Originally posted by: Shaavi
@bold Blue. Totally agree with you and this is the moral that Sona needs to realize. When she married Dev, she had to lose a part of being Bose and become a little bit of Dixit. Even though on the surface it looked like she did a lot of things to become part of Dixit family, she did them as a Bose and not really a Dixit(hope I made sense in what I am trying to convey). Sona during their argument on the streets during the bhaidhooj told Dev that since her family was honest, all problems were solved easily and also her family accepted everyone comfortably(her example of Elena and Saurabh's conversation on the dining table).
She took this as the framework in which a family was supposed to function to be happy and tried to implement the same in Dixit house. This is definitely a good idea, but where Sonakshi failed was take into account the characters of the members of Dixit family. She was just focused on her vision of converting Dixit family to Bose family without considering whether any of the Dixit family was ready for that or not.
When a person marries, the husband and wife become a team. As much as the husband needs to change and imbibe some qualities of his wife's family, the wife also should do the same for a happy family. It is all about give and take. Here Sona failed to "give" instead taking(Neha's return to IN) at times and gave when she had to "take". What I mean is during Neha's time what Dev needed the most was Sonakshi's support. She did "give" it in the beginning, but later on started "taking" without considering the effects of her actions on Dev or Dixit family.
Similarly she had to exercise her right as Dev's wife(take), but failed to do so and let Ishwari or GKB or any other members interfere with her marriage. As much as Dev needed to take a stand for Sonakshi, she needed to ensure that she was included as a part of Bose family. After a while she started taking her failures as an insult and started reacting to the same resulting her pride taking over.
But with Dev coming and living with Boses, she will see that Dev is not taking the insults to heart, that he is willing to let go of his ego for whom he considers family. In one of the episodes in Season 1, Sonakshi once comments to Dev saying "itna toh wahi juk saktha hai jo bahut oncha ho. Aaj aapka koi fault nahi that, phir bhi aapne maafi mangi". To which he replies "They are my family and I am ready to do anything for my family even if I need to let go of my ego to do that".
This will help both Dev and Sonakshi for when they will return to Dixit house where the next phase of story will begin with Ishwari's redemption. After Sonakshi was thrown out as nutritionist(season 1), Dev waited for 5 hrs in the cafe to convince Sonakshi to return and he tells that his maa is already feeling bad about it. He will also say "maamiji sey bhi baath hojayegi". This stay in Bose house is similar to the 5 hr wait in cafe. 😆 😆
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