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Bhaskar

@maharathikarna

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Last few days, i am quite amused to see fans reactions, to see sonakshi kicking dev and giving him tit for tat to support womens empowerment. In any successful relationship, there will be giver and a taker. The roles interchange amongst the partners in different moments and situations. In the given sequence after 7 years leap sonakshi is giver, dev is taker.

The students of psycology and management would know the celebrated book of eric berne. The games people play which talks about child, parent and adult states of each human being depending upon scenarios at different times. Currently dev is child sonakshi is parent. In another scenario, it will be vice versa. Only then would any relationship would be successful.

Else if each party is focused only on winning each time and not agree to lose. Then each relationship would end only in seperation. Be it lovers or friends or family.😊

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

So true!! This is why their marriage failed...Sonakshi was more of anchor for Dev ...but when she faced a crisis ( infertility ) she because the weak one...at that point in time Dev had to rise up ...but sadly that didn't happen...and their weakness became their enemies strength ...and slowly their relationship fell apart

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

this hasbeen true from beginning. Dev was always taker, ner giver.. IMO. one time, she needed him diring infertility, he could not be her strong support.. which resulted in Ishwari hitting the final hammer on that vulnerable relationship. Ishwari was always chipping away at Devakshi but wasnt successful until Sona went through a down state cause of relaity of her infertility and Dev's lies..If Dev had strength at that time, Devakshi coupd have made it through cause love was there! I hope Dev supports when it is needed again by both Sona and Soha this time.. to any outside force that negatively impacts their unit of 3!

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cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

Very nice post.

N i liked your reference of parent, child and adult egos. Its so apt for their situation.

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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Liked the Title of your thread very much...It's very true that the virtues like tolerance, perseverance, endurance, forgiveness etc. are very rare to be seen now-a-days...😔

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diyah_us

@diyah_us

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

i read an article posted here only in forum that dev will tell to soha to

tell her daadi that is eshwari that if soha has to enter jail then jailor

should let sona also stay with soha for which jailor will not agree. so that

means dev is so shit scared of eshwari that even now he wants a 6 year old

kid to help him meaning he can never grow a spine & the day he does will be

the last day of serial.

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Bhaskar

@maharathikarna

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: diyah_us
i read an article posted here only in forum that dev will tell to soha to
tell her daadi that is eshwari that if soha has to enter jail then jailor
should let sona also stay with soha for which jailor will not agree. so that
means dev is so shit scared of eshwari that even now he wants a 6 year old
kid to help him meaning he can never grow a spine & the day he does will be
the last day of serial.

Jailor ishwari was also sonakshi aka a loving single mother who has done everything for her childrens happiness at one point of time.😊. Its a different matter that she has become a control freak now and acts psycho from time to time due to her irrational fear of loosing her loved ones.