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hanishank

@hanishank

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Posted: 8 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Dont worry i already wrote it on twitter in response to mamtas tweet
Jaanedo abhi mera muh mat khulvavo - spinesless ,selfish, double standard hypocritic mcp #KRPKAB #KuchRangPyarKeAiseBhi

Dev dixit can be extremely helpful and nice when it is convienient to him and his family but fails to differentiate between right and wrong when his family is in picture

wow...thats a good job lavanya 👍🏼

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Becca

@Becca

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#142

What is vexing is that Dev's" dynamism " is getting yuckier day by day. And now another character to sing his gungan. Asha truly annoyed me with her over politeness and her naivety. Already a relationship has been ruined by a hoarde of lies( false pregnancy etc) and now another saga of hide and seek in the Boses family this time.Wish Asha had listened to Sonakshi and straightened the matter out.😡😡

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#143

@lalsunvid, what growth? Does God need any growth? The Dev Dixit, the God, is perfect. Everyone else just has to accept and accolade on his perfection or whoever he considers to be perfect, like his mother...

I am just sick of this mother-son duo's character.

Sonakshi is always the one getting manipulated because she doesn't know how to keep her dignity.

She doesn't need to justify, beg, plead for others to keep her dignity, she just has to stand up for herself.

Let me share a personal story to you.

My mother is to some extent like Asha except she is super loyal to me. She is of the opinion that a man, at any point of time, knows better than a woman about everything.

So if I ask her to do something, she needs a man's verification that I am on the right track. Needless to say that it pisses me off to no end.

Few years ago, for a certain change in my passport, I had to put an ad in an Indian newspaper regarding the change. I wrote the ad that was to be published in the paper, sent the money and the ad lib and asked my mother just to walk over to the closest English newspaper office, hand over the money and the ad I wrote and they will just publish it.

How difficult is the process to understand?

But nope, she decided to walk over to her uncle who is also our next door neighbour and wanted to confirm with him if what I wrote in the ad was good enough for my purpose.

Now keep in mind, her uncle who is my great uncle is in his 70s and had never gone through the same process I was going through living all his life in India (I was permanent resident of Canada with Indian passport). Yet, he decided to give his not-so-expert opinion on my ad and re-wrote my ad. My mother didn't bother informing me of this incident. She just took the new ad, went to the newspaper office, gave them extra money out of her pocket since the ad was now bigger and published it.

I asked her to send me the copy of the newspaper. She sent me a picture and then she said that she will courier the page the next day. I see, the ad is now not only longer, but my birth date, my passport details, my canadian PR card no., my husband's name etc. every single confidential information that will be dream of any identity thief, is on a national English newspaper for all and sundry to see.

Could you imagine my anger at that point of time?

And guess what? When I asked her what she did and why did she changed the ad? She said, But honey. I thought I will confirm with Mama to see if there is anything you missed. I tried to call your husband to confirm, but I could not reach him.

My brain just simply exploded. So I was like, So let me get this straight. Mama Dadu who is 70, never lived outside India and my husband who is born Canadian would know about this process better than me who actually went through the process, researched everything and told you in specific instructions on what to do just because they happen to be men and I am a women so what do I know?

So see, this is my mother. That's why when Sona left the room, I could understand her frustration and let down. But at the same time, I won't have left. I would have asked my mother the exact question that I wrote in my post.

That if taking care of the whole family doesn't give me the right to take decisions, then what gave Dev the right to take the decisions for our family? Should I then go slap dad and kick all of you out of your house in the middle of the night to be considered worthy of taking decisions for our family?

But then I am outspoken. I speak up whatever is in my head. May be that's why I have never been abused or manipulated by any one.

Edited by Tia.0 - 8 years ago

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NATASHA

@natasha_n

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#144

Try n read my topic...

Kabhi sautan kabhi mother

Just for fun

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lalsunvid

@lalsunvid

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#145

Tia ...

