May b i am the only one! - Page 3

Soha told Dev that she remember very little of her first 2 yrs. I want Soha to mention to Dev from those 2 yrs that all she remembers was Sona's super-busyness and their living in a small place somewhere etc and struggling with managing a big family like theirs.


Let it come through Soha and let Soha ask Dev why he never bothered to check on her mother during those days.

Its jus been sec or third day for him..He still reeling in the fact that he has a daughter which he wasnt aware of..long 6 yrs. Cmon yaar its so pretty normal...he is in a co plete emotional mess!

Originally posted by: dbrk

Yes, may b u r right! Probably this is what Jatin was talking about that Dev can handle only one relationship at a time. But i always get this feel that everytime a realtion comes in between and Sonakshi takes a backseat in Dev's life.

Even Dev has taken back seat in Sonakshi's life ..we got to see atleast Dev's emotions he admitted that he is still affected by Sonakshi but Sonakshi has been hiding it too strongly..so its very parallel equation..also after 7 long years he has met his daughter his long lost wish got fulfilled ..the relationship which is broken and is lost somewhere with time ...the only connection they have is Soha and every parent world starts revolving around their child..what wrong if his focus is on Soha and she is his reason of happiness she is his only love..if you found a fahtr's love for his daughter shallow then thats really sad

Sorry to say but every time Dev's love is questioned.why..I fail to understand..why never question Sonakshi's love for him :S ..He isnt running after her he isnt getting jealous..that means she doesnt exist for him..

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

You are not the only one. I too felt this vacuum in the flow. No feelings for Sona?

Also, today's episode seemed to be very distracting and disconnected from the earlier episodes

Jab Dev Sonakshi ke peechey bhagey toh problem nahi bhagta toh problem he doesnt love Sonakshi..😳 I fail to undertstand

Please explain why it was disconnected and distracting 😕

Originally posted by: sjain

Even Dev has taken back seat in Sonakshi's life
..we got to see atleast Dev's emotions he admitted that he is still
affected by Sonakshi but Sonakshi has been hiding it too strongly..so
its very parallel equation..also after 7 long years he has met his
daughter his long lost wish got fulfilled ..the relationship which is
broken and is lost somewhere with time ...the only connection they have
is Soha and every parent world starts revolving around their child..what
wrong if his focus is on Soha and she is his reason of happiness she is
his only love..if you found a fahtr's love for his daughter shallow
then thats really sad

Sorry to say but every time Dev's love is
questioned.why..I fail to understand..why never question Sonakshi's love
for him :S ..He isnt running after her he isnt getting jealous..that
means she doesnt exist for him..

See my issue is the way Dev treated Sona that night was really wrong. Making her run around in the night, calling her a lier, accusing her. We justified his actions saying he din know the reality but what haschanged after knowing the reality.
Sonakshi was forced not to think about Dev and move on. In one night she was left on road to fend for herself and her family. After she was sent back by Dixits when she came with Soha being told that she should never come back, she was further forced to not to think about Dev.
Sonakshi's love for Dev has been always a support in his life, even that night after Dev did n said what he said to Sonakshi, knowing that he has again been cheated by Ishwari, Sonakshi understood his pain and dropped everything against him calmed him and supported him.

For me not even a thought about Sonakshi on Dev's part is little ununderstandable. That's y i felt it shallow. Actually its like what Soha told " jo meri mumma ko happy nahi rakh paaye woh mujhe kaise happy rakenge". I m not anti Dev but one thing about Dev that he has never stood for Sonakshi bothers me.

indeed the point is

Originally posted by: dbrk

See my issue is the way Dev treated Sona that night was really wrong. Making her run around in the night, calling her a lier, accusing her. We justified his actions saying he din know the reality but what haschanged after knowing the reality.
Sonakshi was forced not to think about Dev and move on. In one night she was left on road to fend for herself and her family. After she was sent back by Dixits when she came with Soha being told that she should never come back, she was further forced to not to think about Dev.
Sonakshi's love for Dev has been always a support in his life, even that night after Dev did n said what he said to Sonakshi, knowing that he has again been cheated by Ishwari, Sonakshi understood his pain and dropped everything against him calmed him and supported him.

For me not even a thought about Sonakshi on Dev's part is little ununderstandable. That's y i felt it shallow. Actually its like what Soha told " jo meri mumma ko happy nahi rakh paaye woh mujhe kaise happy rakenge". I m not anti Dev but one thing about Dev that he has never stood for Sonakshi bothers me.

Firstly he was angry he didnt know truth plus he felt cheated and backstabbed so I didnt find his actions wrong his actions were purely out of his anger..not because he had some evil intentions ..he expressed his emotions his hurt which was very valid according to me

What can change..he isnt pressurizing Sonakshi for Soha he isnt forcing Soha for anything..they can not get back together for Soha or they can not reconcile just in matter of minutes..

Okay what happened the night 7 years back... for me they both were making mistakes which led to break up wont go in details ..there were lots of misunderstanding between them and they paid price of it..yes Sonakshi suffered when she was on roads with family she hated Dev and Dev hated her for leaving him all alone with out looking back once (their own reasons for hate) ...second when she came back again she was asked go away and (Dev was not aware of it) ..ok she thought Dev told her to go but he didnt and probably developed more hate for him which wasnt correct because ideally he never asked her to go away..so she had been hating him for wrong reason here..situations forced both to get away and move on in their life..its wasn't just Sonakshi..who faced terrible circumstances even Dev did..in past 7 years they both had their own set of complaints and problems..which they faced and fought with

It is his support because he has been surviving with it for last 7 years..sorry to say but that confrontation night they both understood each other..he instantly realized it wasn't Sonakshi's fault his eyes showed immense hurt and guilt..it was very much visible similarly she felt he wasnt in state to say anything.. she supported him because she realized he was not aware of the fact for which she was blaming him and its good I appreciate her for that she controlled the situation making things peaceful and calm..he has always been vulnerable one emotionally and the kind of strength they have in supporting each other in being for each other is commendable..even ATM their relationship is so strained but they end up understanding each other like no one ever can..

Yes he couldnt keep her happy..they both couldnt actually..but now standing up for Sonakshi is no question because they are separated once the custody thing will come in question then his POV will be of prime importance

My POV..

I jus wanted to say one more thing Mny who hve experienced motherhood or fatherhood for the very first time...the joys of it cant be expressed in words, the emotions are so high and overwhelming that it completely changes lifes perspective n experiences in seconds... N tis is exactly wat Dev is experiencing rite now ..A new role ..Tat of a newborn Father!! For him Soha is born a day before n he is in complete dazed ,shocked ,happy n in emotional state!

Agree on some of the things.

Dev not calling sona - apologizing or assuring that he wont do anything stupid and ask sona to rest assured.. this is not happening yet only because...

Cvs want us to show ishu getting a taste of soha (by chance).. now ishu will get greedy and send custody notice to sona on behalf of dev ... bijoy will scream "see i told u so"... ishu will say " i did it for your happiness dev"... sona will say "mr. abhodro- how dare you",.. that will be the time for dev to standup and ask ishu to shut up and take the case back