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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said...completely agree with u
Kuch jyada hi ho gya sonakshi side SE...now he have to proof that soha will be safe with him...seriously
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with you. That even applies to Ishwari in her initial struggling days. She raised only one son and forgot to raise rather care for her other three daughters. So she was a good mother (that's what Dev considered) only to Dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhank


haha I m here only sri.🤗..making post after long time comenting on others post...

thanks btw..show is nonsense now...just tp..😡

exactly soha is 6 or 60??


I don't remember but ek ad aata hai "Papa se achhe Papa inhe hum banate hain"
Ab jis cheez ka woh ad hai ,Dev ko woh khareed Lena chahiye...
Maine toh kabhi 6yrs ke bachhe ko aisa bolte nahi dekha Na suna.
That's the reason why we like Golu more than Soha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think that statement , "when papa scores full marks then you can call me papa" was told to Suhana to make her understand that she could call him papa when she was able to accept him as her father .

What the writers wanted to convey was , Suhana could call him papa only when she was convinced of him being her dad.

Imagine someone just walks into your life and your mom says he is your father how would you feel. Can it be accepted that soon. I wont . For a relationship to build , it takes time and one needs to give time.

Yeah , she can call him papa just for the sake of her mom...but just because she calls him papa doesnt mean that she will accept him as her papa. And by her calling him papa doesnt mean he will be perfect father from the day1. In fact there is nothing called perfect relationship. Its all ones action and the others reaction.

When a lady is pregnant, that 9 months time she gets prepared mentally for the role of a mother. So does the others in the family for their respective roles as father, grandparents etc. But even after the preparation when the child is born , initial few months are very difficult.

So I wouldnt blame suhana for her act . Glad that Dev understood his daughters mind and gave her time and space to accept him as her father.


And this has nothing to do with Sonakshi's perfectionist nature. For , Soha a father should be like Bijoy...because that is the image of father she has seen from her childhood.

We might argue that Sonakshi didnt tell about the child , but he could have called her once to know how she was ? And Soha was smart enough to ask why he never bothered to call her mother...

I feel Soha is happy to see Dev who is somewhat close to what she had thought her father would be...but she not in a state of mind that she can accept him as her father...primarily because she has seen the saddness and fear on her mom's face when there is talk about her dad. So she is not confident on his character ...and her thought is if he could ditch her mother , then he could do the same to her...

Trust in a relationship doesnt come from day1 ...needs to be given time..
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Well said...completely agree with u

Kuch jyada hi ho gya sonakshi side SE...now he have to proof that soha will be safe with him...seriously


Kuch rang sonakshi bijoy k aide bhi😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I think that statement , "when papa scores full marks then you can call me papa" was told to Suhana to make her understand that she could call him papa when she was able to accept him as her father .

What the writers wanted to convey was , Suhana could call him papa only when she was convinced of him being her dad.

Imagine someone just walks into your life and your mom says he is your father how would you feel. Can it be accepted that soon. I wont . For a relationship to build , it takes time and one needs to give time.

Yeah , she can call him papa just for the sake of her mom...but just because she calls him papa doesnt mean that she will accept him as her papa. And by her calling him papa doesnt mean he will be perfect father from the day1. In fact there is nothing called perfect relationship. Its all ones action and the others reaction.

When a lady is pregnant, that 9 months time she gets prepared mentally for the role of a mother. So does the others in the family for their respective roles as father, grandparents etc. But even after the preparation when the child is born , initial few months are very difficult.

So I wouldnt blame suhana for her act . Glad that Dev understood his daughters mind and gave her time and space to accept him as her father.


And this has nothing to do with Sonakshi's perfectionist nature. For , Soha a father should be like Bijoy...because that is the image of father she has seen from her childhood.

We might argue that Sonakshi didnt tell about the child , but he could have called her once to know how she was ? And Soha was smart enough to ask why he never bothered to call her mother...

I feel Soha is happy to see Dev who is somewhat close to what she had thought her father would be...but she not in a state of mind that she can accept him as her father...primarily because she has seen the saddness and fear on her mom's face when there is talk about her dad. So she is not confident on his character ...and her thought is if he could ditch her mother , then he could do the same to her...

Trust in a relationship doesnt come from day1 ...needs to be given time..


Dev dint call...he knew she can't b mother .can he tel this to Suha???..did sona call dev personally???btw m not blaming any1 ..but asking for d test n scores didn't go well with me..cvs r setting wrong stds..bs. u agree or not..it's stupid
Edited by dhank - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I think that statement , "when papa scores full marks then you can call me papa" was told to Suhana to make her understand that she could call him papa when she was able to accept him as her father .

What the writers wanted to convey was , Suhana could call him papa only when she was convinced of him being her dad.

Imagine someone just walks into your life and your mom says he is your father how would you feel. Can it be accepted that soon. I wont . For a relationship to build , it takes time and one needs to give time.

Yeah , she can call him papa just for the sake of her mom...but just because she calls him papa doesnt mean that she will accept him as her papa. And by her calling him papa doesnt mean he will be perfect father from the day1. In fact there is nothing called perfect relationship. Its all ones action and the others reaction.

When a lady is pregnant, that 9 months time she gets prepared mentally for the role of a mother. So does the others in the family for their respective roles as father, grandparents etc. But even after the preparation when the child is born , initial few months are very difficult.

