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Posted: 8 years ago
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I Thought We live in a modern world..Where Rules and rights R equal For all..Men and women have same Power..
But I was Wrong..I realized It By watching This serial.or I would say any Indian tv serial. That women r Superior..They have the utmost Power..They are always Right

Being a woman i should Be Happy after seeing this..with a Big shock i am a Bit disappointed..


Yes I want woman to be on Top ..But i will not support So called Woman power Or feminism where a Woman's Mistakes r overlooked..Or i should say i don't want such kind of Women power Where Perspective are different for men and women in same case..

More Of Man and woman..I Never want such A Woman power where A Mother is always Supposed to be Right..and father;s all antics are always questionable..


I am talking about last night episode again..people r still saying that Dev Is resposible for soha's reaction..her trauma..His way was wrong..He is heartless. couldn't see anything beyond His happiness.He is STUPID That he said the truth to a 6 yrs old girl..she is STUPID bcz he Didn't hide.He is STUPID cz he shares his feeling..He is STUPID cz he gave her the freedom to do what she wants

On the other hand Sona is called MATURE when she told the half truth about her father,she was Called MATURE When She gave the Power Of Taking decision To Soha..She was Called MATURE when she Couldn't See That Soha Wants To Meet Her father.She was Called MATURE when She treats Her 6 yrs lil Kid as An adult.She was Called MATURE when She Said truth To Her daughter.

I want To know why This differences..just Beacuse She is Mother..So that Means Whatever She Does would be called a MATURITY..And Just bcz Dev is soha's new Born Father Whatever he Does Would Be called a STUPIDITY.


Dev's action has been Called Wrong and the amin reason is How sohana reacts..Yes That girl was shocked.That girl ran away..But did u really notice why she ran..She was shocked and that was natural..From where ever She wud come to know about it She wud Be shocked.But te after reaction was not just because Dev's revelation..It was her Dilemma ..Cause she ran Than when she remembered Her promise To her mom.When Her Mom's Face came in front of her She Turned Her face away From Her father.If she didn't make any promise to her Mom she would have hugged her father Right then..cause that girl always felt the lacking Of Him.she always Thought about her father.and every time she mentioned She is Not angry with him.Every time she closed the Topic by saying That I Promised My Mom i won't meet him.for once she never mention she Doesn't want to meet her..


So where The maturity of her mom was when she was Hiding her wish Behind Her promise.
Now when It was about to understand Dev soha Labeled as a Lil kid..But when people talk about Understanding sona By Soha she became the mature one..So that means if she decide Not to meet Her father that is ,maturity But if she ran in dilemma Thinking about Promise she became a Kid..so Matter Is Understsnding With Sona She is matre..Understanding dev Poor kid..Women Power

Why the rules R different for both parents.1 Is called stupid when he Told the truth Without consider h The situation and Other Is calling Mature who Is happy with the Promise And not seeing the wish of a Little Heart. And understanding her emotions.

When Sona told her Truth That was an wise decision..When Dev told her truth That was a Heartless Decision..If now this act wud have been done sona That wu Became the Most honest and Mature decision.Remember Sohana's was Not Bcz Of dev Bt bcz f the promise She made to her Mother.Dev didn't even know that Her daughter In the sake of making her Mother happy Has been promised to never meet him..
It's not always possible That a person Is always mature and other is always stupid..Mother Is always right and father is always wrong

If that so then i have to say Ishwari is a Mother so Do U Call her right and mature and Bijoy is a father and wil u do the honor to call her stupid and wrong

U won't..Cause some finds bijoy hiding dev's daughter as a Role of a protector SomeMay have also find by taking away soha To kolkata Forver a wise Decision.so If his this stupid And full Of cheappness act Can Be considered as A Role of father Or right of father..Then Dev's telling the truth his own daughter can never Be Wrong Neither His way..

