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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Hello peeps ! Just dropped by to say that I am not able to join the discussions (and even less presence will be seen for the next week) since I have an exam on 8th and I am in preparation mode for that !! 🤗 Miss yall folks ! I will join back asap but will keep checking qnd poking in between 🥳 thank you to all !! 😃


Best wishes for your exam!
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Posted: 8 years ago
What's nonsense track they show
Asha is behaving so normal with dev who destroyed her daughter life and left them homeless never tried to find out about them and this crepe slapped her hubby in anger and always direspect her hubby and daughter as if they are some dirt
This man ruined sona life and threw her out because of his psycho mother and now only knows to Blame her for leaving and hiding soha from him
This crepe had formal relationship with random girls in the hotel room yet insecured to see sona friends with jatin yet has the guts to yell at her twist her hand pull her taunt her and act chessy when soha is around and do drama to prove soha he is great dad .
Sona learned to play games from dev and acted a family infront of others who attended the function.
Why???
Cvs ruining this show .. sourabh and Asha acting normal knowing the fact this crepe destroyed sona life and well aware of her insults in the dungeon house of dixits
How can ppl be normal
Seems sona too has forgotten how ish and dev treated her when her infertility chapter was going on
Now soha how can sona bend to her needs sharing a bed with this crepe who has affairs with many girls since 7 yrs
Eye locks to passion shown on the show mere disgusting how can sona be ok with all this
Can't sona make soha understand
What's the need for sona to make dev befriend with soha why ...?
So that one day mother and son can mis use this and snatch soha from her
Why this mahaan?..
For what..?
What pleasure sona would get uniting soha with dixits
Sona knows how this mother and son are how they can manipulate the kid according and spoil her
Heights of ignorance
Well good luck with u sona
In future even if ish gets successful in separating u with ur daughter what will u do
U disagree to marry jatin who is worth u to make u happy but still u crave to be with the man who has zero spine to love u back or respect u as a women as a mother

Do u think soha and dev will stand by u
No way ur kid is just like dev who gets manipulated easily with psycho ish
And one day u will end up alone with no one not even bijoy this time .
Coming track sona going to support dev and go against bijoy this is what ur dad get in return who supported u through out wah
Writers go to hell
Let's see how dev will support sona in dixits house
I don't even think he would even soha seems to follow his route.
So sona whatever is stored in dixits house serves u right with silver spoon I bet ur tears won't affect us that much this time
Sweety get ready to be a doormat

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

What's nonsense track they show

Asha is behaving so normal with dev who destroyed her daughter life and left them homeless never tried to find out about them and this crepe slapped her hubby in anger and always direspect her hubby and daughter as if they are some dirt
This man ruined sona life and threw her out because of his psycho mother and now only knows to Blame her for leaving and hiding soha from him
This crepe had formal relationship with random girls in the hotel room yet insecured to see sona friends with jatin yet has the guts to yell at her twist her hand pull her taunt her and act chessy when soha is around and do drama to prove soha he is great dad .
Sona learned to play games from dev and acted a family infront of others who attended the function.
Why???
Cvs ruining this show .. sourabh and Asha acting normal knowing the fact this crepe destroyed sona life and well aware of her insults in the dungeon house of dixits
How can ppl be normal
Seems sona too has forgotten how ish and dev treated her when her infertility chapter was going on
Now soha how can sona bend to her needs sharing a bed with this crepe who has affairs with many girls since 7 yrs
Eye locks to passion shown on the show mere disgusting how can sona be ok with all this
Can't sona make soha understand
What's the need for sona to make dev befriend with soha why ...?
So that one day mother and son can mis use this and snatch soha from her
Why this mahaan?..
For what..?
What pleasure sona would get uniting soha with dixits
Sona knows how this mother and son are how they can manipulate the kid according and spoil her
Heights of ignorance
Well good luck with u sona
In future even if ish gets successful in separating u with ur daughter what will u do
U disagree to marry jatin who is worth u to make u happy but still u crave to be with the man who has zero spine to love u back or respect u as a women as a mother

