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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its sonas mistake that she dint bother to consider jatin as real father..!!!!
Blood relations are not always important.
Adopted child too are loved and Jatin would have been perfect rather than over possesive Dev and issueworry


I wish she had guts to accept that Jatin is sohas real father..!!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I will not say that she shouldn't have given birth to the child as it was her child too. She had full right to go ahead with the pregnancy and delivery.
They had a bitter separation, agreed. She didn't tell Dev bcz of her hatred, fear etc etc reasons, agreed. She tried to contact Dev after 6 months (i seriously dunno now what pushed her to do so), but was returned back, agreed.
Then why after 7 years, there was an urge to tell Soha about her father?
Was there any need to bring back Dev's equation in their life again?
From her back drop story i don't think Soha was missing any father figure in her life, Jotin was perfectly filling that gap. So what is the need of Dev in their life and that too on mercy. She is doing no ehsaan on Dev by making him meet his own daughter. Its his right and if she thinks the other way around, she should bang court doors and they will definitely support her.

As far as I am concerned, breakup was both of their faults and Sonakshi's story is very contradictory to her previous and current statements. Its not Dev's fault that he was not with her during that phase, its circumstantial if we like to believe.

My only issue is the dwindling nature. Either stay firm with your decision or let go. As off now Dev is like surrogate father to Soha, trying to fit in his daughter's life with no help.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Devakshilover

And one more thing.Did dev ever try to find out about her that is she alive or dead.No he was busy blaming her and flirting with random girls



It goes both ways ..did she ever find out how her husband was coping after the breakup ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



I expect a pregnant lady to just make a call or email her husband.I am sure she was not that poor not to afford a single STD call especially when her rich best friend was financing her business and taking care of her .

She has called him names and she was the one who trusted Vicky over him so let's not just focus on Dev's words .Its not a good reason for her to hide this truth and later taunt him of not being there and not having haq etc

How can you say that she never tried to call him because as per my intelligence in this world a person first of all tries to call a person rather than going to meet him personally because what was the need for sona to fly down to dev with a 6 months old baby when she could have easily called him I guess his number was changed
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



It goes both ways ..did she ever find out how her husband was coping after the breakup ?


Oh please he was not left homeless or penniless like sonakshi's family
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Take my word Nitu,Sonakshi will never regret not informing Dev about her pregnancy. You must have observed her tone and expression when she was telling Jatin was by her side during delivery as if it is Dev's fault not to be there. She has no intention to share the news with the father to be.



That what bothers me .Blaming him for something she was responsible for .I agree they will never show her feeling sorry for keeping him in dark even after Prenup and Vicky truth is out
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Devakshilover


Oh please he was not left homeless or penniless like sonakshi's family



Oh there is no importance to a person's feelings ,depression .As long as a man is rich he will be fine with the breakup
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy



It goes both ways ..did she ever find out how her husband was coping after the breakup ?



This is just tit for tat . Sona and her family were homeless , penniless and had nowhere to go, Dev knew this. Dev too was heartbroken but he had a roof on his head and food to eat. Who should have reached out to whom?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ra_chi

After signing prenup & all insults on inability to conceive should she go and tell she is pregnant? I don't think so. Ish mighthaveasked for a DNA test & GKB, Vicky would have made sure DNA stating it's not Dev's. After becoming a mother she might have viewed whole thing from another perspective which made her take the baby to Dev's.



Then she needs to accept that she was scared of the reaction and she was the one who kept him in dark instead of blaming him for the mistakes and telling him he has no haq and all and how great Jatin is
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nitu...Agree with you.
And if Jatin was there in all forms of support for Soha, Sona & Bose family, why did she bother to come with Soha to meet Dev...Today, Sona said Jatin was a father figure to Soha...And till she decided to come to Delhi, she hadn't told Soha about Dev. That means Soha also was OK with Jatin as the father figure...When Sona had not bothered to inform Dev about her pregnancy, she should have the guts or courtesy (whatever you can call) not to inform Dev about Soha lifelong...Why this half-hearted drama when Soha was 6months old and then informing Soha before coming to Dev etc. etc...Just to remove her guilt & keep her conscience clear...Then I would say, being selfish in Baba's way of not allowing Dev know about Soha would be better...Atleast Dev would have lived the way he was living, instead of reminding him about the bitterness and too only because he happened to fall in love with Sona...that is not fair.

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