If hiding ur On ur back is Correct If Giving The Right To Decide to your Lil girl is correct If don't understanding Ur Daughter's wish is maturity Then obviously what dev Did.\,said all Can't be A Stupidity Or wrong

Remember Boses r The most overrted good people and Dev Is The Most Overrated Villain

Cause every One Is Doing that for their own Self..SoNa Bijoy r Not Hiding Soha For soha's well Being they are also doing it for their happiness/..they dn't want dev To Come closer to her..cause not Let Meeting a daughter to her father can never be for her well being..So If U think dev is also being selfish Then don't forget other have already Been selfish from a Long time who U feel Proud of..If Bijoy's Activities r considered As perfect father's Love then Dev is Undoubtely can be called The best father In the world

P.S. whoever likes it come in..who Doesn't don't waste energy.

P.P.S use Whatever Color u wants to..No restriction on that




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Posted: 8 years ago
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there is no right wrong time 4 revelation..

d great bijoy said this once how come pro sona forgot this🤪

d way dev handled brilliant,,its a very complex situation n who can handle it perfect but d complex man himself..he is more matured than ish ..he is as enthu as ish 4 suhana but d way he controlled his emotions marvelous..👏

suhana ..this girl stole d show with her price less aghast expressions...brilliant...shaheer aliya duo made magic yestdy.❤️...dev perfectly handled it with ease


P.S. I ll repeat what farah khan said once that I dont like playing female card ...exactly when we say both r equal so we should whole heartedly accept d mistakes also made by both...its useless to visit this forum now
Edited by dhank - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree there are mistakes from both dev and sona. Beauty is sona can openly agree that she too is at fault in front of her friend and rule out her fathers decisions.
So far we never saw dev even remotely thinking that he too might have wronged. He is too extreme either fully doing a maa jaap or royally ignoring her.

His eagerness to meet his daughter upon knowing the truth isunderstandable. But the urge to know the truth stemming up from his jealously when he sees sona and Jatin with soha is unacceptable.
There are a few in the forum who bash both sona and dev equally. Yeah dev gets bashed more often not because we find fault with him, but rather we expect him to take stand. We are more frustrated with his "inactiveness" rather than his deeds. We bash ishwari for what she has done , while dev gets bashed for what he has not done.😆

At least in soha case we want to see him taking action!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings

I agree there are mistakes from both dev and sona. Beauty is sona can openly agree that she too is at fault in front of her friend and rule out her fathers decisions.

So far we never saw dev even remotely thinking that he too might have wronged. He is too extreme either fully doing a maa jaap or royally ignoring her.

His eagerness to meet his daughter upon knowing the truth isunderstandable. But the urge to know the truth stemming up from his jealously when he sees sona and Jatin with soha is unacceptable.
There are a few in the forum who bash both sona and dev equally. Yeah dev gets bashed more often not because we find fault with him, but rather we expect him to take stand. We are more frustrated with his "inactiveness" rather than his deeds. We bash ishwari for what she has done , while dev gets bashed for what he has not done.😆

At least in soha case we want to see him taking action!!



Lol..u forgot the episode where he infront of the whole family admits he was a nakaam pati..

and of course that was Not jealousy what made him to find the truth,..it was his feelkings and attraction towards soha What made It To do..Don't forget he starts stalking and finding out ruth Only when he came To know That jatin is not her father..so it's very logical That he definitely will Try To find out Why soha nad soha R related

dev only get bashed Bcz Mx ppl can always find him In fault..now last night about soha and dev there was No ishwari..after leap almost in every episode He got bashed Whereelse He was giving proper treatment to ish..so my dear Moral is dev was is will always be bashed..no matter he is at fault or not
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhank

there is no right wrong time 4 revelation..

d great bijoy said this once how come pro sona forgot this🤪

d way dev handled brilliant,,its a very complex situation n who can handle it perfect but d complex man himself..he is more matured than ish ..he is as enthu as ish 4 suhana but d way he controlled his emotions marvelous..👏

suhana ..this girl stole d show with her price less aghast expressions...brilliant...shaheer aliya duo made magic yestdy.❤️...dev perfectly handled it with ease


P.S. I ll repeat what farah khan said once that I dont like playing female card ...exactly when we say both r equal so we should whole heartedly accept d mistakes also made by both...its useless to visit this forum now


exactly it's useless..People r one sided...and royally refuse to see the other side.i personally like the sentence by Farah khan..This is Disappointing every time to see the feminism kind of analysis .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with u...
Don't know why so much hypocrisy when it's comes to sonakshi and dev...both r same and both have done similar mistake but i think there is habbit to find out wrong about dev even when he was not wrong.

