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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NBT-BV



she is best character of d show transformed by CVs to show bijoy as MCP and to elevate the real MCP as the best father who manipulates a 6 yrs old girl to rise in her eyes by deception and mask.

BTW where is his hip bottle which he always carry with him even during the summer camp???

but when I said that bijoy is wrong 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: flowers321

but when I said that bijoy is wrong 😆


Or Did I 😆😆😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said 😆
Also be remember one thing if anyone will go against sonakshi or try to make realise her mistake chahe wo asha hi kyu naa ho from That time, that person will be bad for some people 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes she is the best. <3
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjeewi15

She has the best parenting skills in this serial...

Sonakshi's intelligence and smartness is thanx to Asha and her uncontrollable anger is thanx to Mr. Bijoy Bose.




I feel both the Boses have shaped Sonakshi to be a good daughter. But the difference lies in the advice given by Asha and Bijoy to handle various situations. Bijoy is seen to be impulsive and angry, but he sometimes foresees situations correctly and hence is very protective about his family -esp. Sonakshi. Asha, on the other hand is more calm and collected and has an excellent intuitiveness to diffuse a difficult situation! She has no ego and always thinks about the welfare of her dear ones with no intention of taking revenge or getting even. She is a smooth operator and her demeanour is one of the reasons for a happy married life of Bijoy-Asha with lots of help from Dida. Bijoy, also thinks well, but his temper makes him do things that may not be liked by all. It's this balance of Asha being calm when Bijoy is hyper, that is required for a good long-lasting marriage. I feel that till now Sonakshi has shown Bijoy's traits of being perfect and trying others to be perfectionists. Now, she may toe Asha's line and learn that her mothers way of doing things are also effective in making relationships strong and successful.



-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse



I feel both the Boses have shaped Sonakshi to be a good daughter. But the difference lies in the advice given by Asha and Bijoy to handle various situations. Bijoy is seen to be impulsive and angry, but he sometimes foresees situations correctly and hence is very protective about his family -esp. Sonakshi. Asha, on the other hand is more calm and collected and has an excellent intuitiveness to diffuse a difficult situation! She has no ego and always thinks about the welfare of her dear ones with no intention of taking revenge or getting even. She is a smooth operator and her demeanour is one of the reasons for a happy married life of Bijoy-Asha with lots of help from Dida. Bijoy, also thinks well, but his temper makes him do things that may not be liked by all. It's this balance of Asha being calm when Bijoy is hyper, that is required for a good long-lasting marriage. I feel that till now Sonakshi has shown Bijoy's traits of being perfect and trying others to be perfectionists. Now, she may toe Asha's line and learn that her mothers way of doing things are also effective in making relationships strong and successful.



-Rekha



@Bold, not sure we are watching the same show.

Asha was the one who asked Sona to fight for her self-respect rather than strike peace, 7 years ago. Where was this mother who knows effective ways of making relationships work, 7 years ago? Why didn't she encourage Sona to think calmly and settle the matter peacefully? Why did she send the money with Sona and pray her for God's help in what her child was doing that day? Why didn't she make attempts to amend the situation?

Thats the inconvenient truth isn't it? Sona has toed Asha's line always and still her life is the way it is!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Rekha- though I do not feel that way but many people claim that much of Sonakshi's trouble were because she chose to remain silent rather than vocal at crucial points in her marriage.
She'd always treat Dev's emotions with kid's gloves always assuring him that she is not affected by the bitter words of Mami, Neha, Ishwari, etc. Much of it was Asha's teachings to adjust and compromise.

It would not have been a bad decision to urge Sonakshi to calmly confront Dev . She could have said all that she said and closed it off by saying that she expects Sona to remain calm and logcal while speaking with Dev. How would that have a bad effect? Also why advice only Sonakshi? Why not Dev to behave better? Isn't he the one who is trying to create issues? Why always snub Sona's father infront of everyone? How is that amounting to being a good parent ?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asha is such a wicked person. She is trying to act friendly with her ex son in law who is an enemy. She is snubbing her husband and daughter in this way. She ought to poison dev so that she can claim victory for bose family and restore their honour in front of the world.😕🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: maharathikarna

Asha is such a wicked person. She is trying to act friendly with her ex son in law who is an enemy. She is snubbing her husband and daughter in this way. She ought to poison dev so that she can claim victory for bose family and restore their honour in front of the world.😕🤢



hahaha... sarcasm much :-)

Asha is not wicked. She is a good mother with her own insecurities :-) She hasn't snubbed her daughter or is she acting friendly in front of her ex SIL. She is just being human! Neither does she deserve a pedestal nor needs to be dug underground :-)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jigsaw1234



@Bold, not sure we are watching the same show.

Asha was the one who asked Sona to fight for her self-respect rather than strike peace, 7 years ago. Where was this mother who knows effective ways of making relationships work, 7 years ago? Why didn't she encourage Sona to think calmly and settle the matter peacefully? Why did she send the money with Sona and pray her for God's help in what her child was doing that day? Why didn't she make attempts to amend the situation?

Thats the inconvenient truth isn't it? Sona has toed Asha's line always and still her life is the way it is!




Sorry, I disagree. I have read some of your replies to various posts and you harp on the same point again and again. Returning the money - that's about it. Only a single point in the entire show of 260+ episodes. Life has made Sonakshi face lots of situations other than these. I will sum this up as Kuch Differences Ke Rang Aise Bhi. 😃


-Rekha

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