This is so common yaar ... right from a small bank chalan to job interview cover letter ... it happens ...
With changing times ... we need to change ... a very simple thing ...but all elders are somewhat same..
Some people do change after we show a promising achievement

Yesterday Asha cut Sona in between ok ?? But allowing Dev to take things in his hand was my question??
Sona character has been really butchered to any other Saas - Bahu drama one ...

I come back to this forum ... not to te serial

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Mridula

@imnowhere

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#146

I guess you all are being too harsh on Asha, The lady isn't that bad. She is a human with her share of mistakes. We cannot imagine of a human being without flaws.

I hated Asha the most the day she didn't utter a word when her husband was accused and humiliated at Ishwari Niwas. A woman can crib and complain about her husband throughout her life but will never accept her husband's insult from anyone else.

And today again, I don't appreciate her way of handling the situation. There were a thousand other ways to clear the mess that letting Dev being charged for what he had not done.And then her way of stopping Sona.Sona is sensible enough to understand the situation, but instead of explaining anything, Asha says she is not grown up enough to take a decision. Asha dear, were you sleeping when Sona chose to be a single mother and handle the business. Was she not grown up then?

Better late than never, I hope the next episode justifies her actions and words.

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HawasKePujari

@Phir_Mohabbat

Trailblazer

+ 13

Posted: 8 years ago

#147

Thanks for sharing you tia and yep totally right, we always need validation from a male and especially an older male. Sometime I am like how those male knows what's going on today's world but then u have lines like elders knows best so you gotta shut up.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#148

Oh I agree. Asha has her good qualities. But her hypocrisy is grating on my nerves. I can tolerate an evil person who is evil on your face like Radha and Vicky. But I can't tolerate hypocrites.

I totally agree that Sona was old enough to be a single mother and be a successful business man, not to mention taking care of her entire family, but she is not old enough to take decisions. Besides, Sonakshi didn't want to take any decisions on anyone's behalf. She wanted to inform the truth and let Saurabh take his own decision. Dev and Asha were the ones who took decision on someone else's behalf.

Originally posted by: imnowhere
I guess you all are being too harsh on Asha, The lady isn't that bad. She is a human with her share of mistakes. We cannot imagine of a human being without flaws.

I hated Asha the most the day she didn't utter a word when her husband was accused and humiliated at Ishwari Niwas. A woman can crib and complain about her husband throughout her life but will never accept her husband's insult from anyone else.

And today again, I don't appreciate her way of handling the situation. There were a thousand other ways to clear the mess that letting Dev being charged for what he had not done.And then her way of stopping Sona.Sona is sensible enough to understand the situation, but instead of explaining anything, Asha says she is not grown up enough to take a decision. Asha dear, were you sleeping when Sona chose to be a single mother and handle the business. Was she not grown up then?

Better late than never, I hope the next episode justifies her actions and words.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#149

Oh yes, the convenient growth curve.

When you are making noise > You are not kids anymore. Behave like an adult.

When you want to behave like a mature adult but not doing what they don't want you to do > Let the elders take the decisions. You are not old enough to take these decisions.

W*F...

Originally posted by: .Avengers.
Thanks for sharing you tia and yep totally right, we always need validation from a male and especially an older male. Sometime I am like how those male knows what's going on today's world but then u have lines like elders knows best so you gotta shut up.

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jigsaw1234

@jigsaw1234

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#150

That was a timely story, Tia.

I would accept that Asha is only human and out of whatever fear she refused to open her mouth and let her family have a go at Dev, only if she had stopped there. She then goes on to praise Dev and tell Sona she isn't old enough to make these decisions. Really? How old does one need to be to speak the truth?

If Sona isn't old enough, then what example is Asha setting for Sona? Lie to your husband. Let your husband falsely accuse someone. And it is okay because that someone is willingly sacrificing for your family? Why would a wife let her husband commit a mistake like that?

Isn't that perjury? Where is the boundary between white lies and blameworthy ones?

Absurd!

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