So I wouldnt blame suhana for her act . Glad that Dev understood his daughters mind and gave her time and space to accept him as her father.


And this has nothing to do with Sonakshi's perfectionist nature. For , Soha a father should be like Bijoy...because that is the image of father she has seen from her childhood.

We might argue that Sonakshi didnt tell about the child , but he could have called her once to know how she was ? And Soha was smart enough to ask why he never bothered to call her mother...

I feel Soha is happy to see Dev who is somewhat close to what she had thought her father would be...but she not in a state of mind that she can accept him as her father...primarily because she has seen the saddness and fear on her mom's face when there is talk about her dad. So she is not confident on his character ...and her thought is if he could ditch her mother , then he could do the same to her...

Trust in a relationship doesnt come from day1 ...needs to be given time..



Soha's way of thinking is the issue here .I won't blame the child but the environment in which she was brought up is the culprit.All she has heard till now is her papa is not right for her mom ,he did not keep his mother happy .What the child doesn't know is her mother is equally responsible for keeping her dad happy .Its goes both ways ...

Regarding calling Sona there is no obligation on Dev to call his ex wife who walked on him .Whether to reconcile or not is left to the couple and if they wish not to then it's not an issue .Sona never called Dev to enquire how he was coping up after the breakup and he is not obligated to call him but when she found she was pregnant it became her responsibility to let him know as she was carrying his child .When she came to meet Dev she came as Soha's mother not as his wife and again i believe Sonakshi's effort to let him know Soha was half hearted attempt.

Lastly,whether Soha accepts Dev or not is another question but calling her father as Mr Dixit is not what 6yrs old do .She could have continued calling him Golu ke BigCha ...even for Dev it's not easy for him to meet his daughter after 6yrs .Wish CVs had highlighted his pain .
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhank


Dev dint call...he knew she can't b mother .can he tel this to Suha???..did sona call dev personally???btw m not blaming any1 ..but asking for d test n scores didn't go well with me..cvs r setting wrong stds..bs. u agree or not..it's stupid



I thought the concept of acceptance was to big for a child to understand , so he just put it in simpler word for her age.

In a way acceptance is like a test it self...in every relationship to gain acceptance and trust one needs to go thru diff kind of challenges..a child to trust you , you need to gain his or her confidence...just because we are parents they are not going to trust us...

For example if a mother keeps hitting her child and lies to her child ...do you think the child will trust her mother...no she wont ...here the mother has failed to meet the expectations of the child. Kids do gauge their parents ...if a parent cannot behave well then we cant expect the kid to accept the parent...they might call mom/dad etc...but at heart they will never accept the relationship

Dev wanted that true acceptance from Soha...thats why he said that ...so when she calls him papa , he will know that she accepted him completely as a father...and he is willing to wait and work hard to prove that ...which almost all parents do...

I liked the fact that Dev was willing to take this challenge...after all parenting is one task from has no retirement and one needs to work hard too...but while trying to be the best parent ...it helps individuals to be better people too!! So I am hoping for some changes in Dev too !!
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice Post Dhan👏

I too agree And I really Don't like the behaviour of so called Perfect Bose Family Behaviour towards Dev.😡

Bijoy and Perfect Father ...Does not go well in a single sentence...Its a Joke.

He too is just like Ishwari.

And when sona said that all this things upsets Baba, when she is thinking about her father then why Dev should not think About Ishwari.

I really get pissed off by this double standard rules for Dev and Sona.

Sometimes Sona only tell she is a little girl and sometimes she only feel proud that in this age she is strong enough to take her own decision.
So first Sona need to convince herself whether soha is a 6 year old kid or an adult.

And why everytime Dev only have to prove himself.
If their marriage does not work its not Dev fault...Sona too is equally responsible she too didn't made an effort to save their marriage.

As we all Knew Devakshi is the end game but this time I want Sona to Come to Dev.

And Yesterday Bijoy face is a bliss to watch when Soha praises Dev.😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy




Soha's way of thinking is the issue here .I won't blame the child but the environment in which she was brought up is the culprit.All she has heard till now is her papa is not right for her mom ,he did not keep his mother happy .What the child doesn't know is her mother is equally responsible for keeping her dad happy .Its goes both ways ...

Regarding calling Sona there is no obligation on Dev to call his ex wife who walked on him .Whether to reconcile or not is left to the couple and if they wish not to then it's not an issue .Sona never called Dev to enquire how he was coping up after the breakup and he is not obligated to call him but when she found she was pregnant it became her responsibility to let him know as she was carrying his child .When she came to meet Dev she came as Soha's mother not as his wife and again i believe Sonakshi's effort to let him know Soha was half hearted attempt.

Lastly,whether Soha accepts Dev or not is another question but calling her father as Mr Dixit is not what 6yrs old do .She could have continued calling him Golu ke BigCha ...even for Dev it's not easy for him to meet his daughter after 6yrs .Wish CVs had highlighted his pain .


Agree with you.
The environment that Soha Received and the comments she heard on her father make her think like that.

And i always find Boses Biased they have some rules for others and some rules for themselves.The best example i can give is the bridal dress only.

And morever if sona really want to inform Dev about Soha then she should have inform him when she came to knew about her pregnancy and not after having 6 months baby with you.so it was totally half hearted.
Here I neglect the technological aspects which Sona does not know😆😆

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