Poor sona - Page 2

Originally posted by: randommusings

It feels like CVs has sidelined Sona for Dev-Soha-Asha bonding. Asha instead of confiding in Sona..is happy to hide truth as Dev suggested. Hav they forgotten hw Devakshi suffered bcoz of lies abt infertility, 5cr loan, inconvenience abt jhula,cupboard etc.

There's hardly any conversation shown between Soha n Sona these days.

But if Sona is forced out of her own bcoz of pressure frm Ronita's family..that wud b highly disappointing. If Sourav was ready to move out if Dev ws still thr then Sourav shud move out with Ronita if situation arises but Sona shudnt b moving out of her own home.

Maybe when they will move to Dixit house we will see Sona taking things under her control.

Originally posted by: reeeh

Your comment touched my inner feelings... Truly... An Indian married girl can really feel it, while reading it...😊Until and unless you stand for yourself, nobody is gonna bother about you... apne ghar main bhi nahi, unless you have a strongly supportive father like Bijoy... I know he speaks bitter, but I love the way he stands strongly for his DAUGHTER...

Originally posted by: randomramblings

do you really feel ronita's parents would be happy if ronita and sourabh move out? i dont think so, they will still have issue that their daughter had to leave the house which rightfully belonged to her while sona got to stay with her parents.

ideal would be sona is now capable of having a house of her own, she should rather move out along with soha, and then take her parents along with her if they are willing to join her.

Why should entire Bose family makes comprises to appease fears (just speculation, not even proven) of Ronita's mother?Both families should understand the gravity of the situation. This house rightfully belongs to Sona as much as Sourav. She is not married anymore and is financially independent doesnt mean she and Soha have to leave her own family. Obviously not all can be perfectly happy with one solution but best would be Sourav and Ronita taking the decision together. Sona shud not be the one sacrificing hers n Soha's happiness for Ronita's mom insecurity. Even Sourav is capable of having a house of his own and setting up his family and that would also result in less interference of Sona in their lives.

whatever be the reason, boses trusted sona, supported her in mortgaging every penny of theirs to return the 5 crores. today as a daughter she had returned whatever they lost. lets not forget it was not only fault of dev but also of saurabh equally in hiding about the investment from respective families. its not like he did not know what ishwari and radha are capable of or how bijoy would react upon knowing the truth. to me both dev and sourabh are culprits in the 5 crore fiasco.

When did I say only Dev was wrong abt hiding that 5cr loan, Sourav was equally wrong if not more. Both Asha and Dev should rembr this incident and how hiding this loan fact destroyed Dev and Sona's and both families relationship

Asha might be doing wrong in remaining silent today, but I do feel the insecurity from ronita's mother is not baseless. A daughter staying at her parents place is not wrong, but she getting to call the shots in the family while side lining the son is totally wrong. To date we have never come across a single scenario where the Boses gave equal preference to saurabh like sona. anyone can clearly see that sona gets to have her way around the Boses while saurabh does not even get to voice out his opinions or is often brushed off.

Wat shots is Sona calling? When has she sidelined her brother? Yes Bijoy is partial towards Sona but I do not recall any incident when it was Sourav vs Sona and both Bijoy and Asha took Sona's side. We havent come across single scenario when Boses have ignored Sourav.

The way is see the situation is nothing is going to change unless Bijoy stops giving preference to Sona over saurabh. he needs to stop interfering in Saurabh's decisions, let him act according to his will ( eg he was jumping in earlier to talk between saurabh and ronita instead of letting him handle during the first misunderstanding).

Yes here I agree...Sourav n Ronita have to take decisions together. Bijoy's interference has to be stopped.

I feel Asha has heard everything, she can understand what is causing insecurity to Ronita's mother, bringing out the truth of her in front of her family will not help in anyway. Neither Bijoy nor Sona can ever understand that. They are too blind in their sense of righteousness that they can never see the other persons perspectives. Also i somewhere feel that ,she feels that the current setting of week and week will make sona and dev understand their follies, therefore the matters will get settled automatically.

Thats what instead of just standing there listening to Dev n Ronita mother's conversation, Asha should have come forward and tried to assure Ronita's mom about her insecurities and returned her jewellery then and there. By keeping quiet, Asha let the incident become more damaging. No one wud have known anything abt Ronita's mom act, she wud hav been assured, Dev wud not have to lie n take d blame.

Agree both Bijoy and Sona have the extreme sense of righteousness but what Sona said was also correct..hiding such things would never resolve the core issue. Maybe not tell Bijoy but what is immediately needed is Sourav n Ronita knowing the truth and handling Ronita's mothers insecurities. Her insecurities led to Bose fam getting humiliated and they shud talk n resolve it rather than brushing it aside. Also, by telling the truth Asha wud have slightly mended Dev's relationship with Bijoy which wud have been good for Soha too.

Sona and Dev's understanding wud increase only when they talk with each other if its angry confrontation. On one hand Asha stops Bijoy from interfering between husband and wife conversation, on the other hand she herself stopped Sona from talking with Dev few days back and agreed when Dev said not to reveal this to Sona. She shud be convincing them to a have a meaningful conversation.

I remember when Dev was delaying informing Ishwari abt his relationship with Sona and both Asha n Bijoy were eager to meet the Dixits, Sona gave an excuse abt the delay and Asha's stern reply was - kya yeh meri Sona hai? I dnt see that Asha these days.

Yes by shuttling between houses, both Dev n Sona wud understand each other's pov and families better. Phew long post...a bit annoyed with changes in Dev, Sona and Asha behavior. Just my POV..nt meant to offend urs.

Originally posted by: shruti.

Girls r born to suffer i think,if thy dont stand for themselves.otherwise thy r sacrificing lamb for each and every relation.thank god she is successful in her career and hv a father like bijoy.. otherwise her life been terrible ...becoz teachings tht asha is giving to sona nowadays i don't support it.


Even if dev loves sona wht d use if he is unable to stand for her knowing tht she is right.

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I think CV's are biased with Dev's character they never want to never show them wrong or guilty for his mistakes , I don't know what kind of message are they trying to give.Sonakshi has gone through so much I feel for her. But CV's don't care an ounce 😕

Originally posted by: purva

There is only one person who would stand behind Sona no matter what and that's Bijoy. But somehow Sona keeps ignoring him and keeps encouraging that bully Dev. That's why I fail to feel any sympathy for her. Even her own daughter for whom she is tolerating Dev and his tantrums won't support her when time comes..😒