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@Mahua. Amazing post and it echoed quite a lot of my thoughts. But in hindsight I feel it is necessary for Sonakshi to do what she is doing. It is true that she did marry Dev. But she ended up putting everyone else above him. While she was the most important person for him, he came last on her list.
In Shimla when they fight, Sonakshi says that he wouldn't understand how one would feel when they have to leave the world they had lived in, enter a new unknown world and try to make it their world. While Dev replies that she wouldn't understand what it means when a stranger becomes so important that without them life becomes impossible and they cannot function without that person.
After the breakup up, while Dev self destructed, Sonakshi could continue and be a functioning member of her family. She might have broken from inside, but not to the extent where she couldn't live without him. She was ready to live with Ritwick even when she did not love him. For Dev, she had become that person without whom he couldn't function.
By going to Bose house, Dev did understand what it was to embrace an alien world and live among seemingly strangers where there is no trust and there is resistance to giving space to the newcomer. He had to patiently wait for his turn even to spend time with his own daughter and not demand anything.
If Sonakshi had been shown to follow the steps you have said then logically it might be right, but wouldn't work the way it will now, especially in regards to Dev. Since post leap and even in yesterday's episode, she has made it out that she doesn't really need him or even miss him, or that he is important to her. For her to realize his importance, she had to push him away to the extent where he no longer is part of her life. It is true that they are divorced and everything. But in this she considers that he left her and she had no contribution towards that. She blames him for the separation.
Right now in her zeal to get to the bottom of that secret, she is alienating Dev to the extent that there is very little left for him to be pushed out the door. She is taking it for granted that he will stay even when he has been told that he is not needed and has not really taken into consideration the possibility of him doing what she has been saying. But him leaving is very much needed for her to realize how important he has become to her. Only when she gives him that place of importance will they be able to think of reconciliation. She needs to put him above all else.
There was a spoiler that said Dev would leave IN and that Sonakshi would start missing him. She is on her way understand the truth of his words regarding a stranger becoming important to the extent where life without them would be impossible. Only when she puts him as the most important person in her life above all else will she be able to accept his love and give her love to him. Only when Dev and Sonakshi become the most important person to each other, they have a shot at reconciliation and thereby beginning their journey as partners.
In Shimla when they fight, Sonakshi says that he wouldn't understand how one would feel when they have to leave the world they had lived in, enter a new unknown world and try to make it their world. While Dev replies that she wouldn't understand what it means when a stranger becomes so important that without them life becomes impossible and they cannot function without that person.
After the breakup up, while Dev self destructed, Sonakshi could continue and be a functioning member of her family. She might have broken from inside, but not to the extent where she couldn't live without him. She was ready to live with Ritwick even when she did not love him. For Dev, she had become that person without whom he couldn't function.
By going to Bose house, Dev did understand what it was to embrace an alien world and live among seemingly strangers where there is no trust and there is resistance to giving space to the newcomer. He had to patiently wait for his turn even to spend time with his own daughter and not demand anything.
If Sonakshi had been shown to follow the steps you have said then logically it might be right, but wouldn't work the way it will now, especially in regards to Dev. Since post leap and even in yesterday's episode, she has made it out that she doesn't really need him or even miss him, or that he is important to her. For her to realize his importance, she had to push him away to the extent where he no longer is part of her life. It is true that they are divorced and everything. But in this she considers that he left her and she had no contribution towards that. She blames him for the separation.
Right now in her zeal to get to the bottom of that secret, she is alienating Dev to the extent that there is very little left for him to be pushed out the door. She is taking it for granted that he will stay even when he has been told that he is not needed and has not really taken into consideration the possibility of him doing what she has been saying. But him leaving is very much needed for her to realize how important he has become to her. Only when she gives him that place of importance will they be able to think of reconciliation. She needs to put him above all else.
There was a spoiler that said Dev would leave IN and that Sonakshi would start missing him. She is on her way understand the truth of his words regarding a stranger becoming important to the extent where life without them would be impossible. Only when she puts him as the most important person in her life above all else will she be able to accept his love and give her love to him. Only when Dev and Sonakshi become the most important person to each other, they have a shot at reconciliation and thereby beginning their journey as partners.
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