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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, PP. Watch the episode. Jatin is so sorted and nice, that he is the new definition of hot for me.

Of course, what Bhaiya wants matter. Bhaiya wants, Bhaiya gets. Baaki sabki marzi gayee bhad mein. 😆

Jo bhi Bhaiya ki man ki karta hain woh achcha. Baaki sab shaitan ka bachha. 😆

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Haaayyyeee... I see the name and I smile big... Jatin... Around Soha and Sona... 😳 I'm gonna watch the episode just for that...


Originally posted by: Push-pull

Looks like the majority of the audience liking The Dev Dixit shifting to Bose house just because Dev does it on his own to be with his daughter... If only he's been forced by Sonakshi 😆😆 Asking him to consider his daughter's feelings instead of his mother's but Dev prefers to consider his mother's feeling... Then all stand against Sona for forcing bechara Dev and influencing him against his love for his mother... All depends upon What Dev wants... Not what Soha wants... 😆😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shailu, chota packet bada dhamaka karegi. Dekh lena.

Alag house lenge? Woh kaise hoga? Tab drama to khatam. Easy solutions dekhna hain to real life hain naa. TV mein to naak ghumake hi pakadte hain. 😆

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Well tia chota packet making these 2 kids talk was positive sign and jatin is fuel to ignite fire in dev towards sona

Ish game plan started she will start it up anytime if she does dev might go furious side because it's his daughter who she is dealing with
Simple solution have a house near by cvs are not interested in making easy anything will be through ish
Chota packet made dev to say sorry hope she gives it to ishwari and rr one day

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pehle yeh batao ki ek 6 years old kaise adults ko convince karti hain ki flights ticket book karke apne bete ki shaadi chod ke, uske parents ke marzi ke khilaf, doosre shahar shift ho jaaye. Phir main aapke sawalon ka jawab deti hoon. 😆

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Kya 6 year ki bachi ko "NO" bolna Itna difficult hota hain kya😕😕

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Posted: 8 years ago
#64
Exactly. Kaun se desh mein grandparents kisike bachhe ko uthake doosre shahar shift ho jaate hain? Kal agar Soha bolegi ki ya to usko tattoo banane do warna woh apne friends ke parents ke saath Paris shift ho jayegi, to Dev aur Sona aise rondu shakal leke baithe rahenge? Mad or what?

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Ajeeb hai...

I wonder how kid rules over parent...and makers claim to be realistic...abhi joke lag raha hai ye to...!!


Only thing i liked is jr bose making baby dixit say sorry to sr bose...!!!!


Im bored of seeing dev and issueworry jealous of everyother thing in the world

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you. I agree. Bijoy has become overbearing and Asha seems to lose her personality sometimes. I am seriously surprised to see that she did not put her foot down. If my husband tells me that he will move to a different city with our grandkids because the grandkids say so, I'd book his appointment with a psychiatrist first for planning a move because a child said so and then take my grandkids to family counsellor along with my daughter who forgot how to be a parent.

Freedom is fine and dandy. But this is insane. Independence ka matlab lack of discipline nehin hain.

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

I have missed the last few epis including today 's . But please tell me this is a joke !! I fail to understand who is the grown-up here and who the child ! Did their brains get interchanged or something ? This is so very disappointing that the makers of this show have chosen the most cliched route to get the leads back toghether and the execution is even more brainless with a six year old literally putting a gun to the heads of 4 educated adults. I have often heard Sonakshi take pride in the fact that she let's her 6 year old take her own decisions but I never thought all that would lead to this . Thoroughly disappointed !

But fantastic review as usual Tia and like you pointed out Bijoy is trying to give competition to Ishwari . I am also annoyed with Asha ..she needs to come out of her fictional world and show some reaction. I am beginning to resent that ever present serene expression that she has on her face , no matter what the situation demands . If Bijoy tends to over react at all times then Asha is the epitome of 'under reaction ' .

Now waiting to see Ishwari 's reaction to all this.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly Gauri. It's hard to guess who is the parent and who is the child. Since when pampering children is synonymous with lack of discipline? Sometimes, parents need to be cruel to be kind. They are there to guide children the right way, not walk with noose around their neck by their kids.

@BOLD, Dev sochke apna muh kab kholta hain? Achha hua Sonakshi ne naa bola. Warna agar haan bolti aur Dev ghar jaake Ishwari se kehta, to Maata ko aate chakkar. Phir Dev wapas jaake Sona aur Soha ko bolta ke, Mummy ne permission nehin diya. Aur agar Soha poochti to bolta, "Kis haq se?"

Nehin re baba. Maaf karo. Dev babu ki baaton pe bharosa karna matlab apne forehead pe Gadha tattoo karwa lena.