Do u think soha and dev will stand by u
No way ur kid is just like dev who gets manipulated easily with psycho ish
And one day u will end up alone with no one not even bijoy this time .
Coming track sona going to support dev and go against bijoy this is what ur dad get in return who supported u through out wah
Writers go to hell
Let's see how dev will support sona in dixits house
I don't even think he would even soha seems to follow his route.
So sona whatever is stored in dixits house serves u right with silver spoon I bet ur tears won't affect us that much this time
Sweety get ready to be a doormat


I think this is what exactly cvs want us to learn. Zindagi me itna bhee mahan mat bano, apna pair me kud khuladi mat maro..

Coming to supporting dev.. she has to do it. That is basic characteristic of sonakshi. if dev is innocent in this, she has to support it. I have no issues in that. But as some spoiler says.. jatin to make sona realise her love for dev.. is something non-sense. First they should clear misunderstandings, then dev should apologize for all the harsh words used for sonakshi. Then Dev has to try wooing our princess. Otherwise, sona realizing her love without dev's effort.. will be useless in the story.

I want dev to realise his mistakes first. But I highly doubt on that.. bcoz, in bose house every one behaving very normal as if nothing happened except bejoy. So how dev will realize his mistakes unless someone point out on him. Bejoy.. is showing angry on him, but he is not pointing out his mistakes. Why someone is not questioning dev, what he did to save his relation??

I am seeing people, with one drop of tear from dev.. all want sonakshi to realize her mistakes and she has to realize her love for Dev. I feel, is i am watching same serial or something else? Because sonakshi is girl, so she has to understand everything? I can understand, if sonakshi was never cared, rude to in laws and manipulating dev., not adjusting, demanding. etc. then i would understand, sonakshi need to realise her mistakes and understand dev's love(?). Sonakshi failed after trying so much.. now why she should try again? bcoz dev feeling insecure with jatin and crying crocodile tears??

If i have to feel for Dev, they should bring solid track.. where i should feel, dev mahan. Like in first accident, he made whole world up and down to get treatment for sonakshi.. I want to see that kind of junoon. Not this blaming, angry.. and saying he is there only for soha etc.

These days i dont feel sense when he talks about love. Like shallow words. I am sure, one day will come, he has to choose suhana or golu.. again he will fall back.. he will not be able to justify.

In the beginning, when he said i love you as man loves a woman.. i was so thrilled to hear it. Now I feel dev should never talk about love..his love is only selfish. Between, in my mind.. what he meant, when he said I love you as man loves woman??😉😆

Lets see rockstar how story will go forward.. no need to boil our blood and mind as long as our mindset is correct and not harming anyone.
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Posted: 8 years ago
All the best, Guddi. Sorry I was in and out of forum. But I am reading all your comments...
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Pehchaan.Kaun- Best wishes!
And you look cute in your DP Tia! New haircut, Kya?
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

today by chance while cleaning up my laptop I come across ep 13 of KRPKB - somehow remained undeleted for such a long time.

Coming to the point I saw it and noticed that in the hindsight

1. Dev was rude, arrogant with Sona and had no idea how to talk to any person who works for you- treating like a slave. This behaviour was ignored initially bcoz story was bulding up and everyone was looking forward to Dev suhana only

2. One event I remembered was never raised in the forum - Dev selfish motive in talking bad about sona to the bong boy who had come to see Sona.

Dev conspired to make sure that she can't get a job and doesn't marry and go outside delhi. At that time these things were ignored but in the hindsight it showed the true colors of dev and his selfish motives and behaviour. Yuck


For mom in S1, Dev did not let Sona marry or have a job.

For daughter in S2, he literally forced himself on the Boses.

I am still waiting ,if DevD has infact changed, will he do something for Sona or himself?

I find Jaat ki Jugni promising...9:30 slot can be reused. I like the hero 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
@Guddi:
All the Best for your exams.
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Posted: 8 years ago
PK- Good luck for your exams.
I am posting my response from the analysis thread. There is a lot of empathy to a mean MIL and clueless husband and sadly none of that is extended to the DIL...


