Wo khwahish bhi adhoora rah gaya.... - Page 4

Originally posted by: cscs

Ooh i never thought about the previous dialogue about awkward silence.😲Thanks for reminding.

Actually i feel that awkward silence was so natural. After meeting after 7 years all they have done is fighting or rescuing each other or showing tashan. It was one moment when have nothing to do from the above mentioned things. ATM they were Soha's parents and somewhere deep inside Sona was appreciating Dev's efforts of making kadha and Dev was also happy that Sona agreed to giving kadha to Soha. And most importantly Soha was fine now. I think they are coming to common consensus as Soha's parents.

On lighter note, they were sitting like would be groom and bride for arranged marriage.😆They were blushing and avoiding each other's gaze. That awkward silence also meant so much in Devakshi's present relationship status.

Originally posted by: FLW70

@ Grace. Nice analysis...I m not so good with words but trying to put my thoughts

Thank you FLW70.

Generally we say respect Aise hi nahi milti...kamaani padti hai...

True...and who else knows it better than me...when I, unlike Sona who was highly respected by Dev, had to earn it from my hubby first & then my in laws and it didn't happen in one day. How would you have felt when after a fight with your MIL for insulting your parents, you are hearing her asking your hubby why he had complained about your marriage and that too on the day your son was born. Feeling shocked...right. From being in such a pathetic state to now enjoying all his care & love for me, my parents and our son, I had to pass through various phases before achieving this. I had to have a lot of patience & endurance to sometimes step down in terms of my self-respect, sometimes to be deaf to some comments, sometimes to be understanding my hubby's side even when it hurt me and above all believing that it is God who chose my hubby to be my better half. Out of my 18yrs of marriage, all these kept on repeating for 8 years; but as I believed that it is God who united us, I relied on Him only, as I didn't want to share anything with my parents & hurt them. As a result of my prayers, when our son was almost 1yr old, God sent a praying man to us who rebuked my hubby for the ill-feelings he had about me and it worked. But, sometimes when his male ego used to overcome him or when my MIL used to mention about some better proposals that came for him, his comments used to hurt me and it continued until a major incident happened in the 9th year of our marriage. As usual we had a fight and it went to a level that I couldn't take it any more. Before taking a decision, as usual, I went to pray where I was shown that even when the change had happened in my hubby's heart, I hadn't accept it completely and it was due to my bitterness that all these years I was getting hurt with even a simple comment he would have said jokingly. That moment I decided to ward off all my bitterness and forgive my hubby for all he had done till then. And it worked!!!!!!. From that day, till now I am enjoying a wonderful married life and it is not an exaggeration to say that since then I haven't felt bad on any of my hubby's comments, as I knew and trusted him and whenever there were talks about better proposals I also would join them pulling the legs of my hubby...😆 I lam now his confidante, his partner in crime, his friend & everything; but not a disciplining and nagging principal...😊. And our son is my hubby's life. unko ek karoj bhi nahin aane dega...😊

Originally posted by: FLW70

@ Grace...take a bow...i admire your patience, faith n belief..n thanks that my post made you pour your heart..out.🤗

Just day before yesterday i made one post about how people are complaining about negativity in forum...but i feel rather we get to know so many different perspectives ...its indeed an enriching experience for me...

Wishing you a very fulfilling happy life

Thanks for replying.

Originally posted by: Drcs

wowoowww...grace very matured analysis...being independent doesn't mean you have to be Opaque in relationships...this is the issue with Sona...seeking help from your spouse doesn't make you a doormat...may be we are old school of thought...

Originally posted by: grace4317

Sona...I like your version too...magar ye scene me aisa lagta tha ki u donon ko bahut kuch baatein karni hai;lekin kuch kah nehi paaya...aisawaala uncomfortable feeling aa raha tha muje.....isaliye muje episode 148 waala scene yaad aaya...😊

Originally posted by: FLW70

@ Grace...ok..my bad...thanks for sharing your experience

What to say...i m married for almost 24 years now...but still an outsider for my in-laws...😆 initial years were very bad...

Only saving grace lill bit of husbands support...but made peace with the situation...no regrets about anything...just one bahut sara waqt haath se nikal gaya...i m an architect but was not allowed to work almost for 15 years...

Life is too small...i definitely believe in institution of marriage n long lasting relationships...but i feel today girls should not go through these hardships

Originally posted by: gmgi

Grace beautiful post.👏

But my take on that scene was quite different.😳

There was an undercurrent of something sensuous. They both were looking uncomfortable but not uneasy. He was gazing at her as if he was captivated and she was trying to avoid his intense stare but kept looking back with a shy smile playing on her lips. Soha's 'aachoo' interrupted something that was going on and when they were alone for the first time after that in the true sense, both couldn't escape from what they were feeling and they didn't even want to. And how can you hide from the only person who have made you feel alive, cherished and loved and know what you feel inside without uttering a word. The back ground score played was the same one when they were in the 'attracted phase'. May be I have permanently shifted to the GM side.☺️ If so plz bare with me.😆