I was shocked by my mother reply

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Posted: 8 years ago
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My mother not watch TV because we have no cable connection
She used to watch DD national
But recently she shifted to my father place as we both children are in our respective college
Few days before leap only my father got TV in my home
And tomorrow I was chatting with my mother on phone and on conversation I asked her what she watch
She replied she watch krpkab
And then I said I am not liking the story and you know what she replied ya that Dev Dixit is mummas boy na and how her mother is I can't understand her
She said we don't have experience with these type of drama as I have no MIL
And she was praising sona and said she is something that everybody should learn from as a mother as a daughter and even bijoy
I was beyond shocked by her response because she is also those type of woman who believe in living with husband no matter what so I expected different response from her
But yesterday I understood with time she and her thought has even grown and she also now believe that we girl should live to the fullest
She who started to watch show only before someday of leap got to understand that what kind of person Dev and ishwari is as she is no feminist type
She totally believe in that female should work in relationship and try to mend ways and should accept what come
She even understood that what type of father bijoy is and she loved him as a father
And we forum people educated and independent are not able to understand this much
We accept or not but CVS even are trying to show Bose and sonakshi as perfect and dixit's and especially ishwari highly flawed
So I don't understand why we are trying to justify character who are beyond redemption till now
My mother is also totally against infertility treatment because she even know that these type of treatment take the life of many female by reading daily newspaper and watching something around
ANYWAY I DONT KNOW THE REASON OF MY MOTHER TOTALLY I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED BY HER RESPONSE YESTERDAY THAT HOW COULD SHE NOT LIKE DEV AND ISHWARI
SHE ALSO UNDERSTOOD THERE IS NO LOVE FROM SOHA FROM IAHWARI SIDE AT LEAST AFTER THOSE HO HO MUSIC EVEN AND EVEN NOT LIKED DEV HO AGREED FOR FIRTILITY TREATMENT AND NOW ONLY SAYING MERA HAQ MERA HAQ
My mother said if your father was in that place then even would be happy that my daughter has been given such a nice upbringing and is happy and is loved by all
My father today even he love me alot but I am not attached to my father not really talk to him as I don't feel comfortable talking with him and we have very wide communication and thought gap but he never feel jealous of my mother or even burden me with some emotional blackmail or scold me that why I not talk whenever I feel like talking to him I give one missed call only and he call me with joy and not a single complain because he know that I am not comfortable to him talking due to omy childhood as he was very strict to me as I was first child and he wanted me to study or grow faster and due to that I wasnever able to mingle
But he is always happy only in knowing I am happy and well and love me alot
SORREY I ONLY WANTED TO SHARE MY MOTHER RESPONSE WHO IS A COMMON INDIAN LADY OR TRP AUNTY WHAT WE CALL IN SHORT ITS NOT MY RESPONSE

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I understand Bijoy totally Bcoz my Father is exactly like Bijoy.I used to watch the show with my bro nd Mom so my Dad also watch few epi sometimes.Dev always careless attitude towards Sona's insults irked him most.Than my father asked me why u watch something u won't believe or u can't learn anything.Nd When Dev accidently slapped bijoy My Mom nd bro stopped watching & they warned me not to continue watching it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sameera776

I understand Bijoy totally Bcoz my Father is exactly like Bijoy.I used to watch the show with my bro nd Mom so my Dad also watch few epi sometimes.Dev always careless attitude towards Sona's insults irked him most.Than my father asked me why u watch something u won't believe or u can't learn anything.Nd When Dev accidently slapped bijoy My Mom nd bro stopped watching & they warned me not to continue watching it.

Exactly yaar I also don't understand people saying ishwari=bijoy
Bijoy is totally a normal father and soha a normal girl who enjoy and has sense of right and wrong and has innocence even
Yesterday some members were saying that also has very casual relationship there is no love I don't understand then what only ishwari love Dev or Dev love soha if that is love then I will never want any type of love in my life I will want only casual relationship

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Posted: 8 years ago
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nice post ..

as per my experience on IF i understood the analysis ,the posts reflects the maturity of the person ...am not intended to hurt anybody
and abt mamma's boy...am mother of two boys and when i met doctors they always adviced me to allow my kids to grow independently ...from the year of 1 and half the kids should eat on their own and when they grow up they should ready by themself as early as possible...it helps to function their brains and physically be active and will develop their analytical skills...should not pamper much ...

and Sona told soha to change her clothes and be ready for class..even my 4 years boy knows how to dress and eating by himself ..
am not finding any wrong on Sona's upbringing
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanishank

nice post ..