What about the openly rude behavior, hurting taunts that get thrown at the DIL. How do you explain that behavior of MIL. Shouldn't the son try to control that behavior against any person(even if we forget for a minute that the person is his wife).

I am married into a rural family. My MIL had suffered hugely in the hands of her in-laws and husband. Belonging to a rural setup, they cannot really 'divorce' legally. However, she stays separate from her husband in a different house,as his next door neighbor. She still cooks for her husband and sends a dabba and makes sure the maid keeps his house clean. However they (my MIL pointedly) does not talk to anyone for the brief 1 hour spent at that house(cooking and cleaning and setting house in order). She runs her own small business of home made masalas, papad, etc. for survival.
If we continue to play the empathy card, we'll think a woman like her would be unbearably clingy. But without knowing the meaning of feminism, she is more feminist then me. Since she is so fiercely independent, she does not need our support, nor does she stay with us for long duration. Never once have i heard her bad mouth her husband or in-laws, never once was she rude to me. Considering her low education levels, I was fearing the worst and got such a surprise.

I feel it's OK for us to empathise with women like Ishwari, but lets call them out on their incorrect behavior pattern. Its too much to expect a new DIL to understand complicated relationship dynamics. what a DIL knows is what are the taunts and behaviour that are demeaning and she must call them out and expect people to correct them . No one gets a free pass to taunt and terrorize a new entrant!



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Posted: 8 years ago
@JShukla
Thanks for sharing about your MIL. Salute to her 👏
Agree with you on this. A MIL is also a DIL. I don't understand why a MIL cant empathize with a DIL or try to understand her POV.
Today I'm a DIL,tomorrow, I'll too bcome a MIL...its pretty obvious I'll have to face different situations to maintain different relationships. If I'll fail to live upto expectations, I don't know but I should be at peace with myself that I am not the reason of anybody else's broken relationships.

My MIL is complete same as Ishwari. More worse I would say. I have a Neha too, with a kid. And no remarriage. I think I have said this earlier, my hubby is thankfully not Dev. Let me explain one scenario
My MIL always has problem if my hubby will spend anything on me, us or my parents. Recently, when he spent for us, she went completely ballistic and started her rant how she sold her bangles to educate my hubby but he is not ready to help his parents when they are in need(Their need was buying gold to gift at other's marriage). My hubby ,obviously felt very sad and down, he talked to me and tried to get over it. But he did not go ahead and offer any money for the gold things because we mutually agreed here. Gifting some one else gold is of less priority than your own household needs. If you don't have the money , gift what you can. No need to show off based on your son's hard-earned money or bcoz your DIL is working. As kids, we are obliged for food, health or fulfill other basic needs for parents. Showing off does not come under this.

Let me also tell you my hubby wasn't like this during his initial few months of marriage...but he learnt and he was/is always willing to learn, is not biased with anyone person's opinion and has his own viewpoint.

And probably that is why I expect Dev's character to grow. The major problem I have with him is his character is stuck one-dimensionally showing no growth or no learning from any circumstances. I understand basic human nature will not change but as humans, we do evolve with time. We try to inculcate new good habits and control our bad ones...atleast try. DevD doesnot even know he has any flaws. I don't know how can he be so successful and yet so ignorant at the same time. Particularly when he married probably 8 yrs ago.

Well, till he does something good, I'll address him as DevD...with the extra D 😆
Edited by gaurimisha - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Gauri- honestly I totally get you as my sister is married into a tough family so I absolutely get it. though things are improved for them. this is real life and when my sister gave them a tough time, they changed
Even today I am Bijoy for them. me and my sister have very little age gap and are kind of joined at hip.

I find it difficult to forgive people who hurt her versus those who hurt me😕

Even I am unable to understand how they could not show any character growth in Dev. I feel cheated
Edited by JShukla - 8 years ago

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