Name Calling - Page 3

Thank you Mishti dear for sharing your story with us. And this was a much needed post. Manipulation is something that kids learn from elders. In this case Soha is too small to understand what Manipulation means...she gave a very straight forward answer to both of them...She was open to tell them that she doesn't want one to feel the other is getting more time to spend with her ...and also she wants their love at the same time not wait for time/week/year to get it...

Even as adults when we see our parents arguing we feel bad and we tend to try and solve it. At our age we know our parents don't hate each other its just another 2 mins quarrel but even then it affects us...

So just imagine ppl how a 6 yrs old will feel...from her POV both are wonderful ppl...she doesn't understand the complications that happens ...

What ever we say...towards the end did two ppl who couldn't even look at each other decide to come together?? Why ?? So they know they can give in ...all the needed was a reason to give in ...which is Soha...because their affection for each other was not that strong as it lacked trust/acceptance /honesty etc...it was filled with insecurities ...Now they will have to learn to trust each other , accept each other and communicate with each other because of Soha...

We need to understand when we give birth to a child , childs happiness should be the top most priority in life...because you brought that life into this world hence its your responsibility to take care of that life...if your own parents or relatives behavior becomes a threat to ur childs happiness then stay away from that person no matter how close that relative is.

So for me Sonakshi took a right decision and Soha's need as a child is right on the spot !! I loved Dev when he told his side of the family that they are ready to keep their differences away for her happiness and is ready to go thru what ever pain that comes to his life just for his child .

As parents of Soha I really liked the way Dev and Sonakshi's character is shaping up...I hope they don't butcher Dev and Sonakshi as parents to glorify Soha's Dhahi ...Ishwari !!


PS : Mishti dear always remember every child has his /her right ask for their needs to be fulfilled by their parents when they are young ... If the needs put forth by the child is for the right reasons then parents should fulfil it ...especially their emotional needs should never be ignored ...and here you or Soha was not wrong in doing so...and I am sure your parents love you and your lil sis so much..
Take care and god bless!!

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

It is always the parent who is wrong never the child. The child is innocent and if he or she is making an incorrect demand it is the parents responsibility to explain him or make him understand.

It is every child's wish and right to stay with both the parents but if due to certain circumstances it is not possible then the parents have to handle the child (not through a beating or grounding of course bit through explaining).

But calling a child though fictitious names because he is doing something we don't like in the show is horrible in my opinion. I really fail to understand what sort of people can hate or call names to a small child

Originally posted by: Drcs

Mishti Luv you sweetie...why you let yourself affected by these baseless comments? you spread lots of positivism that's your key strength...stay like that...I just don't care these people who relentlessly watch every episode and criticise each and every character.. any rational individual would have stopped watching a show if nothing shown there appease them...which means these people have lots of free hours...they are just venting their frustrations...by now I know who are they so I just ignore their posts...my response to them is "Go get a life please"...the CVs, Actors, PH all are doing a great job...which is evidenced from the positive response the show is garnering all over...when I see these people only one thing comes to my mind which is "Never argue with an idiot (S). They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience."

O my deeps di.. Sabse pehle toh ek pyaar bhari hug mere taraf se... 🤗 le lo..

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Brilliant post mishti

Don't take foruwm waisi words too seriously

Honestly I have witness the same thing

All kids wants to stay with parents until and unless something drastic things happens in front of her or him.

You are perfectly fine and normal and so was suhana

Don't think negative about yourself



How many people comes in the forum -230 ??

Out of 230 if 200 people are bashing dev or Sonakshi or suhana in the name of modernity , self
Respect or whatever but 200 people are not the entire world .

Am happy that you said you all are living together and happy - touch wood

What else do you want ?

Stay happy and stay bless

Always remember our world is not this forum .. so don't take it anything seriously

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

It is always the parent who is wrong never the child. The child is innocent and if he or she is making an incorrect demand it is the parents responsibility to explain him or make him understand.

It is every child's wish and right to stay with both the parents but if due to certain circumstances it is not possible then the parents have to handle the child (not through a beating or grounding of course bit through explaining).

But calling a child though fictitious names because he is doing something we don't like in the show is horrible in my opinion. I really fail to understand what sort of people can hate or call names to a small child

Originally posted by: keershri

Lovely post Mishti...

Thanks for sharing your positive story and giving life lessons on trying and not failing without even making an attempt in a difficult situation ! I am proud of you my dear 😊

I am sure your experience will help a lot of us out here (if not all!) be more positive in life...

I totally agree with your view on Soha as well.. All she wants is to be with both her parents... and this demand has not come out of the blue... she has seen/felt something that Dev and Sona are also not aware of which is why she demanded to live together.. And time will tell that she did the right thing.

Originally posted by: sowiee

Dear , don't take that much stress...

Every person has their own perspective towards a situation ... So let them have it.

We think that Soha isn't demanding rather she has a right to ask for.. so let it be..

Don't think much... Just be like the positive side u used to be...

Many wishes.

P.s. i m sorry that I m not responding to ur pm n posts, it's just that right now i m in exam preparation mood so no time for responding ... I hope u understand...Bye dear...