as per my experience on IF i understood the analysis ,the posts reflects the maturity of the person ...am not intended to hurt anybody
and abt mamma's boy...am mother of two boys and when i met doctors they always adviced me to allow my kids to grow independently ...from the year of 1 and half the kids should eat on their own and when they grow up they should ready by themself as early as possible...it helps to function their brains and physically be active and will develop their analytical skills...should not pamper much ...

and Sona told soha to change her clothes and be ready for class..even my 4 years boy knows how to dress and eating by himself ..
am not finding any wrong on Sona's upbringing

Thanks
I am also not able to understand what soha is lacking in her life
Yesterday even when bijoy shared something they say it's emotional blackmailing
I see only one thing soha is very frank about her thought and is very vocal
She is not afraid what other will feel
And she share good bond with her mother like she tell her everything about her school and even about friends how frankly
She is very frank honest responsible disciplined and innocent with little maturity
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Posted: 8 years ago
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most families are like bose's. Eshwari ,i have no words. she and dev do and act as they wish. I can appreciate radha rani,she talks openly,showing her villainess nature,Eshwari makes me puke.Such a grown up son,still she wants to control his life .She goes to his office too.Very funny and weird.If u closely listen to bijoy,he utters the truth and he has judged ,both ,correctly.Hope ,as the serial proceeds,dev is taught what life is,by his own beti.
waiting for suhana to expose her dadi.

haan,i love asha's character,an excellent lady ,who calms down her husband,talks like a friend to her daughter and a good grandma. she is ,what we mothers are today(most cases)let me not forget ish mata😆.
asha isa modern day woman,mother,grandma.my favourite character👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: purplegrapes

most families are like bose's. Eshwari ,i have no words. she and dev do and act as they wish. I can appreciate radha rani,she talks openly,showing her villainess nature,Eshwari makes me puke.Such a grown up son,still she wants to control his life .She goes to his office too.Very funny and weird.If u closely listen to bijoy,he utters the truth and he has judged ,both ,correctly.Hope ,as the serial proceeds,dev is taught what life is,by his own beti.

waiting for suhana to expose her dadi.

haan,i love asha's character,an excellent lady ,who calms down her husband,talks like a friend to her daughter and a good grandma. she is ,what we mothers are today(most cases)let me not forget ish mata😆.
asha isa modern day woman,mother,grandma.my favourite character👍🏼

Asha is perfect as she got perfect and loving mil and bijoy was somewhat rude is starting I think with her but her mil was totally supportive unlike Dev and ishwari who both was same
Someone in the forum analysed how sona want to become asha daughter not bijoy and DVR said get out to bijoy daughter not his wife
I found it completely ridiculous
Dev fallen the day when he agreed for firtility treatment
And here someone is saying Dev done favour as he not told the truth of infirtility to sona otherwise she would not have married ever and would not have given birth right
I am damn sure they will even favour ishwari that due to her firtility treatment she gave birth
It's really ridiculous how people justify people the act of ishwari who said her to do sex to produce baby it's like operating some machine
I am sure if sona would not have been able to become mother even after that she would have gone to their bedroom or asked the doctor to check that they are doing right process because I have seen one in my neighbour who asked doctor for the same
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaushiv13


Exactly yaar I also don't understand people saying ishwari=bijoy
Bijoy is totally a normal father and soha a normal girl who enjoy and has sense of right and wrong and has innocence even
Yesterday some members were saying that also has very casual relationship there is no love I don't understand then what only ishwari love Dev or Dev love soha if that is love then I will never want any type of love in my life I will want only casual relationship

Love isn't everything.If u can't respect someone or stands beside her than wht types of love is it.I never saw Dev supports or respects Sona's dicission when it doesn't favour him or His family.He supports Sona when it is in his favour
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaushiv13


Thanks
I am also not able to understand what soha is lacking in her life
Yesterday even when bijoy shared something they say it's emotional blackmailing
I see only one thing soha is very frank about her thought and is very vocal
She is not afraid what other will feel
And she share good bond with her mother like she tell her everything about her school and even about friends how frankly
She is very frank honest responsible disciplined and innocent with little maturity

Even I don't find anything wrong in Soha's upbringing.I would love to have a child like Soha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sameera776

Love isn't everything.If u can't respect someone or stands beside her than wht types of love is it.I never saw Dev supports or respects Sona's dicission when it doesn't favour him or His family.He supports Sona when it is in his favour

I will always support sona her every action and even bijoy but the day if they show GB like Dev tried to contact but it was bijoy who prevented the contact and that's why he given up like how they justified sona that she made one attempt however she has not done so then also I would have supported her as she was wronged and tortured everytime by Dev and the Dixit
But I will not support bijoy that instance as it was sona discion not bijoy if Dev tried to contact

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