I mean seriously now dev who is father also didn't have rights to express his feelings to her daughter.
And father have to look for times to reveal or share his feelings to her child.

He separated 7 years from her and now expecting him to not say the truth if soha is in shock situation then I think blame should be share with sonakshi also because of her promise, soha not able to express her happiness towards his father
Edited by rahulvats12 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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brilliant post dear...👏
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Originally posted by: randomramblings

I agree there are mistakes from both dev and sona. Beauty is sona can openly agree that she too is at fault in front of her friend and rule out her fathers decisions.

So far we never saw dev even remotely thinking that he too might have wronged. He is too extreme either fully doing a maa jaap or royally ignoring her.

His eagerness to meet his daughter upon knowing the truth isunderstandable. But the urge to know the truth stemming up from his jealously when he sees sona and Jatin with soha is unacceptable.
</div><div>There are a few in the forum who bash both sona and dev equally. Yeah dev gets bashed more often not because we find fault with him, but rather we expect him to take stand. We are more frustrated with his "inactiveness" rather than his deeds. We bash ishwari for what she has done , while dev gets bashed for what he has not done.😆

At least in soha case we want to see him taking action!!



I couldn't resist myself from quoting your post ...glad you shared why many people bash Dev .Like you said there are some neutral memebers here but mostly there are blind haters because there are different rules for each character.This might be the reason why most of the people feel IF forum is biased compared to other social media .

One thing consistent about Sonakshi's character from season 1 to season 2 is she has many good qualities but she would rnever own up her mistakes ..be it during Ritwick's engagement or even today .Dev might have some flaws but he is the one who doesn't hesitate to own up his mistakes and apologize .Let me share few instances why I feel so .

Even after bitter breakup and after knowing his ex wife hid about his daughter (for whatever reasons ) he proudly said his daughter is like her mother .He was infact happy to know Sonakshi finally became a mother instead of feeling happy for himself.On the other hand I have never seen the same kind of genuine happiness from Sonakshi when Soha spoke about Dev .If Sona was hurt due to Dev's words then Dev was equally hurt because of her false accusations.

Even in segment Dev clearly stopped Ishwari from manipulating Soha but Sonakshi could never stop Bijoy from scaring Soha or influencing her decision.

Dev the mama's boy understood his mother's role in the breakup but unfortunately Sonakshi doesn't want to acknowledge her Baba's role .Even today she lets him control her life be it spying on her or his way of controlling Soha .

Dev never once wanted to remove Sonakshi from Soha's life ..segment is the proof but Sonakshi convinently removed Dev's name from school records or birth certificate...it contradicts when she says she never wanted to separate father daughter duo or she gave the freedom to Soha .I don't see how it's beneficial for Soha if her father name is removed from records ..I only see it as the reason to get back at Dev .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Agree with u...

Don't know why so much hypocrisy when it's comes to sonakshi and dev...both r same and both have done similar mistake but o think there is habbit to find out wrong from dev even when he was not wrong.

I mean seriously now dev who is father also didn't have rights to express his feelings to her daughter.
And father have to look for times to reveal or share his feelings to her child.

He separated 7 years from her and now expecting him to not say the truth if soha is in shock situation then I think blame should be share with sonakshi also because of her promise, soha not able to express her happiness towards his father

Exactly. The mental trauma this lil girl is facing sonakshi us equally responsible for this.. She wanted to love and accept her father but her mom's promise stopped her.. Poor people can't even see what cvs r trying to show
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Posted: 8 years ago
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brilliant post dear...👏


Thank you dear😳

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