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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's easy to blame that what Saurabh did was OTT yesterday. But, samajdhaari is mein hein, jab hum sochega vo aisa kyon react karte hein. Saurabh's yesterday's reaction has nothing to do with his love for Sona. He still cares for and love his sister. Otherwise he would not have cancelled his HM trip. What Saurabh is scared for is would he be able to be an acha husband? He has asked this question to Dev & Ronita already. And if you notice his conversations with Ronita before marriage, whenever Ronita compliments him, he gets it double assured by asking Shoti. The way he was treated by Bijoy turned Saurabh into a person who lacked confidence. Sona was the only one who occasionally used to support & boost him up. But still the main problem was not confronted till Asha told Sona, on the night of the theft, that Sona has not grown up enough to take the decision...means till then Sona was the decision maker in Bose house. Saurabh had no role in the decisions made in Bose house.

Now, jab se Ronita has come into Saurabh's live, in every conversation they had, she had only words of encouragement, understanding, support etc. to give him. When he told her not to discuss about the ongoing tensions between Dev & Sona with her parents, she obeyed. This was the first time Saurabh was greatly appreciated and acknowledged for the person he is. And the level of understanding Ronita showed with his parents was also notable. The girl who was not happy when someone teased Saurabh at the restaurant was more than happy when Bijoy called him football. Again, when he himself was not happy with Bijoy taking Soha to Kolkota, she was the one who made him understand Bijoy's concern for his girls. So, Saurabh is now in an overwhelmed situation where he himself is feeling that, does a good for nothing person like him, deserve Ronita. And to top it all, deep down, he is scared by what happened in Sona's life because Dev didn't take a stand for her and how it led to their separation. For Saurabh, Ronita is an unfound treasure, which he doesn't want to loose at any cost. So, for that he will go to any extent. And this is not the first time he behaved so. First, he questioned Bijoy for interfering in Sona's life, while Ronita was standing outside the house after they came back from the reastaurant. Second time on the theft day. And it will continue, until someone assures that nothing like what happened in Dev-Sona's life will happen to him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#2
I thoght so soaruab would be Qd for his love for sona here..😆.forum is also predictable now like our show😉
its simple I repeat till now sona faced no prob with boses..as it was her family she was accommodated..but now when 3rd person comes dynamics changes..

hence now it ll b tough time for sona to fit at boses which she always boasted of...not that sona ronita sourabh r bad rather none of them is bad...but d dynamics

I hope u got it..duno how to explain
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was just to show that how he his supporting his wife views and trying to make her accommodate in the Bose family.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Jo dev Shona ke beech hona chahiye woh baaki sabhi couples ke beech Ho raha hai. Bas in dono ke beech kuch nahi Ho raha. Pehle jhagda tha ab woh bhi nahi hai...iam feeling like a sadist Jo aur Kisi bhi couple ko khush nahi dekh pa rahe hai 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abyspecial

Jo dev Shona ke beech hona chahiye woh baaki sabhi couples ke beech Ho raha hai. Bas in dono ke beech kuch nahi Ho raha. Pehle jhagda tha ab woh bhi nahi hai...iam feeling like a sadist Jo aur Kisi bhi couple ko khush nahi dekh pa rahe hai 😆


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Posted: 8 years ago
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it may be that he looks bad while supporting his wife, but he is ensuring that ronita gets a place in the house-----------and all this he has lernt from Dev-sonakshi's relationship.

he doesnt want the mistakes that Dev did, to do it himself
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Abyspecial

Jo dev Shona ke beech hona chahiye woh baaki sabhi couples ke beech Ho raha hai. Bas in dono ke beech kuch nahi Ho raha. Pehle jhagda tha ab woh bhi nahi hai...iam feeling like a sadist Jo aur Kisi bhi couple ko khush nahi dekh pa rahe hai 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its all about balance in handling relationships...it takes time and every one in the family needs to give time to each other especially when we have a new member...

If Dev was more biased to his side of the family...Sourabh was more towards his wife...primarily because he has seen his sis walk out of marriage since her husband didn't support her...so he fears Ronitha might leave him if he doesn't...that doesn't mean her dislikes his family...

In case of Dev when he supported his family didn't mean he disliked Sona , he expected Sona to understand his actions...her Saurabh expects his parents to understand his actions...

It takes time for any guy to be able to balance relationships...its takes nearly a year and half...and in betwn if a kid is born then the whole dynamics change again...but as a couple what you need to understand is don't leave and don't loose hope in relationship...trust your spouse and have hope in life for a better tomorrow...only such couples are able to pull on...

Dev and Sonakshi had lost both trust and hope...and they collapsed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Its all about balance in handling relationships...it takes time and every one in the family needs to give time to each other especially when we have a new member...

If Dev was more biased to his side of the family...Sourabh was more towards his wife...primarily because he has seen his sis walk out of marriage since her husband didn't support her...so he fears Ronitha might leave him if he doesn't...that doesn't mean her dislikes his family...

In case of Dev when he supported his family didn't mean he disliked Sona , he expected Sona to understand his actions...her Saurabh expects his parents to understand his actions...

It takes time for any guy to be able to balance relationships...its takes nearly a year and half...and in betwn if a kid is born then the whole dynamics change again...but as a couple what you need to understand is don't leave and don't loose hope in relationship...trust your spouse and have hope in life for a better tomorrow...only such couples are able to pull on...

Dev and Sonakshi had lost both trust and hope...and they collapsed.


Well said Ashwathy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is no doubt on Saurabh's love for Sona. He love his sister and it has nothing to do with his yesterday's outburst. His concern for his wife was genuine but his way of expressing it was not.
His tone, specially in front of in laws was rude towards Asha and Bijoy. No one is stopping you from standing fro your wife, but at the same time one should not disrespect parents also.

Many people believed that Dev never supported Sona, but that was not the case according to me at least. He never doubted his intentions regarding Neha or Riya and understood her actions. May be he didn't accepted all her advises, but that was fair enough as it was not only about themselves.

Here, Saurabh is behaving impulsively and will learn slowly how to balance relationships.

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