Ishwari's character potrayal is an insult to all the good MIL's !!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am very unhappy the way they have shown Ishwari in such a poor light.

I just cannot believe a Mother can be so unbelievably bad. I am a Mother of 2 kids myself and even if I make my kids go to a restaurant of my choice, I feel bad that they are not happy. A Mother's happiness is really and truly in her children's happiness. And YES A Mother in Law's happiness is also in her son's and daughter in law's happiness. No Mother will want her son's married life to be destroyed like this. Even if her son's marriage is breaking, a Mother will want and try to help them reconcile!

Ishwari is not an insecure MIL. She is more like a pyscho person needing some serious counseling and help.

She destroyed her sons marriage!

She wants her granddaughter more so as to change her last name and raise her in a different way. I don't even see love for her grandchild. All I see is that it is my property and belongs to me! And the other reason is that me, my son and my grand child will now live happily forever!

She is so scary that had I not been married, I would almost be afraid to marry thinking that if my MIL is even 1% like Ishwari, I would rather stay single. Thankfully, this is not real! While it is true, that there may be not so good MILs out there, please remember there is Mother even in MIL. They are humans and they are women who has raised a child! Personally, the way Ishwari is portrayed in a so called realistic show, is not unacceptable to me.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari like ppl do exist seen a mother in law till her death never allowed her son to meet his wife and son
So this isn't fiction
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know ppl like her existed... The son and DIL got separated and they got back together after like 20 years once the MIL died due to natural causes. The Son was like Dev who will not say a word against his mother even though he loved his wife... could never stand by her.

basically MIL spectrum is pretty broad... there are MILs who are more accepting and treat their DILs as their own daughters from even before the marriage and then there are ppl like Ishwari who are at the other extreme of the spectrum... GKB etc fall somewhere with in spectrum.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It looks unreal but it's truth ..Sadly.. Neighbor of my aunt's house a lady who let not marry her two sons till they r in 40s..Then younger one got marry with his friend's sis (love marrige) ..And started to live separately with his wife..After two years elder one got marry ( pressure from elder sister) and now drama started..Mom never let even touch him to his wife for around 8-9 months..But then one fine day they find out she is pregnant..Mom started so much hungama..Even neighbors also got to know everything.. Eventually he has two kids ..But his behavior with wife and even kids are very bad..Then wife left home with kids but no one cared..Now mom-dad-son left only.. Financial problems also started.. Everyone in neighborhood slowly got to know about Fina problems.so Dil offered help(she has a nice job, I just don't know why she married to that useless)..But put condition that his husband has to live nicely with her and kids ..But mil rejected that offer..Said I don't want anyone between me and my son..Last year filled died within one month mil died ( because of starvation) but never allowed her dil stay with her son..Now son lives alone..After they died their relatives tried to patch up between son & dil but now she says she doesn't wanna come bake to him ..Now kids r big..Middle school kids..Son is alone ..

parents should not interfere in their kids life after some point..If they ask then give advice..Birds also let their babies fly into the sky and let them live their life but human 😕

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