Hi Tia.
Thanks a bunch for the detailed update which gives a clearer picture of the episode. Couldn't have gone without these. Too hectic to catch up with the discussions here but hopefully will be back on Saturday night once the exam is over.
And I have no words for the lameness of the parallels being drawn in the show. This is SO NOT the same situation. Sonakshi had tolerated every single jibe thrown at her since Day 1. However, she reacted only when her family was dragged into pits by the shitty Dixits. And here we have the same lame Dev who resort to lies, hiding and decides things for others with an excuse of 'Nobel Intention'. He decided to take the blame on him - the point is he decided. Did Boses get a chance back in IN to DECIDE to do anything with respect to the blame ? The wheel of decisions have always been in the Dixits side when they declared Boses as thieves WITHOUT any consideration. That is SO NOT the same as now. However, would Mr. Liar tolerate if there is one finger pointed at Ishu maata ? No, Dev goes cuckoo whenever his family is blamed, doesn't even think whether it's valid or not, just like the last scene . Hypocrisy much !!?? So hows this even COMPARABLE ?
I have come to the conclusion that there is never going to be redemption of realization of Dev Dixit of any of his wrong doings. 👎🏼 And hence I have no plans whatsoever to resume watching the show. This is already going downhill with confused CVs being unable to decide as in what to do with this couple (REALLY !! 🤣) and their priorities as family or daughter or love or self-respect or what. I would let them first come to a conclusion if they want to show a woman is more of a worth than a womb to produce babies and that there is something called 'self-respect' which a woman needs to work on as well, OR they would continue humiliating a female lead by showing her nothing more than a toy who deserves no consideration on her feelings because she is too strong, the iron lady.
P.S. - Asha - the less said about her hypocrisy the better it is. Yesterday she wanted Sona to marry Jatin, today she has no problems hearing criticisms on Jatin from somebody who threw their family off their house. 👏 Sadly mothers like her exists who cannot think beyond treating their Son-in-laws as God and don't hesitate to mentally torture their daughters to reconcile with their SILs by doing shitloads of lifetime adjustments.
P.P.S - I badly want a vent-out by Sona or want her to disappear from everyone's life for sometime to let them sort out their priorities. Girls like her don't talk much about their inner turmoils and bitterness too much, hence their silence is perceived as weakness. Little would people understand that it takes a GREAT courage to put a permanent shuttlecock on their fully loaded bottle of emotion so that the occasionally emotional outburst can be resisted for the betterment of everybody's life around them.
Edited by Pehchaan.Kaun - 8 years ago