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Good anaylsis Tia.

As much as I liked the episode as a viewer, I got to agree to your views regarding parenting.

Soha going to kolkata with Bijoy,Asha and Sona doing nothing about it ...its a bit too much to digest. I , as a parent, always put my foot down when my parents pamper my kid to the point of spoiling him. It is very natural for grandparents to pamper and it is also very natural for parents to draw the line and talk tough when sometimes your parents give in to absurd demands of your kid.

Since logic is never the USP of the show these days, I am not very surprised at how CVs have rushed the whole thing to bring Dev-Sona under one roof.

I liked Dev-Sona talking in a calm way. Particularly the way they talked on the pavement. Even though shot in a rush, it was beautifully done.

Golu is going to be the weapon for Vicky,GKB and Ish in future to reign in Dev.

Only yday I said Dev'll do anything for Soha, now he actually made a complete U-turn and asked Sona about getting back together for Soha...that was fast...very fast. It has not yet hit him or may be its his selective memory..that Ish s not ready to accept Sona back. Had he thought how will he convince his mom? Or is he going to buy a new house for Soha-Sona to stay in? Clearly Dev never ever thinks before making such big decisions. He takes it and then tries to wriggle out by finding temporary solutions. He has not yet considered Ishwari angle for his solution...even in Precap he'll probably take a hasty decision without thinking much.
All in all, I was happy to see a good epi. I'm liking their talks as parents. It shows some maturity. Also, Soha teaching Dev manners is a pleasure to watch.😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Gauri, Sonakshi tried to talk. But Dev was not interested or motivated to listen to her. He was more interested in ahem... something else. Then how will they solve their problems?

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Two things I wondered during the pavement scene

One, why could not Dev-Sona talk this way for their own problems? Should not they have tried atleast once?

Second, I was noticing their long nose...I mean naak lambi hai dono ki...almost ek jaisi nose...Shaheer and Erica🤣

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pehle parents No bolna to sikhle. Tab na Soha No sunna sikhegi. 😆

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

We need a sanitized version of pink for soha to teach her No means No!😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly Bucky. My grandparents also knew that while they can take decisions for me if my parents are away, they have to defer to my parents when they are around. Because I am my parents' child, not theirs.

That's why I was shocked to see how Bose family is behaving like brainless idiot around Soha. W*F...

Originally posted by: Bucky

Tia your posts are the saving grace. I just watched the Jatin and Dev's jealousy scene.

The episode was overall really good but what I didn't like was the way they presented it.

Agree that grandparents are the support system for the kids but that doesn't mean that they should act against the parents when what the parents are doing is right. Here comes into picture the funda of meddling.
What in Soha's case will happen is she'll try to run away from the problem and her parents lecturing on it by taking shelter under her grandparents shadow!

Who better than me to live in the same light. Mine is a joint family. But what I've seen is my grandparents have always tried to explain my POV to my parents ever since I was a child but never meddled in or taken the reins in their hands.

Agree with you. Pampering and grounding are both imp for a child's growth into a responsible adult.
Acc to me, Bijoy should've been a bit more responsible today.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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@BOLD, exactly Ranjita. That's exactly what I was trying to say. Children don't get option to not live with any parent unless the parents are abusive. Not everything is up to them to choose. They can choose to stay with one parent or another. But they can't choose not to live with any parents.

If tomorrow Soha throws the same tantrum to quit school will Sona allow it? Seriously?

Originally posted by: ranjitha

Your post is Bang On !

My husband's cousin had a privileged childhood, where he was given 10Rs for every kiss he blew to his parents. His Grandmom was ready to fall on someone's feet to get her favorite pota a job through influence. This was the height of pampering that he was brought up in.

Now that he is earning himself and does not need his parents to grant his demands, they mean nothing, literally nothing to him. Now they want us all to guide him to Sanity.. How ? Like how ? Is he to be blamed alone for his selfishness and inhuman behavior ?

What Dev and Sona are doing might please the people who are waiting for them to get up under one roof and share an Apple, but in real life, it creates a selfish, demanding monster kid. Soha was introduced to us as a matured 6 year old, who had a mind of her own. But this is not the Soha I would really appreciate. Kids, until they get a brain, a little big than a peanut, are supposed to live under the guidance of the parents.

There are hundreds of single parents out there. They all, for no damn reason in this world, can decide to come together, just because the kids wants to live with both parents.

I have seen my colleagues living with their kids alternate weeks or biweekly, but none of them actually go live in their spouse's house, but have their kid stay with them.

Halweshwari - > Did anyone feel she has started feeling jealous about Dev loving Soha and giving her time ???

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