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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today Dev told Golu that he hates Sona because she hid Suhanna ... Okay fair enough I can buy that even though that office scene implied something else.
My question ... He knows his mom had a hand in Sona not being let into the house when she came with the baby ... His mom admits this herself (yes, she didn't know about the baby but I'm not sure that should have made a huge difference that nobody would have gone to see what Sona was here for ... Why didn't mama or Ishwari at least meet Sona?)
Why isn't Dev angry with his mom ... Before people bash me I'm not asking him to hate her or kick her out of his house or life ... But why isn't he angry with his mom for her role in this case? He doesn't shout her or show his angst towards her anymore like he used to in the beginning of the season. In fact he is a lot nicer to her now than he was before ...

So why no anger towards Ishwari, why doesn't he hold her responsible at least partial for this? Do the writers remember the office scene at all?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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thats always confusing
His mom played a big role separating them .Inspite of sona explaining things clearly,again blames sona.Frustated listening to him.After all that has happened,i expected him to confess his love and praise sona for how she brought up soha and that too not poisoning her mind
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even I feel the same , but the thing is that Dev is now so immune to ish acts and drama that he has started acting as though those things are invisible(after soha truth) , but with sona its totally different, first ish was with him for 7yrs, when sona was not there but now sona is in front of him, and he opening up all his past wounds, this also imply's that Dev loves sona because one always shows his or her angry towards the person they loved the most, and Dev loved sona the most in his life, and due to misunderstand created by red ish etc dev and sona separated, and also Dev thought sona betrayed him, but may be summer camp track will decrease the hate, the only things we can see is that Dev is trying to act or play blindfold with ish, he is trying not to see ish drama or purposely avoiding or catching ish drama
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I can relate to this Dev because I feel just like him about the situation.

Sonakshi's effort was not a whole hearted attempt and there was other ways to let him know about Soha .She knew he didn't know she was here with the baby and also knew she did not hear him instruct the watchman so assuming Dev doesn't want to know about the baby was wrong .Before people jump on me with the same "get out " prenup issue .She didn't have to go to him again and could have dropped a email or text informing the same n asking him to come n meet his daughter.More than that what took her 1.5yrs to reveal this .She could have informed him when she knew about pregnancy.Even if she informed him when Soha was 6 months he would have missed his child's birth.Unless she had the reasons like revenge or tit for tat or insecurity it makes no sense why she hid about her pregnancy for so long .


Coming to Ishwari , I had said the same when the scene was hired and I am still gonna stick to it .I won't blame Ishwari completely for the entire mess .She did not know Sona was here with the baby .I only saw a possessive mother who didn't want Dev to go back to his bitter life .I am not saying she was right in taking a decision on his behalf but blaming her for the complete mess is wrong .Expecting Dev to keep Soha away from her is cruel in my opinion.Dev is not fighting with her but that doesn't mean he is happy or ok with what Ishwari did .I feel he does understands where his mom was coming from so though he is disappointed he doesn't hate her . On the other hand Sona not only hid Soha from him but also made him sign a document asking him to give up his rights on Soha so I see why holds Sona responsible for the mess

In my opinion, Sonakshi is the one to be blamed here and Ishwari has a small role .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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We all know that he is lying. Dev doesnt hate Sona instead loves her a lot. I dont have the prob even if he says 100 times that he hates her bcoz lie is a lie no matter told how many times ever... but ya what troubled me was the reason. She wanted to twll him the truth 7 yrs back... n ya maybe she should have told him when she had been working with him. But still that shouldnt be the reason for him telling that he hates her since Ishwari was responsible for it... or atleast 60% responsible (agree with yyy's post that Sona's effort wasnt that of whole hearted)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

I can relate to this Dev because I feel just like him about the situation.

Sonakshi's effort was not a whole hearted attempt and there was other ways to let him know about Soha .She knew he didn't know she was here with the baby and also knew she did not hear him instruct the watchman so assuming Dev doesn't want to know about the baby was wrong .Before people jump on me with the same "get out " prenup issue .She didn't have to go to him again and could have dropped a email or text informing the same n asking him to come n meet his daughter.More than that what took her 1.5yrs to reveal this .She could have informed him when she knew about pregnancy.Even if she informed him when Soha was 6 months he would have missed his child's birth.Unless she had the reasons like revenge or tit for tat or insecurity it makes no sense why she hid about her pregnancy for so long .


Coming to Ishwari , I had said the same when the scene was hired and I am still gonna stick to it .I won't blame Ishwari completely for the entire mess .She did not know Sona was here with the baby .I only saw a possessive mother who didn't want Dev to go back to his bitter life .I am not saying she was right in taking a decision on his behalf but blaming her for the complete mess is wrong .Expecting Dev to keep Soha away from her is cruel in my opinion.Dev is not fighting with her but that doesn't mean he is happy or ok with what Ishwari did .I feel he does understands where his mom was coming from so though he is disappointed he doesn't hate her . On the other hand Sona not only hid Soha from him but also made him sign a document asking him to give up his rights on Soha so I see why holds Sona responsible for the mess

In my opinion, Sonakshi is the one to be blamed here and Ishwari has a small role .


Okay I don't agree with everything you mention but I can certainly understand your point ... I think lack of communication and assumptions between everyone is the cause for this mess. I don't hold ishwari responsible for everything but I wonder why she didn't even check to see why Sona was there? How come Dev didn't ask her why she didn't meet with Sona instead of turning her away without meeting anyone in the house?

Also it goes against Devs character to not check up on Sona ... Even when they were broken up he was aware of her circumstances so why not this time around?

Like I said I don't expect Dev to hate ishwari and I don't think he should keep the kid away from her, but how come he never questions or corrects his mom? It sometimes feels like he goads her on or encourages her insecurities
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev doesn't hate sonakshi.. we all know that. but the problem with Dev is... he is a manchild who never takes responsibility for his own actions and his part in all the mess... He conveniently blames Sonakshi and in the forgotten beginning of Season 2.. his mom! Instead of finding out what happened to the loveofhislife, that 7% chance, he easily got busy with alcohol and womanizing and bike riding and acting and wearing cool clothes😆
the truth has been disclosed to him. nothing is hidden now. He has physically, verbally, emotionally berated Sonakshi for keeping Soha away. but he is still on his HATE mode... Instead of focusing on his daughter and enjoying these moments with her, being proud of the fact that his daughter is sooo adorable & caring & loving & smart & cute... thanks to Sonakshi's upbringing... HE is busy telling his nephew... I hate Sonakshi cause she didn't tell me about Soha... blah blabh blah, boohoo, boohoo, boohoo...

ma & betaa.. same same.. always looking for the negative instead of enjoying the good that's in front of you😡 always thinking of yesterday vs. making their tomorrow better!

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