to be easy on Dev and he should remember that the wounds caused by him are deep and he cannot alleviate the pain with something similar to his "win-win situation" strategy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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One dialogue from the episode summarised the whole story.

"I trust you Sonakshi par baat meri ma ki hain"👏

Also, Sonakshi is indifferent and not jealous or upset whenever Dev mentions other girls. This proves her disinterest in getting back with him and shows how good of a friend she can be to him. I want only this for now. Having said all this, I want to see how DevAkshi play out in today's episode. No disappointments, please!

CVs have taken the term 'falling in love' too seriously. Every week or fortnight they fall on top of each other. Although Sonakshi shows less or no interest, the fall looks forced and unbearable.My dad is twice my weight and prefers struggling to asking my hand while getting up!😆

Where is Jatin? Dev did not even thank him for his help in the Khatri case and Sona forgot his existence.🤔
Edited by chucklebuddy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful take on decisions, Tia. 👏 Esp. the line "everyone has been given a brain for a reason". Wish Dev Babu applies his share when Maiyya comes! 😆
I loved Sona's spirit. Her retorts like yeah she knows he trusts her but when it comes to his mom...!😃
And the other one you are not the only Mummas boy here, there are other Mumma's uncle and aunty!😆 Keep it up, Sona. Don't get waylaid by Dev Babu's inebriated statements like the last time, Sona.

This time I don't want it to be easy for Dev. I want Dev to be sober and work towards winning Sona. Enough of his love under influence of alcohol or truth seeking tablets. If he can be a man in front of Ishwari and take side for what is right and support Sona then he deserves her.









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